Comments by SteveSutton (page 3)

When I lived in Louisville, I thought it sucked. The Rustic Frog right across the river in Indiana was OK for a while. For my fix, I used to drive the hour to Lexington and go to Diva's (for the action) or Cowboy's (for the lookers).

Not sure if this qualifies as a porn site but I love chaturbate.

I will add Orianthi, Courtney Cox (Iron Maidens), Nikki Stringfield (Iron Maidens), and Britt Lightning (Vixen). But you had me at Nita Strauss.

Yes, longest break from any action in at least 5 years.

The Kardashians are interesting and very polarizing. Kourtney gets my heart racing. Kim and Khloe don't. Kylie Jenner no f'n way, but Kendall is smoking hot. From this thread, agreed with Chrissy Teigen, Nicole Kidman, Angelina Jolie and Sarah Jessica Parker. Vehemently disagree with Kristen Bell, J-Lo, Jennifer Aniston (really???). Kind of agree with Scarlett Johanssen, she's very hit and miss. I'll add one to the list: Jessica Biel. Just don't see it. Regarding not aging well, I give you Kelly McGillis.

I love to go to Vegas. But don't go to clubs, you will get no mileage or it's going to cost you through the roof (I speak from dumb experience). Yes, the girls can be beautiful, but there's other ways to get good Vegas action. In my opinion, Vegas is the perfect town for SA. Huge supply of gorgeous women, probably very little demand the next few months. Pricing shouldn't be too bad for a while at least. I may go to Vegas myself in July or August to test my theory. I've had SA success in Vegas in the past. Plus there's always the hotel girls that show up after midnight. It will be very interesting if the casino's are going to be more aggressive in not letting them in now, or if we're back to normal pretty quickly.

I've kept track of the girls I've f'd since I started the hobby. Rated them on a scale of how good it was, and tried to remember one key characteristic and noted that. It's just fun to go back to it every once in a while and relive some memories. I've also kept a few pictures of girls I really liked that sent them via text, or that are on Instagram. Regarding money spent, I went back one time to try and estimate it and stopped once I hit 6 figures. It was too depressing.

I'd say my average is 1-2. That's what happens when you only play during business travel and you never know when you'll be back. I'm always clear about this though so both parties know what they're getting into. I did have one SA girl for maybe 9 months in a town I was commuting to weekly, and we probably saw each other 20 times or so. I had an amazing hot, young ATF in El Paso who I was able to meet 3 times, but then my business travel to that location stopped. There were definitely some I would have loved to see more often, but I think you have to almost be a regular in one location for that.

All i can say is cover your tracks and be careful with online payments. I speak from experience. There is a reason why this hobby should be cash only. Many of the onsite pay sites require your real information (or at least partially) and from there it's a very easy hop to find out personal information, where you live, where you work, etc. with simple google searches.

This story is getting a lot of traction here in KY. There are very polarized views on this. Allegedly 60 people were interviewed. Some of the cheerleaders are saying none of this happened. Truth is probably somewhere in the middle.

So I'm married. Actually my 20 year anniversary is this Friday. I made it through the first two "seven year itches" being totally faithful. It was only about 10 years ago I entered my first stripclub and I was 38 at that time. The first time in a club, I was shocked that (mostly) beautiful women came to sit with me, touch me, etc. I spent almost no money. So once that door was opened, I couldn't go back. I remember my first time my pants got unzipped in a club in Pompano Beach about 6 years ago (without me requesting it). She went down on me, and I was so shocked and told her I didn't want that. Zipped them back up after a few seconds. Felt so dirty after that I left all my clothes that I wore to the club in my hotel room. Didn't want to wear them anymore. Fast forward a few more years and I had my first BJ in a club in LA. Beautiful girl and she swallowed. Note that my wife hasn't done a BJ in probably 10 years, and let alone swallowed, never even to completion. So that was pretty awesome. That progressed to more of those though I always told myself "I won't cross the FS line". Note that at the time we got married, my wife told me I could have one freebie a year ... so I didn't use it till about 5 years ago. First time FS was at an AMP in New York. Didn't ask for it, but before I knew it I was inside. Never even felt her put on the wrapper, she was that good. Freebie number one gone (I didn't count the BJ's and HJ's). After freebie one I told my wife there were going to be more. She already knew of course because nothing was really happening at home, and I had those freebies. That was my excuse, I told her I was going to use up my freebies. In addition, about 5 years ago my wife had back disc surgery and literally couldn't have sex for over a year. So I told her I wanted to continue to get some on the side and she was OK with it. We love each other, love our kids, lover our life and companionship, but she doesn't love sex and it hurts. She's had a second back surgery since then and was totally out of commission another year. I think it's been over 4 years since we've really had sex to completion, and when we tried once maybe a year and a half ago it hurt her so much she couldn't go on. So there you go. I have an addictive personality, so even if my wife would have been totally against some action on the side, I probably would have done it anyway. I'm lucky she's understanding and really just doesn't care as long as she knows I'm safe and get tested every once in a while which I do. I don't feel guilty about the sex. I've had some amazing sex the last few years, some awful sex, and everything in between. I've feared for my life, and felt like a million dollars in Vegas. I do feel guilty about the money spent for this companionship. I added it up once and had to stop once I got to six figures. This hobby is expensive.

Interesting question. I was kind of thinking the same thing ... not sure I miss it much. But then on the flip side, I will say the last few days I have been slowly looking at SA again and I hadn't for at least 3 months. So maybe this is just the calm before the storm.

I'll go with that time in LA maybe 5 years ago where I met this hot young girl in a club near the airport and we spent some time in the back VIP area and after a few songs she went down on me and let me CIM. First time ever for that, and it was awesome. She swallowed and looked up at me and said "I saved your pants" with a smile. I'll never forget it. Went back to the same club on my next business trip but of course she wasn't there. They also became a lot more strict at that club and now a manager checks the private dance area so I'm not sure that could still happen.

Hi there. I've read all your stories and agree with others, you should write a book. You have a very vivid memory of specific situations and a gripping story to tell. Thank you for taking the time to give us a glimpse into your world. We see it "from the other side", and it's nice taking a look inside the kitchen as they say. Hope you are safe and surviving during these strange times.

To add international .... We're originally from Europe so we love city trips like Paris, Vienna, Budapest, London etc. We honeymooned in Playa Del Carmen which was awesome and have been back to Cancun. We spent some time in Aruba which was cool. My bucket list: I want to do an African safari and my wife wants to see lemurs in Madagascar.

Great question. Domestically let's split this between personal trips I do, and family vacations. Personal this is easy: Vegas, Los Angeles, Miami and New York. Vegas for the overall atmosphere, gambling and late night entertainment. LA for the vibe, weather and beach. Miami same reasons as LA. New York for the cosmopolitan nature of it and Central Park. I probably do 3 or so personal trips a year, usually for a long weekend. Air, hotel and car are always paid for with miles and credit card points, so I only have discretionary spend while there. It allows me to blow off steam, visit clubs, go on SA dates, etc. I am lucky I have an understanding wife who knows guys needs weekends like this every once in a while. For family vacations, we love Orlando for the theme parks (kids love Universal). My wife prefers nature and loves Yellowstone and Grand Teton National Parks, as well as the red rocks parks like Zion, Bryce, Grand Canyon and Monument Valley. Living in Kentucky, we also visit the Smokey Mountains regularly. I wouldn't be able to get my wife to go to Vegas if her life depended on it, so it works out great for both of us!

Yes for sure. My wife and I both work from home right now, so no change in income. We budget monthly and the last 2 months have been the lowest spending months in the last 10 years. From our combined budget, no entertainment, limited going out for food, limited food shopping, no gasoline, no kids expenses, and basically no discretionary spending is making a huge difference. From my personal (separate) budget, no business trips means no clubbing, sugaring etc. so that's making a big difference as well. But yes I have pent up demand.

I went to the University of Utah, but didn't stay on campus. I think that's the one thing I would change if I could which is to stay on campus. That way you're much closer to the social activities and it would have been much more fun. To me - at that time - it was all about getting the degree and no debt so I worked full time in addition to a scholarship.

I don't think clubs are done but think it will take a while to get back to how it was before COVID. The lure of money will be big for some. Personally - and I've said this on other treads about this topic - I'm not sure I will be back till there's a vaccine or some type of a cure. Having a family I can't take the risk. And yes, it is higher risk than going to a restaurant or shopping because there is touching and close contact involved. My wife has been very forgiving of what I do in my personal time or on business travel, but she wouldn't forgive me bringing COVID home even though of course it would be nearly impossible to trace to one specific event once the world opens up again.

I don't think clubs are done but

I'm fine with fully shaved or a landing strip etc. But a full bush wouldn't stop me from anything including DATY. I guess it's only fair ... I don't shave or "manscape" either, so can't say much if she doesn't.

I will buy a powerball or megamillions ticket when it's over $200 million or so. Not all the time, but if I happen to see it and walk into a gas station I will. I've never even had one digit match. But if you don't play the odds are zero, so it's worth a couple of bucks here and there. When powerball got up to over a billion a few years ago I bought 10 tickets and splurged. Needless to say I didn't win. I do spend way too much in the casino but that's another story.

Entertainment in general. Concerts, casinos, movies. Plus flying and vacations.

Die for Trump? While he's getting a golden shower from 2 hot Russion hookers and grabs 'em by the pussy? I don't think so.

@Wallanon: agreed, that whole night was luck. The whole ordeal probably lasted about 2 hours from the time I arrived at her apartment till the time I finally drove home. I was genuinely worried for the majority of that time. Since then, I have been very, very, very reluctant to go to a girl's place. Not saying it hasn't happened, but I have become much more aware of my surroundings. Also, thinking back at this now, I think it may have been an escort site and not SA because I met her at her place. If she was SA we would have first had a drink or dinner, so I stand corrected on that.