How to stop the constant changing of positions?
PaulDrake
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So how do you guys deal with dancers that want to constantly change positions? Do some guys like that?
I am guessing some dancers do it to extend the tease and try to lengthen the time. Or is it a way during the first dance for them to show off all of their moves?
For me I find it really frustrating to the point I usually don't want to continue after a single dance. Do you guys find that dancers are more likely to lock into a good position on the second or third dance? Maybe I am cutting things off too soon.
I am guessing some dancers do it to extend the tease and try to lengthen the time. Or is it a way during the first dance for them to show off all of their moves?
For me I find it really frustrating to the point I usually don't want to continue after a single dance. Do you guys find that dancers are more likely to lock into a good position on the second or third dance? Maybe I am cutting things off too soon.
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To answer your question.... Try tipping bouncers, or go during dayshift when there is less scrutiny.
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What great advice. This is what makes TUSCL terrific.
You could also use your words, saying something like "could you please stay there" usually works, or will illicit a response as to why she is changing positions.
So how do you civilianize her enough to get this?
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I used to go to a club that would usually do a roll call at the top of the hour, and then after that would be a 2-for-$30 dance special. With most dancers, the first dance would be a variety of moves, but for the second song, a lot of the dancers would spend the majority the time grinding away.
So yes, sometimes the first dance is to show a variety of moves they know, with any additional dance after that to focus mostly one or two positions that they either enjoy the most, or feel they are most skilled at.
I had one dancer repeat the same 3 positions over and over again, very mechanical movements and so I ended it after the first song.
Others move so slow and sensual and change to several positions, I enjoy the variety.
If they know how to move, its all good.
When they do a move that really hits the right spot, I let them know, and they usually repeat that move more often.
Most dancers will want the custy to enjoy his dance so he'll buy more; most dancers would probably prefer you tell them your preferences than lose selling dances.
In past threads, Subraman and others have suggested the "positive reinforcement" technique - e.g. telling her "I love that position you were doing earlier" - either way just let her know what your preference is b/c different custies like different things and the dancers are not mind-readers.
That said, Lurker_X is absolutely right, and anti-LDK girls actively coach either other to change position often specifically so you don't get to enjoying it so much that you splooge. If you ask her to stay still and she moves anyway, you've got an anti-LDK girl on your hands, perhaps time to move on if you're not getting what you want
tell her what you want. Tip her according to how well she complied. She may tell you she can't stay in one position too long because it is uncomfortable but once she knows her tip and future dances depend on it, she will stay in that position as long as she can and she will return to it as soon as possible.
The only exception might be if the club doesn't allow the type of dances that you want. In that case you've got to be a little more flexible.
Learn to say things like: "I didn't come here to buy drinks." And, "Do you grind for the entire duration of the dance?"
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