It is a sheepish way to ask if it is okay to touch the boobs. PLs usually only use this type of language around dancers that have a reputation for being stabby.
Maybe I misread the OP, but it seems like people are reading too much into the question. Using a term on a website and in the middle of a club are two different things.
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In addition to "touching up top" meaning breasts, it also means that the person asking is likely pretty shy and not very experienced with women.
Or maybe in a club where the rules might not be a go for the groping.
Always a learning experience here.
It could be a stunningly good time if she returns the favor.
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