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8 years ago
That's not a big difference in age in my opinion.
That's just cold, cold, cold on her part. I can only imagine she'd be running back to you in a time of need since in a month she was getting what some people make a year. Knowing that you should ask/prepare yourself to not give in.
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8 years ago
Sorry to hear such a story. I myself have been separated/going through a divorce for nearly two years now (separated most of it and just no actions being taken). So I can relate to some of the feelings you may have felt and going to the strip club to begin with.
Not sure if it was mentioned, but what was your age in relation to her? I'm not going to roast you about it, but hope that you did indeed learn from it.
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8 years ago
Great laugh from the comments!
Player11 is too busy fucking these strippers.
You probably are her number one...consider it a good thing, compliment.
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8 years ago
In the author's defense, stallion in slang meaning can mean both male or female.
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8 years ago
@JimGassagain
Lol. Thought you were SJG for a minute.
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8 years ago
If they peck, then that's what they are willing to do with you. Based on what you said about one changing positions or putting your face in her neck is her trying to let you know she really doesn't want to DFK and probably doesn't want to continuously peck either.
If they wanted to DFK you they would ITC regardless of any OTC offer unless the club has some strict kissing policy and would do so without being asked. So enjoy your pecks or move on until you find one that'll DFK. Also, please don't believe you're the only one she's kissing or pecking ITC.
Of the strippers I DFK with it, they made it obvious they were cool with more than pecking. Soooo, just don't ask, you'll come across the DFK stripper(s) eventually.
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8 years ago
Oh, and of the two I've OTCd with, one is the reason I found TUSCL; Me thinking I could date a stripper.
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8 years ago
At the SC I frequent the most I've had/have 5 numbers.
I've OTCd with 2 of the 5 at least two times each. 1 is a strong, likely OTC candidate.
The other 2 are just great in the club; one is a kisser.
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8 years ago
Y'all have gotten me interested in taking her up on it. I planned on SCing tonight again, but at a different SC. Might just go back to her SC in hopes I catch her her there.
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8 years ago
I'm not sure I understand SJG front room guidance, but someday I'll try. Are you saying just convo about OTC and ITC business and feed them money?
As far as playing dumb as if I'm not a SC regular, I don't. As others have mentioned, they can usually tell. The first thing that comes to mind as a giveaway is when I say let's catch the next song. Aside from that as simple as it is, I feel letting it be known you're a regular works in your advantage as others have mentioned.
Not that it's anything you'd want to seek out because man they have drama filled lives, but being experienced will definitely have them letting you know some things.
I don't talk about TUSCL and encounters with other dancers with them.
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8 years ago
I love them saggy.
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8 years ago
I'm just glad if one I like is there when I go.
One Im cool with seems to go in whenever she wants and has taken long in between breaks. I'm sure management has some say in this, but I can't figure it out, but hey it's her schedule.
A new dancer I recently met at the club says she only works Sunday and Monday nights. Ive been there on Sunday and Monday nights and it's dead, slow.
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8 years ago
I think the most to one club in a week for me has been 3, but I know for a fact I've been to the same club twice in one week.
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8 years ago
It would be hard for me to tell if I got sick from the strip club since I have kids and don't always put proper clothing on just to walk outside for a few when it's cold.
I do know I got a stripper sick (cold) once after OTC with her. I did mention to her prior that I had a cold. Next time I saw her she tells me she did indeed get sick afterwards.
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8 years ago
I've been pursuing blackjack endeavors ever since I started SCing about 2 years ago, but NL poker online or live has always been my first love. I made it out to Vegas for a $1K event in 2013 and 2014 and cashed in 2014. So, if we're still on TUSCL come next summer, maybe we'll merry up and can meet out in Vegas and go SCing too. Good luck on your poker endeavors. I know the dream.
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8 years ago
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EveWhere there's a hole, there's a way. [HIATUS]
I'd go with the ugly stripper. If she got me going, the looks wouldn't be too much concern.
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8 years ago
I usually get 2 - 3 in a row if she's a good lap dancer or she's a favorite for whatever reason. If I really want to spend a couple hundred or so, I'll take them to VIP which may be up to 4. I also test drive, but now those who fail miserably get cut off after 1.
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8 years ago
It sure is fun though in the moment.
I need to learn not to try and save them. Some seem like they want an exit, but just can't get there.
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8 years ago
U.S. Army 2003 - 2009
Thank you for your service!
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8 years ago
I've never done it. The idea of a budget or for something particular seems the best way to go.
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8 years ago
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GACAUn-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.
@Papi she's 25. If it matters, I'd say her maturity level from 1 - 10, 10 being great, she's like 5.
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8 years ago
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GACAUn-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.
I'd say I rationalized some of her behaviors. The texting was always hit or miss, but if it came to her being at work and me coming to the SC, she'd leave with me. Also, after a few visits in her place (prior hotel) and staying overnight/morning with giving her an amount I felt which was to just help her financially, I figured things were a little cooler than straight business OTC.
In the close to three years, two were knowing her in the club, no FS or BJ just dances, and Facebook. As the PL I am, the stars aligned one night and the first OTC occurred. Since it's been like 6 months.
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8 years ago
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GACAUn-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.
No she didn't tell me she'd be staying with her mom. I assumed that, given she had kids and had got evicted.
You know Papi, you're usually spot on. I talked to my close friend afterwards and he came to that conclusion too or at least that she had something else going on. I was thinking she was trying to set me up or something. Paranoid.
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8 years ago
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GACAUn-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.
Reread my post and before I get clowned, yes I mistakenly typed ...he texts "Guess not"
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8 years ago
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GACAUn-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.
Funny how things work out sometimes. So I posted today in this thread about what I believed to be my long term, continued OTC. Well, I was supposed to meet with the stripper at what we agreed upon and keep her from going to work.
So I texted early to say around what time I'd be up. I hadn't heard back which was cool as I suspected she was sleeping anyway and I wasn't close to being on time myself. So she hits me up and agree it's still going down. Oddly, she kept asking if I was coming after I texted I'd be coming.
So a little before I get there, she says she started her period and could she borrow some money for the room. I didn't text back yeah I'd do it, but texted okay we'll talk when I get there. So shortly after she's asking again am I coming through. By this time I'm 5 minutes away and say so. So she says meet her at the front office (staying at a hotel). I'm reply okay, be there 5 minutes.
I get there and she's not out, so I wait a few and text come out. Wait a couple more and call with no answer. So wait just a couple more and get a text give me a bit. So I drive to the restaurant next door and text come over here. Still nothing from her via text saying at least okay. I wait a few, and then text you got 4 minutes. Still nothing. But right at the four minutes he texts "Guess not" with some crying emojis. So I call and no answer. I wait a couple more minutes and leave.
So, I'm pissed. Probably gonna cut her off, move on. Guess just goes to show the shit some may pull. Hell, I'd run half naked to get $50 if I really needed it for a room for a few nights. Oh, and as I type this sitting in the SC (not hers), still no texts/calls from her apologizing or anything.
On to the next one.