Friending a dancers on social media?
PaulDrake
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So recently my ATF offered to be friends with me on social media. I pretty quickly politely declined (to which she seemed surprised and a little miffed). Although I would love to do it the risk seems too great considering I am married. I don't want her to know my last name, I don't want other dancers in the club to even know my real first name, and I don't think giving a stripper potential access to possibly directly contact my wife is a good idea. On the other hand I am probably being a little too cautious, I have been seeing this ATF for almost a year so she has earned a good bit of trust.
Has anyone ever had a good/bad experience friending a dancer on social media?
Has anyone ever had a good/bad experience friending a dancer on social media?
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However, after seeing several dancers Instagram accounts (thanks to Juice), they have everything in one place.
But, since you have more to lose with a wife and family, it’s best to be safe and secure.
What good might come from sharing my social media account with a stripper?
Then weigh what negative shit might come from sharing. I’m guessing the negative shit outweighs the positive.
It can be pretty fun, even incredibly fun, to be on a stripper's snapchat (and Instagram, and to a far lesser extent, facebook), and worth starting up your own stripper-only facebook account. With the caveat that facebook digs deep into your contacts to make connections -- there's a real chance that if you run the facebook app on your phone, it will figure out the connection between both your accounts and your stripper, which means your stripper might find your real account
Divorced, or single? Then go for it, everyone already assumes you’re a perv anyway.
My ATF is friends on my real account. I asked her to so she’d know if anything ever happened to me that might prevent me from contacting her.
I long ago forbade *any* social media app or web site access to my contacts. Hopefully, that’s enough.
I encourage everyone I meet to add my Instagram cuz I post my work schedule, travel schedule and promote my pay site there as well as post sexy (and random) pics!
I have separate accounts for my regular life aka things my family and non-industry friends.
Linzeedet on insta
Linzee Detroit on facebook
Linzeedetroit on patreon
:)
If you and your ATF have more than just an ITC/P4P relationship then I don't see a problem with it. You can be friends with a dancer as you would with any other person you might meet out on the streets.
What is interesting is my ATF unfriended me on FB because her boyfriend had access to her account and was always checking her friend list.
Naw she ‘aight. Gotta put my hoes to work.
I've had one stripper like that, ultra-controlling, ultra-jealous (and rightfully so, I was fucking his girl OTC) boyfriend, super toxic relationship. It's just as well you don't end up involved in whatever drama they have
If he has a separate phone for mongering - that would be better. It’s important to be safe - as Facebook definitely mines your interactions - and when his list of suggested friends becomes filled with strippers - that might cause an issue.
Exactly what I was saying. And if you're worried about anonymity, the reverse is true, too -- she'll eventually get a friend suggestion of his real facebook. Even if facebook doesn't have access to your contacts, I'm guessing that if you access both accounts from the same phone, it can tell those accounts are from the same IP address some of the time, and connect them. Just guessing; all I know is, these social media apps, and communication apps like WhatsApp, Voxer, Kik, seem to be incredibly aggressive at finding connections.
If you have a job, wife, or even a mother - dont give dancers your real social media or real phone number for god’s sake.
If you dont have a second account..... get one. Stripper Snap chat and instagram is always good for a laugh. If you thought you heard a lot of stripper drama at the club., just wait until you see what they do on social media. Don’t even bother with facebook, unl;ess yuour CF is over 30
If you have an Android phone.... get an app called Parallel Space.
And a hidden app launcher.
What I’m really surprised is that many of the girls use their real fucking names in the social media that they give to you. I’m sure the experienced dancers like LinzeeDet use a fake account for their customers. It’s amazing how much you can find out about someone if they give you their real social media account. A quick google search after finding the real identity of a dancer usually includes a mugshot.