MULANEY

I've been married for 10 years. My wife looks good but doesnt have nearly the sex drive that i do. We have sex an appropriate amount of time, but i can tell she is doing it to go through the motions because she knows how much i need it. I feel guilty as all hell that i hit up SC's but i am not able to control the desire of extras with a hot little spinner with a gfe experience which is something i cant get at home. This is probably a unique perspective because i figure married guys either arent into their wives anymore, or dont feel guilty. But the short answer in why i go if im married to an attractive woman is i miss the gf experience and want me some strange.

I have been mongering in the SC scene for a couple years now and have never worked up enough nerve to ask for or go through with OTC. Eventually i will take the plunge but it will be on a business trip where my chances of anonymity are much higher.

This is my neck of the woods and I've been to almost every single one of the NY, PA,NJ ones and here is my take: If you are judging them from an extras standpoint you can immediately take off the list the Manhattan ones ( The lido Room, Private Eyes, Scores). As far as the other ones, Johnny A's should be at the top of the list if you are judging from an extras standpoint followed distantly by the others.

@Subraman never thought about it that way. Always figured i had a keen sense of smell and couldnt smell anything so it wasnt there. The solution of keeping a spair change of clothes: What do you do when you get home and your SO asks why you changed clothes from when you left the house? In my mind id rather slink in with same clothes and pray she doesnt smell it than to come in with a completely different set of clothing on and have to answer those questions.

Weird. I haven't been mongering for so long (4 years) but have had my fair share of experiences and NOT ONCE have i noticed a smell, makeup etc. I DO douse myself with TONS of purell after but that's for germs not smell. Once my jimmy stops burning from all the purell i then look for period blood on my clothes but that's just because of that scene in superbad that created that fear.