Comments by justaguy79 (page 3)

I saw some discussion of this a few weeks ago, when it was time for me to renew. Figured I'd try it anyway (the cost of the prepaid cards is not much to risk). I got a prepaid visa from the supermarket and it worked just fine. I just registered the card to an apartment building I know the address of, and entered the numbers, no email, no service ticket. The card says "Valid only in US" right on the front, but it worked just fine. This was in late July.

Historians will describe this moment as the spark that ultimately led to the Boomercaust.

Brings a whole new meaning to the term, "stripper shit."

The "GF" is a 4.

How can you guys have been going to SCs for decades and still not know elementary shit about how pussy works?

Christianity is false, but Calvinism is true. The elect get sucked, the damned suck.

SA is Seeking Arrangement, a sugar daddy/baby dating website. In my experience it's dramatically shifted the sex market in favor of the purchaser, at least in areas that were poorly served by more traditional options.

I was concerned that I might have some trouble renewing after reading this, but the visa gift card I bought with cash at the ghetto supermarket worked just fine, despite clearly saying, "only for use in the US," on the back.

I'm curious what you were accused of to get suspended. I basically never discuss sex or money via the SA messaging system, always take it to text after a little get-acquainted chatting. I've been doing it for 2 months, I've interviewed 6 girls, "auditioned" 4, 2 of whom I've continued to see. The sex in each instance has been far better than any other commercial sexual experience I've had. The most obvious reason for this is that the girls I've met all have another source of income, so they can afford to be lower-volume than all but the most expensive pros. As a result, they still respond to getting fucked like normal women, not in the detached, shell-shocked manner of an equivalently priced ($300-500) escort. Also, in the best cases SA allows a more natural male-female dynamic than is usually possible in other parts of the sex industry, by facilitating a narrative that women find sexy rather than disgusting. "I have an arrangement with a successful, generous man," is a much sexier story line for a woman than, "I'm a prostitute/escort/stripper who allows losers who have to pay for sex to use my body," even if, in reality, both are describing the same thing (man & woman meet, he fucks her in a hotel room, she goes home with a few hundred more dollars than she had before). Because "successful" for them is like "hot" for us. When it works (which is admittedly infrequent, I sent initial messages to ~200 girls to get 2 regulars I really like) SA relationships can break the cycle of mutual contempt epitomized by the worst of SW v. TUSCL.

If the hotel room has a safe, you can put anything you don't want her to see/steal in there. Of course, that won't stop her from letting someone else into the room while you're sleeping. It's a shame it's so tricky to arrange, because being awakened by a hot chick sucking your cock is pretty much the best feeling in the world.

SCs in DC are lame because too many guys with money there can't risk being seen in public perving out. The "private viewing"/high-end massage scene there is the best bang for the buck. Basically a back room without the rest of the club.

If you're for real, you'd better be posting securely. That comment about wanting to use the threat of arrest to extort BJs from girls (actually you didn't specify) might come back to haunt you, otherwise.

@PhatBoy99 You're the guy who was in here crying when she didn't respond to your texts for a few days, right? You have nothing locked down, because you don't have YOURSELF locked down. "Things are good right now"? That's nice. What are you going to do when that changes? Your problem is that you CARE whether or not things are good or bad with this girl. That gives her power over you. She could ruin your day by making a stinky face. What if she disappears for a night, or a week? If she is more to you than one of a number of pussies you're considering, she's in charge. When she realizes that, she's going to start looking for a stronger man.

She's disgusting. Ugly, obnoxious and dumb.

@flagooner Many SA girls will, if you ask nicely.

LOL, fuck that. At the risk of becoming a one-note SA shill, this is another great thing about SA: why should I bother jumping through hoops for an escort, when there are 30 girls in my phone who are just as cute, provide a more fun experience, will hang out and fuck for 2-3 hours for the same price as an hour with the escort, and all the verification they require is a blurred face pic, a few texts from my burner, and to meet them for a drink for 15 minutes in the hotel bar beforehand? The only advantages the escort has are that she's a lot more likely than an SA girl to be ready on time, and I don't have to pay for the room (but the room is a lot cheaper than an extra 1-2 hours with the escort). In most cases not worth the trouble.

I have gone to a SC a few times recently to scout a prospect from SA. Having another "mission" makes me more discriminating about who I get dances with. On one occasion, I went, drank 2 beers, didn't see the girl I was looking for, left without getting any dances, and didn't feel any of the disappointment that I typically would in a situation like that. SA has really helped me develop an abundance mindset with respect to pussy for sale, that has made me a happier and better consumer, even in non-SA contexts.

@chessmaster It's an example of maladaptive reward learning, with sexual arousal as the reward stimulus. Guys call it thinking with the little head. Q: Why do keep going back/give thousands of dollars to this person, when he/she is so obviously dumb/lazy/manipulative/(emotionally) abusive? A: B/c he/she makes me horny.

The stripper-shitbag BF relationship and the PL-stripper relationship are fundamentally the same thing. She spends time with him for the same reason we spend money on her.

Not sure which is more risky...

@RandomMember dittos to @PaulDrake's question: are you seeing your college girls in your home, or are they signing you in at the dorm security desk?