Comments by JeffTUSCL (page 2)

Using myself as an example, I am not married and no girlfriend currently so I don't care about that aspect of being known. But I do have a good job and a mortgage and all the perks of being a professional human being, so I do everything I can to minimize any connection of myself to anything that, if got blasted on the evening news, would seriously make a negative and permanent dent on the rest of my life. I am always low-key, don't go by my full name and usually use my nickname. I use cash 100% in all situations and never use any ATMs near to any "lewd activity" location. I use a VPN service whenever I feel like I am seeking or sharing information which might be questionable, and don't post on sites that have no SSL security. I will turn off GPS and sometimes phone service itself depending on where I'm going and if it's practical I will not park directly at the location. Partly not because I don't want to be tied to my car but I know that if I happen to be napped on something I'd rather pick my car up from being towed than being impounded. I have a pre-paid burner phone where all my p4p's go, which is left off most of the time. For OTC I prefer my place and not hotels. I am still in many ways on the grid and if I were the detective trying to pin me on something, I could manage a way. Yet for someone else trying to pin me on something, the fingerprint is so faded that nothing could ever stick.

Cameras exist everywhere now, at least in public places, and most businesses nowadays would be crazy not to have cameras in their common areas at least. Just presume your face is on camera all the way up until you enter a private room and you may want to consider that a concealed camera is in any private room that you yourself do not have any control over. Before you start getting scared shitless over it, realize that recordings from cameras operated by private entities can only get into LE's hands if there is a crime being investigated and generally unless you are the target of their investigation you really shouldn't worry about it. Of course there are fringe situations where someone captured on camera during an investigation just happens to overlap the time of investigation and incriminate themselves. Like Robert Kraft allegedly did (twice) at the massage parlor in Florida. Keep in mind that visiting a strip club is not illegal. Visiting a massage parlor is not illegal. Just don't put yourself in situations where you might be entrapped and if you are ever questioned by police then use your 5th Amendment rights and don't say anything, at least not without a lawyer present.

If founder would extend the login expiration I would post more. The constant changing around of the menus is also a huge annoyance. Hire a designer for christ sake.

If it's Apple then it is more like #iToo

The app probably updated and needs to be re-added from your installed apps back to your home screen. Sometimes happens with apps.

I don't think I fall into that category but do have a perspective about it from the other side. I like to nut (or should I say NEED to nut) just like anyone else and if that's all I want to do then I can fire up some porn and go at it. I crave the human touch part, and since I am often times not in a relationship and not able to quickly jump into one like most people seem to be able to, then I need a way to satisfy that need. I have found if I get the human touch aspect 1 or 2 times a week, I am far less likely to fall into depressed or irritated moods. I also am drawn to the fake relationship where I focus on a specific girl or two and am happy to see them regularly than trying to find a new girl constantly. I'm not referring to strip clubs, that is only a recent activity of mine, I'm talking about p4p. I am a miserable failure at one night stands and am often also working and not exactly able to date normally. But I have human needs and often they are just physical needs but a good amount of the time they are needs of craving that can't be satisfied by just whacking off. The love doll thing is just weird, it seems like that is the path of people who are both extremely desperate or mentally ill. Maybe it it was a fully functioning robot that came across like a real human it might make sense. I do understand that any p4p relationship is not a genuine relationship but when comparing that to nothing then I choose that even if it means the illusion fools me sometimes into thinking it's real. My logical mind knows it's not real but it feels real enough to the part of my mind that has the craving of human touch, wanting to be wanted, wanting companionship and a feeling of caring. When I've been going to strip clubs, it's been all about entertaining the pure sexual and in a way that doesn't need to be scheduled. Most clubs are open late and there's usually always at least one girl I'd be up for doing pleasurable things with. It is in those cases just to nut but with the touch of an attractive girl to make it happen is so much better than a solo adventure. Of all the times I've gone to strip clubs now, since that is all it's about and that's all I have experienced, it was really a big change of experience to have this sort of more intimate type of thing happen. It also seemed a surprise since I had seen this girl on stage the first time I ever went to this particular club and found her looks and vibe mesmerizing but had not been able to see her again until recently. Her shifts just never seemed to ever overlap when I went but I had always kept her in the back of my mind that if I saw her again I would get to know her. So when I finally did, this happened. Maybe because I wasn't treating her like a sexual object? Could have been my unconscious behaviors that opened the door to it.

To answer a question: >>> Do you want to make out with a girl who's been sucking dicks all night long though? It was very obvious in my time with her so far that she's not an extras girl other than direct hand play on the stick-shifter. She doesn't offer any menu, doesn't ask for anything extra. I may be wrong, but so far it doesn't seem to be the case. Her breath was totally fine and did not smell like mouthwash either.

Why doesn't he just buy the National Enquirer and then use it for toilet paper? If I were him with the money he has I would give no fucks and walk into their front lobby and leave a huge steaming dump for them.

Of the clubs I've gone to it would be somewhere between 5% to 10% on average no more. I've found that most strippers are just normal women willing to take their clothes off. I have been to 2 clubs in LA where the % would be 30% but they're also the most expensive.

If she's not nude, how am I supposed to finger her?

My experience is the same as Papi, if I didn't stumble here or if nobody in my life ever told me about the reality in some places, I would think the most gotten at any SC in the US is busting in my pants and the rest being bullshit because Chris Rock told me "there's no sex in the champagne room". I believe that most guys will think this way. In some clubs the dancers are very overt in what they offer but those ones tack on such a huge $ amount to it that it would make most guys turn away. How many guys have an extra $250-300 or more in their pockets? I do but most don't.

Don't know but now your profile is under "people also viewed" on her account. Good luck with that!

This coworker will Google for strip clubs, find this site, encounter your description and know exactly who you are at work and out you. Topics like this with highly detailed information are horrible ideas.

I forgot, it's all stitched together with Notepad and 2 CSS files whose only entries are varying shades of white and gray. Every time someone posts, the only code that is running on the site randomly re-positions the menus to make the site harder to navigate than the last page.

If you changed anything in the database that would be the culprit. Also run some table checks, just 1 partially corrupt table will slow things to a crawl. Or a highly fragmented index.

I don't remember the club name, somewhere in SF while visiting a friend, 1 or 2 years out of college. I'd never been to a strip club before. Thought it was great just watching, I had no idea there was anything else going on. It was a small club, could not have been more than 5 or girls dancing at the time. I don't think we were there more than an hour.

Sex trafficking is so hugely over-inflated that the virtue signaling hype around it is at levels of absurdity. It is always mixed into the broader human trafficking going on, and gives LE too much leverage to put their noses into the lives of consenting adults. The whole "if just 1 life is saved" is complete horseshit. That logic can be used on anything as an excuse to abuse everyone's rights at any moment.

It's so obvious this was a setup for a threesome but you missed the boat.

Montreal may be open about escort services but they still have strict laws against bordellos, pimping and street walking. They allow consenting adults to do what they want and tolerate the agencies, but a strip club allowing too high mileage might run afoul of the law. I'm aware of a few clubs well outside the city in the "farm lands" that are basically full service joints but in the city you might only get a HJ and not in very many places. You can touch, that is liberally allowed, in most places but beyond that is a crap shoot. The escort option is better, and usually if it's one of the more prolific agencies the girl will look very much like her picture if not exactly like it. A lot of the massage places that have a cadre of Quebec girls are worth trying out but will cost almost as much as an escort. That's still not a lot, for CAD $200 you can get a hot 20-something Quebec girl to come to your hotel for an hour. If it's a new girl might be CAD $180 and the exchange rate is excellent now, I've been toying with taking a trip on my ext vacation. There used to be useful review site for Montreal escorts but it had some trouble, changed domains, and now when I look at the forum it's mostly useless.

I would suggest wearing a pair of binoculars. You'll look just as stupid but at least will be more practical.

If you get sex that easily in a "meh, whatever' kind of way, why do you go to strip clubs?

Ironically he probably shot her in between the eyes many times over their 4 year "relationship".

Can we please leave the public coordination of services off the discussions please? It's already obvious that BBS just uses the site as a lure. It's all pleasant & such but a tad obvious, now we have pubic winks & nudges of planned rendezvous, just leave that to PMs.

Why don't we just get rid of all the drop-shadow boxes and any styling at all. It's about 99% there already. I mean, it's only 2019, who needs a web UI? Just give us plain text and links. Take it all the way to Courier New. Or maybe it's the menu. Sometimes it's on the left, sometimes on the right, sometimes a the top. Same links in menu? Why bother? Make it different in every variation. Sometimes a favorites link, sometimes not. Sometimes a login link, sometimes not. Sometimes icons next to the words, sometimes not. One step further and it can be made 100% random. Just roll the dice. What I'm saying is although the site is interesting for it's content, from a usability standpoint it's eye rape.

>>> "Jeff, that was equal parts arrogant and heartless. Should a 22 year old girl be homeless for months or years just because she made a bad choice at some point? And I'm not talking about murder or some other heinous act." We're all accountable for our decisions. Why does a dancer deserve any more pity or charity than the next human being? These girls mean more to you because you're a customer of theirs and feel a connection to that kind of lifestyle, but significantly more people end up with hardships in life due to forces outside their control. The weather, the economy, a disaster, being victims of a crime, or illness. Having a child: a decision Doing drugs: a decision Choosing to strip instead of a regular job: a decision Hanging around shady people: a decision Not educating oneself: a decision