Comments by justaguy79 (page 2)

@Subra, FBSM is only really available in a few cities. And let's not kid ourselves, the cops would still call it a trafficking bust even if the girls were all American.

No, civilian women hate sex workers way more than men do, because sex workers are effectively undercutting civilian women on price. And of course, wives hate sex workers the most, because they think that money is theirs.

@FTS I strongly suspect that this is some outlier-driven BS. What plausible mechanism would make a big treasury spread cause a market bottom, precisely 17y + 1m later? It's a kind of magical thinking to believe that this sort of analysis can produce actionable insights, and not just the kind of noise you get when there isn't that much data, and the tails are fat.

In my experience, nearly all women, pro or civilian are into being dominated to some degree.

Pulling a girl's hair is such an important part of fucking. If she has rules about that, it's probably going to be one and done. Nearly as bad as no kissing.

Pulling a girl's hair is such an important part of fucking. If she has rules about that, it's probably going to be one and done. Nearly as bad as no kissing.

Bet they are partying in Hyannisport.

Man, are you ASKING SA girls what they "want?" That's just inviting her to lead with her pie in the sky number, and then you have to cajole her down from that, often at a steep emotional cost. You should be opening with a number 100 less than you're willing to spend. Also "300" gets a lot more negative reaction than "1500 for 5." And girls will act more insulted at a low "offer" than the same number framed as "my last arrangement was..." Finally, I don't ask what she "wants" or what would "make her happy," I ask what she thinks is "fair." I have sent a shit ton of messages and I believe these frame games are effective.

@jefftuscl you got a false premise there, my friend. We are living in a golden age of "open-minded babes," where for all you know, the early 20s cutie in line at Starbucks would like nothing more than to spend an afternoon getting choke-fucked by a middle aged guy with a beer gut and thinning hair for a few hundred bucks. Now, as @RD points out, investigating the question doing cold approaches at Starbucks will get you arrested. That's what SA is for.

The most memorably filmic moment I ever witnessed in a SC was a visibly pregnant stripper dancing to the Smiths' "How soon is now" ("I am human and I need to be loved..."). In retrospect I should have asked her about OTC.

@Subra Exactly. The problem it solves is you. Or rather, regulars generally, who exploit the uncertainty inherent in the marketplace of the club to monopolize in-demand girls' time for less than it's really worth.

Did you ever see that movie, Leaving Las Vegas? It's kind of like that, but with a lot more girls, and I only drink 2-3 Coors lights a night.

Agree w/@RD, just ask for what you want. Leading with, "Girl #2 sucked my dick, so... " is likely to backfire. Both because she probably knows better than you how many dicks girl#2 has sucked, and because it's a passive aggressive bitch negotiating style.

I should clarify: some girls are ready, even anxious to go all the way the first time we meet, but generally the higher quality girls are not, and can get scared off by any talk of intimacy too early in the conversation. These girls are usually happy to do a platonic meet & greet over drinks or coffee the first time. Nearly every girl I've spent 20 minutes chatting with at the first meet has been ready to suck balls the second time (first "real date"). The flake rate for post-meet & greet dates is much lower also. @RandomMember, girls who are three decades younger than me aren't legal yet. @Nixur68 Lots of girls create a profile and then forget about it. I only bother messaging girls who've been on the site in the last week. It is a numbers game, so you need a good boilerplate opener. I'm currently using: [generic compliment] [description of what I'm looking for in terms of meeting frequencies and times] "Would you be comfortable with that?" With predictive text or copy-paste you can bang out a message to all the girls you might enjoy fucking who might actually see the message in a relatively short amount of time. I'm my experience about half of my openers get some kind of reply. Cute girls who are frequently logged in get a ton of messages, so if she hasn't replied to the opener after a week I'll try to bump myself to the top of her list, ideally while she's logged in (green dot). I always try to end a message with a yes/no question (the right answer is yes). Also "comfortable" is a great word, I use it a lot.

In my experience, a baby stripper is still getting used to the idea of stripping and doing laps. It's unlikely that she's going to be comfortable meeting you in a hotel room and spending an hour with your balls in her mouth after a couple drinks. If an SA girl shows up for a date, she's usually ready to do exactly that. Baby escort? What's that? It takes time and effort to get established as a TER-tier escort. Most of those girls have been in the business a long time by the time by the time I get to see them. And they don't do meet & greets, so there's no low risk way to see if she's as cute as her pictures and has a fun attitude or not. Occasionally you see a girl who advertises an SA-like experience (young, beautiful, low-volume) but usually those girls charge exorbitant rates. Around here 98% of BP-tier girls I wouldn't fuck for free. The few cute ones usually burn out really quick. I'm not saying it's impossible to find a similar experience in a different segment of the market, but even accounting for the 50+% flake rate on 1st dates, it's way more common on SA than anywhere else. It probably depends a lot on your location, though. SCs around here are pretty lame.

...and the newbie SA girls are just a completely different thing. High volume sex work is the female equivalent of trench warfare. It changes them. They may be hot, but they've stared into the abyss too long. The best SA girls are still in the denial stage (but they say yes to me

Sure, theoretically. But I've been perving in various ways for about 20 years, and I've had more amazing experiences in 6 months of SA than all the rest put together.

SA has massively lowered the barrier to entry for girls to enter the sex industry (part of this is the euphemistic narrative that it isn't really sex work), which shifts the market in favor of guys. The fact that SA girls have more control over who sees them naked and fucks them makes it a viable option for lots of girls who wouldn't mind doing something naughty for a little extra money, but would never think of taking their clothes off in front of a roomful of strangers, or putting up an escort ad. The downside of this is that there are a lot of dabblers who won't ever actually fuck anyone (or maybe they're holding out for LITERALLY early 40s Richard Gere). This and the usual personality issues are why more than half of SA girls flake on the first date, in my experience. But the upside is that the good ones are fucking amazing. Young, smart, clean, tight little man pleasers. And this is in Memphis, which is a fucking shithole. It tests my patience some weeks, but when you manage to get a good one into the boat it's a transcendent experience.

I've dated 3 strippers. All 3 I met in the club, when I was young (late 20s early 30s) and frankly shouldn't have been spending what little money I had then in a SC. So I had no fear of being taken advantage of, b/c I was pretty broke. All hot girls are a little crazy, and the stripper lifestyle amplifies the natural crazy. If you're fucking a stripper for free, enjoy it for what it is, and assume each time she leaves that that's the last time you'll ever see her, and you'll be pleasantly surprised when she comes back (for a few weeks, anyway).

Just make a fake account.

Booze and hot sluts. When I was late 20s-early 30s, I would occasionally find a girl who wanted me to fuck her for free. Unlike civilian girls, these girls were DTF instantaneously.

Harmony in NYC. On ass-c back in the 90s, a cohort of PLs was always whining about how nothing would ever be as good. PLs never change.

This thread is a shitshow. I can't believe how many guys on here have essentially the same view of the social order as some silly undergrad feminist (social construction, privilege, "racism"). How can you sit there observing unvarnished reality for so long, and still persist in these delusions?

Ovulation is caused by a surge of LH. LH makes you horny. Horny strippers are the best strippers, so yes.

I created an account on SB, but I couldn't figure out a way to buy credits anonymously, so I've been ignoring it. If anyone knows how to do that, let me know.