Please If you don't like me, If you don't like what I write or have to say Please leave me alone, Don't comment, Don't read anything I place on this site and move on. I am asking EVERYONE Publicly Please. Thank you.
Dude, it's called a forum. The purpose of posting is to engage in conversation. If you don't want feedback, why even post? Why not just keep a diary/journal? That way you can do all the therapy writing you need and don't have to worry about positive or negative responses.
I'm not trying to be mean or condescending. I'm just trying to understand your purpose for posting here if you don't want any responses.
If you want to be left alone you sure have a stupid way of going about it. I don’t believe you and I think you are a whiny creepy fuck of an attention whore. Get a fucking life crybaby.
I don't like harsh attacks on people, but if you post on a discussion board you have to expect some disagreements. If there was no disagreement, there would be no discussion. When you post on a strip club board, you have to expect some guys to give you shit.
I’d suggest you stop reading our replies. You definitely need professional help.
This is an open forum, so if someone posts, the replies can be both positive and negative. It seems you are unable to handle any negativity, so you should just ignore the negative posts. It’s quite simple!
I will assume mdb is real and a cancer survivor. Contemplating death (or trying not to think about it) is stressful and can change a person. That said, he can't expect everyone on a public forum to like him or handle him gently.
Here’s how I imagine Mdb’s chat with his therapist:
Therapist: You should share your feelings in an online forum. That way you can release your emotions in an anonymous way. It should be cathartic!
Mdb: I’ve already done that! I’ve been sharing my emotions on a strip club forum!
Therapist: Great idea! I’m sure the dancers are very supportive, and maternal! How is it going so far?
Mdb: It’s awful! The guys are brutally honest!
Therapist: Guys? What? Male strippers - Chippendales types?
Mdb: No, not male strippers. This is a site for customers, who review strip clubs. Mostly hardened older guys. They haven’t accepted me with open arms and sweetness.
Therapist: You shared your emotions with a bunch of rain coat wearing, hardened perverts? How did you expect it to go?
Mdb: But I thought they would accept me because I’ve got the femininity of an 18 year old virgin...
Therapist: I can’t help you anymore. Your issues aren’t emotional - your issue is stupidity - and there’s no cure for stupid!!!
Obviously I’m paraphrasing - but you get the point...
Actually when i post something controversial and get attacked for all side I usually find it amusing. I know that many of the rants are just to aggravate. Although I never PM someone to berate them and I don't get personal. I actually do not care what others do or think as long as they do not interfere with what I do.
Wisdom from mdfmk888 in a response he posted to recent discussion started by @anonlove. mdfmk888 said: "The response is pretty unanimous (it doesn't mean you're being trolled . . . it just means you're hearing the truth)."
Same applies to the discussions you started here and prior, and lots of the responses you got.
For your information, I do not own a rain coat. However, I do have a couple of rain SUITS for the wet bike days. As for the "hardened pervert", guilty!
Cashman, he isn't trolling you. He doesn't post mean degrading stuff about your posts. He only responds to you when you are posting things to denigrate him. Really Cashman, I don't know what your problem is, or what kind of a rock you must have crawled out from under.
SJG I’m curious, why are you coming to the defense of Mdb? I’ll admit it, I’ve been harsh, and brutally honest with him. Do you sense he needs protection?
SJG - I find it odd how you seem to think that you can sense the tone of others - when you have been largely tone deaf to the interests of others on this site.
I’m not going to deny it. There are times when my brutal honesty could be thought of as being a jack ass.
I think mdb is also very self centered and sensitive - and this might be a spot where his feelings will get hurt.
When someone joins this site and starts posting, they are not needing or seeking approval from you. And as for your 'brutal honesty', you are just being a jackass. I for one do not care what you think about other members.
So unless there is a pistol being held to your head, just use ignore for the people you do not like.
Look at all of the TUSCL members, people just post about what they want to talk about it. No one has to read it unless they want to.
Problems only occur when some do not want to respond in a constructive manner, but want to go into a personally vindictive negative meta-narrative. It is a conversation about the conversation which is intended to drive someone off of this board.
Cashman is one of the worst, but not the only one.
Mdb does seem to be coming from a bit different kind of place. But people should just leave him be. He does not need or seek their permission in order to post. Respond if they can engage constructively. But if not, just do not respond, maybe even not read it.
I made harsh comments regarding a new user. My comments are far less than what others have said in other situations, so I’m a bit confused why you have come so directly at me?
I agree, nobody needs my approval here. I’ve never mentioned that my approval was important - so your comments don’t make sense.
>Problems only occur when some do not want to respond in a constructive manner, but want to go into a personally vindictive negative meta-narrative. <
Really aware much @ SJG
Most people can hear relative pitch, but not absolute pitch. Nevertheless, from having played this so long ago and so many times on a Steinway Grand, and from a 1930's kiddie song book, I usually can pick out the key a vocalist is using.
Gosh vm.. I was just trying to help. No need to threaten to pee pee on me. Tho, I do applaud you for encouraging the “little one” with a job he might be able to accomplish.
Mdb2203 hasn't posted in awhile actually. I wonder if he saw that the only guy in his corner was SJG and realized that's worse than any other situation and bounced.
Speaking of SJG, I find the hypocrisy quite hilarious. He posts in every LDK thread calling everyone chumps then turns around and posts this:
"Problems only occur when some do not want to respond in a constructive manner, but want to go into a personally vindictive negative meta-narrative. "
So calling everyone chumps is constructive? Yeah sure thing hypocrite.
By the way, why does this site have such tiny avatar pics and no pictures? For fans of naked dancers, you would think there would be plenty of pictures.
I suggest Founder add a spot to let dancers post their tits. I always act nicer when I see tits.
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And stop being such a passive aggressive attention whore. Thanks in advance.
I'm not trying to be mean or condescending. I'm just trying to understand your purpose for posting here if you don't want any responses.
If you want to be left alone, stop posting.
This is an open forum, so if someone posts, the replies can be both positive and negative. It seems you are unable to handle any negativity, so you should just ignore the negative posts. It’s quite simple!
That's not how the internet works.
Therapist: You should share your feelings in an online forum. That way you can release your emotions in an anonymous way. It should be cathartic!
Mdb: I’ve already done that! I’ve been sharing my emotions on a strip club forum!
Therapist: Great idea! I’m sure the dancers are very supportive, and maternal! How is it going so far?
Mdb: It’s awful! The guys are brutally honest!
Therapist: Guys? What? Male strippers - Chippendales types?
Mdb: No, not male strippers. This is a site for customers, who review strip clubs. Mostly hardened older guys. They haven’t accepted me with open arms and sweetness.
Therapist: You shared your emotions with a bunch of rain coat wearing, hardened perverts? How did you expect it to go?
Mdb: But I thought they would accept me because I’ve got the femininity of an 18 year old virgin...
Therapist: I can’t help you anymore. Your issues aren’t emotional - your issue is stupidity - and there’s no cure for stupid!!!
Obviously I’m paraphrasing - but you get the point...
https://youtu.be/6ldAQ6Rh5ZI
Wisdom from mdfmk888 in a response he posted to recent discussion started by @anonlove. mdfmk888 said: "The response is pretty unanimous (it doesn't mean you're being trolled . . . it just means you're hearing the truth)."
Same applies to the discussions you started here and prior, and lots of the responses you got.
I got one last night and promptly deleted it with no response. Just curious if he has PMed anyone else like this.
Just keep posting however you wish.
SJD
For your information, I do not own a rain coat. However, I do have a couple of rain SUITS for the wet bike days. As for the "hardened pervert", guilty!
Nice idea! The ladies over on Stripperweb have a forum called Customer Conversation and they know how to treat a gentleman.
SJG
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It must be like this:
http://www.cherrys.com/pedpics/S305b.jpg
Being held to your temple so that you have to read posts you don't like.
SJG
I’m not going to deny it. There are times when my brutal honesty could be thought of as being a jack ass.
I think mdb is also very self centered and sensitive - and this might be a spot where his feelings will get hurt.
When someone joins this site and starts posting, they are not needing or seeking approval from you. And as for your 'brutal honesty', you are just being a jackass. I for one do not care what you think about other members.
So unless there is a pistol being held to your head, just use ignore for the people you do not like.
SJG
Problems only occur when some do not want to respond in a constructive manner, but want to go into a personally vindictive negative meta-narrative. It is a conversation about the conversation which is intended to drive someone off of this board.
Cashman is one of the worst, but not the only one.
Mdb does seem to be coming from a bit different kind of place. But people should just leave him be. He does not need or seek their permission in order to post. Respond if they can engage constructively. But if not, just do not respond, maybe even not read it.
SJG
I agree, nobody needs my approval here. I’ve never mentioned that my approval was important - so your comments don’t make sense.
Really aware much @ SJG
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q1_slMpm…
Here you can see better, normally played starting and ending on middle C.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MIiHmYUN…
The standard fast rock song is in the key of A.
SJG
I Like To Rock
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YlcY_enz…
Speaking of SJG, I find the hypocrisy quite hilarious. He posts in every LDK thread calling everyone chumps then turns around and posts this:
"Problems only occur when some do not want to respond in a constructive manner, but want to go into a personally vindictive negative meta-narrative. "
So calling everyone chumps is constructive? Yeah sure thing hypocrite.
"people just post about what they want to talk about it. No one has to read it unless they want to."
1. Why post something if you don't want others to read it?
2. How would I know if I don't want to read something unless I read it first?
I suggest Founder add a spot to let dancers post their tits. I always act nicer when I see tits.