Comments by PaulDrake (page 3)

R/stripclubs has had a steady slow increase in people posting. So if you want a place to talk about clubs without all of the off topic stuff you should check it out.

@nicespice - The level of vitirol here against only fans is more than I expected for sure and I think you're right about the reasons behind it. For me I have always just found it annoying because OF girls seem to advertise in places they aren't supposed to. They are constantly posting on sugaring forums and sites and I even get dmed on my vanilla personal IG by some of them that seem to message and follow thousands of random guys. I am surprised OF girls haven't flooded this forum in masse.

In response to frankie and twentyfives comment about the ranking. I assumed guys would see it the opposite way. Someone who is ranked really high on the site doesn't have to put in time and effort for any one individual customer. I would be more interested in subscribing to someone who is ranked lower versus higher.

@papi - I am pretty much done with clubs, I have moved on to manic clingy 18yo SBs lol.

It's weird to me to think about all of this in retrospect. SirLDalot was dead right about SJG, he was just a crazy homeless dude who got on the internet at the public library every day.

@subraman - Your comment about coaching each other to fake interest in sports or other hobbies is interesting. I am assuming that was onlyfans girls not traditional IRL sex workers? @FrankieJay - So why do you think onlyfans girls post their ranking numbers publicly when trying to court customers? This aspect of the psychology seems so strange to me. @nicespice - TBH I feel like if you did onlyfans you would be WAY into the rankings. It's a metric you can track and it is also gamifies the system in a way that probably draws some girls back.

Thanks PSD!

How the fuck did you not know this blah? Did you switch accounts with someone again?

I always suspected he was a fake account.

I have had success on secret benefits. But the messaging and payment model is totally different. You have to be really tactical and selective about who you message or it can get super expensive.

@nicespice - I get it. You don't want any of the parts of sugaring that sugar babies like. But girls that choose sugaring like all of the extra stuff. Once when I was first transitioning into sugaring I tried REALLY hard to convince this girl that sugaring wasn't for her. For a lot of reasons she would have been a better fit as a stripper and would have banked. But she would not hear of it. The idea was totally repulsive to her. I even offered to help her get started but she was totally opposed to it. This wasn't a situation where she was unaware of the potential income difference or there was a barrier to entry. She wanted to be a sugar baby.

Well I haven't posted on tuscl for a while I have been too busy banging sugar babies. But some of the nonsense that has been posted here is too crazy not to speak up lol. Look blahblah and nicespice you guys know I love you but I think some of what you are saying is YOUR perspective on how sugaring doesn't make sense for YOU. A lot of girls WANT to be sugar babies and think stripping or FSSW is totally crazy or disgusting. Some SBs want to sugar to fulfill their own emotional needs, to be taken care of, to have a mentor, to have a friend, they have daddy issues, it fulfills a fantasized version of traditional gender roles, attraction to older men, validation, or they don't have time for traditional dating but want a FWB. Part of the difficulty in discussing sugaring is that it is so varied. Some sugar arrangements are like FSSW and others are like a marriage. But even with arrangements that are closer to FSSW a lot of times the sugar baby wants some of the elements of sugaring so they don't have to deal with the psychological realization that they are a sex worker. As far as the comments that sugar daddies are just guys that want bargain basement FSSW. I definitely don't agree. In my area on the escorting forum the normal 1hr price is $200 which frequently is an in call where a meet with a SB averages $300 and that is before dinner/drinks/gifts/experiences plus getting a nice hotel. You could argue that a SB is giving up a whole evening versus an escort is only giving up an hour. That would absolutely be an apt argument. But a lot of people who are into sugaring both SB and SDs WANT to spend the additional time together on non-sexual activities like dinner/shopping/movies/etc. If you read the sugaring forum there are SBs who post all the time about how they are unsatisfied with the relationship they have with their SD because it's just sex in a hotel and they WANT a comprehensive relationship.

https://youtu.be/n1tFbZ5kaY8

I agree with random member.

Hard pass

@jascoi - Agreed, and the fact that everyone here is ripping on him says a lot...

I think most of the clubs are open in DFW. I'll ping samiel as he's at one right now.

+1 on porntrex

LMAO!!!

Seperate

Wow

Watch out nicespice someone might flag your inappropriate comments.

I think the number of girls will go up not down. I have been seeing tons of posts from girls about how much they miss the club and can't wait to go back to dancing. A lot of girls just dance when they need money and they all need money now at the same time.

I have been watching Westworld and the new Picard show.

Hard pass