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8 years ago
Bubba is fired up today, but has a very valid point!
Sharing and receiving is taught in kindergarten as a life long skill.
I think it is time for a detailed and salacious review of one of your (no doubt many) couples trips to SFO or LV, Sauget. Let's see what you're made of . . .
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8 years ago
It has never come off. I'm not trying to fool anyone.
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8 years ago
JohnSmith -- you're hilarious. Love it.
K got it exactly correct -- just say, "I'm moving past extras iTC. Sorry! I prefer to give and receive pleasure OTC without worrying about time or privacy. Wanna play with me OTC or are you not interested?"
Perfect! -- if she is not up for it, she can gracefully decline. You can reply, "That's cool -- that's your choice. If you change your mind, you know where I'm at. If I change my mind, I'll ask you for a dance as I've enjoyed them in the past. Best of luck!" You cut her off on good terms and explained your position.
She should understand that your time doing ITC with others is no more than you forging relations that might lead to OTC.
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8 years ago
For Founders' Suggestion Box . . .
Since flag function isn't widely used (or, if used, doesn't make it online), Founder should consider dropping "Flag" function and changing description from "Props" to "Comments". Then, all comments, either positive or negative, would appear in one place.
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8 years ago
Nice! Enjoy!!!
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8 years ago
Thanks for the sympathy -- oddly, it makes me feel a little better about the whole thing. I sometimes wonder if I subconsciously want to get caught as I don't have the heart to end it.
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8 years ago
How can anyone hate the Cubs? That's like saying you hate your infant granddaughter's fuzzy teddy bear. What did they ever do to anyone? They're cuddly and harmless. They've been the league lap dog for over a century.
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8 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Everything I have ever written on this website is purely fictional for reading enjoyment only. None of my intel should be considered actionable.
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8 years ago
I've been in a sexual desert for 23 months now. No lie. Prior to that, the desert lasted 18 months. Read 'em and weep boys, two times in 4 years!!
Yet, every night not traveling, I come home, have dinner and listen to whatever shit is on her mind. My paychecks go into a joint account which she spends like a drunken sailor sometimes. Like JamesSD said, even if she is dried up forever, she has two hands and a mouth. Five minutes of effort and I would be set for a week -- but, NO! I recently realized that for the better part of a decade, we never had sex when she wasn't intoxicated -- and half of that decade only when we were in a hotel - never at home.
In my pea-sized brain, my extracurricular activities, while undisclosed, are the only thing saving our marriage. Otherwise, I would have walked long ago and she would be out on her ass. She could never survive on what she makes plus half what I make, so she is better for it and better not knowing.
Is that a rationalization . . . sure, but it works for me (for now).
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8 years ago
So extras are more prevalent in the day shift than the night shift?
Does the AA/Caucasian ratio also change from day to night?
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8 years ago
Well stated James. Totally agree with Papi. I wish all dancers read this and either made the move to give us what we want, transfer to a "stricter" club or find another line of work.
Nothing more frustrating than being in an UHM or extras club and encountering the golden pussy.
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8 years ago
There is a Hampton Inn literally across the street from Silk in Milwaukee. Pauly Shore stayed there when performing at Jokerz Comedy Club (in the basement of the strip club) as shown on his documentary "Pauly Shore Stands Alone" which was recently shown on Showtime.
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8 years ago
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impalaThe People's Republic of Pennsylvania
Nailed it!
Now circle back and restart this thread with details about your excellent adventure!!
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8 years ago
The stripper is just a female. Nothing more. Not a goddess. Quite the opposite.
If you think you couldn't "get her" out of the club as a civilian, you're not going to "get her" in the club. You are a cash register to be rung. She is selling a fantasy, which you are free to purchase for short periods of time.
My advice -- club when you are bored with internet porn. Do not obsess over this or any other stripper. Focus on connecting with females wherever you happen to be and treat them all like queens -- the one that treats you like a king in return is your keeper.
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8 years ago
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impalaThe People's Republic of Pennsylvania
No brainer --GO! You are not disrespecting her hubby at all as long as you do not have sex with her. In fact, it might not even be disrespect to have sex WITH HER. This is obviously a lifestyle they lead. This is likely not her first rodeo. Her disclosure to her hubby is her business -- I would just assume she had his blessing until proven otherwise after the fact.
You only live once. Grab some gusto!!
When we look back at our lives, we will most regret those things we wish we had tried and didn't. Rarely do we reflect for long on things we tried and wished we hadn't. Think about this . . .
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8 years ago
Also, Club O and Skybox in Harvey, IL are within 0.4 mile of 5 hotels (Clarion Inn, Red Roof Inn, Days Inn, Motel 6 and Quality Inn) all within 1000 feet of the Interstate off/on ramps. Skybox to Days Inn is a 4 minute walk (0.2 mi) more commonly known as 3 blocks.
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8 years ago
Fantasy in Hammond, IN has 2 hotels/motels within walking distance (Motel 6 and Best Western). Also, less than 1.5 miles -- 3 minutes away are 4 national chains (Hampton Inn, Marriott Courtyard, et al). All four are accessible without going back on the Interstate -- just turn left and follow the street in front of the club west and you'll hit them.
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8 years ago
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impalaThe People's Republic of Pennsylvania
... hoping lopaw will tell us a bedtime story ...
sounds awesome!
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8 years ago
Trump may be a Misogynist PL like us, but he is a PL with good taste -- no 3s or 4s for DJT -- he'd never touch Hill's dried up nether regions.
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8 years ago
I'm in the pleasure business
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8 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
Sasha Grey
Isabella Soprano (from cathouse)
Heather Brooke (look her up)
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8 years ago
Just a ripoff of a Ray Charles classic to me . . .
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8 years ago
Best advice -- never use a credit card in a SC
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8 years ago
If you are serious, before buying or selling, check www.goldprice.org.
When I sell, I call ahead and ask what percentage of spot price they are paying. 91% - 93% of spot price is fair. Anything under 90% is a ripoff. Most jewelry stores or coin shops are the most fair.
"Cash for gold" places are to be avoided -- I went to one that offered 55% of spot price. I literally laughed in his face and told him "I'm not fencing stolen goods!" before walking out.
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8 years ago
My fav was Chix on Dix. Fucking moron, Taffer.