Yes, She Really Likes Me!
rockstar666
Illinois
I met a new dancer last night. A solid 9, best natural breasts I've seen in a year at least, and very outgoing and fun in conversation. She broke a multitude of rules in my bikini, limited touch club which is unusual in itself for a first time meeting. I met her at 8 PM and she stayed with me the whole night except for stage calls and bathroom breaks, until I left close to 3 AM. I Probably gave her $150 total including dances. $150! That's chump change for 7 hours!
Lots of titty sucking in VIP and CR (technically not allowed but regulars allow it), and she literally sat on my lap at the bar the whole time (another no-no; feet must be on the floor), even when the club started rocking around midnight she didn't leave to hustle the crowd. Her hands were surreptitiously all over me, and since I was in a corner I was able to rub her butt under her bottom, and finger her (a firing offense). She didn't dance with anyone else, even though one dude asked about taking her upstairs while she was on my lap. I told her to go make money but she said "Money isn't everything." WTF kind of dancer says that??? I felt bad for him so I bought him a drink. We were such squirrels at the bar cuddling but I didn't care. I was in heaven!
It was a magic night for me and most unusual. She didn't squeeze significant money from me; didn't even try. And she spent 7 hours with me; no one can stand me for 7 hours, not even my g/f! And she was the hottest girl in the club. Maybe she thought I was famous or something? I proposed OTC just before 3 AM and she said she'd think about it when I come back Wed. Wow....OTC is rather rare at this club, especially for a first time meeting.
Life is good!
So in typical PL fashion I'm in love, and I know she likes me. I better not get her fired though!
Lots of titty sucking in VIP and CR (technically not allowed but regulars allow it), and she literally sat on my lap at the bar the whole time (another no-no; feet must be on the floor), even when the club started rocking around midnight she didn't leave to hustle the crowd. Her hands were surreptitiously all over me, and since I was in a corner I was able to rub her butt under her bottom, and finger her (a firing offense). She didn't dance with anyone else, even though one dude asked about taking her upstairs while she was on my lap. I told her to go make money but she said "Money isn't everything." WTF kind of dancer says that??? I felt bad for him so I bought him a drink. We were such squirrels at the bar cuddling but I didn't care. I was in heaven!
It was a magic night for me and most unusual. She didn't squeeze significant money from me; didn't even try. And she spent 7 hours with me; no one can stand me for 7 hours, not even my g/f! And she was the hottest girl in the club. Maybe she thought I was famous or something? I proposed OTC just before 3 AM and she said she'd think about it when I come back Wed. Wow....OTC is rather rare at this club, especially for a first time meeting.
Life is good!
So in typical PL fashion I'm in love, and I know she likes me. I better not get her fired though!
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I hope I make my point.
Good, you're better off not over-romanticizing her, especially if this is the first time you've gotten this treatment; most people who hear the term "dream stripper" without rolling their eyes, probably need to take a little step back (JS69 is a professional driver, closed track, do not attempt). Enjoy it for what it is -- "favorite customer" status can be an awesome thing. I think it's a fine idea to get her OTC, and if you can get to that, it can be fun to get the relationship to be a bit more arrangement-like, but that's putting the cart waaay before the horse, at this point.
Or, maybe we're all really jealous -- I know I am!! I say, "Enjoy the ride!!"
To change the topic a bit, I'll never understand why guys do things like this. Did you enjoy her being with you? Did you want her to stay with you? If the answers are "yes", I just don't understand what guys think they're proving by saying things like this to the girls. Show what chivalrous white knights you are? Prove what a sensitive and empathetic guy you are? Is it a test to see if she "really likes you"?
I don't ever tell the girl she's free to go dance for other guys, repercussions-free. If she wants to, she's a big girl, she can use her words to tell me. Otherwise, there's no good reason for me to encourage her to leave, unless I actually want to sample other girls. You need to know your value as a customer, there's nothing in it for you to devalue yourself
I'm actually the opposite -- I make it clear that if we have an appointment, I expect her to stay with me, unless it's just for a short dance here and there, and she asks first. That approach probably isn't right for everyone either, but I counsel my friends to at least not suggest to her that she leave.
The next time I saw her, she came and sat with me the whole night. She went above and beyond with her dances, and it was great hanging out with her. Same thing a during a couple of more visits, so I asked about seeing her outside the club. She said was open to it.
How it turned out though, was that she texted that she really needed $100 to feed her child. I met her in a store parking lot and gave it to her, and we were going to meet up later that night. She was supposed to call, but evening came and not hearing from her, I went to the club, and lo and behold.... she was there working!
We never really interacted again, and I saw her a couple of times in following weeks in civilian clothes together with a regular from the SC. I think she must have been grooming potential sugar daddies. While the flaking thing was annoying, I couldn't bring myself to really mind about the $100, since I came out way ahead compared to going rate at the club. I think she got the impression that I was looking for more of a civvie relationship than a SB/SD one and moved on. She had danced before, but had taken a break, so it wasn't like she was a new girl who had never heard of hustling or was shy and needed a teddy bear customer.
We'll see what happens. My big worry is both my CF and ATF will be there tomorrow which normally I can handle, but this 3rd girl might make them get ugly as I might not dance with either! LOL
Personally I don't think it's about being a white night and more of being fair - if I don't intend to spend any $$$ on her for the next 2 hours; or even for the rest of the visit b/c I may have gotten the dances I wanted from her already; then why sabotage her ability to make $$$ from other custies for the rest of the night (or for the rest of the time I'm there) if I don't plan on spending on her anymore.
For some custies it's absolutely necessary to have a particular dancer's time/attention the whole time they are there; if that is critical for them where they cannot enjoy the club o/w then I guess no other way but to play hardball and give her an ultimatum - in my mind it does not necessarily have to be all or nothing - she can spend a decent amount of time w/ her regular and also be able to circulate the room and if there are no other custies wanting her services she can come hang w/ her regular again.
If she wants to do that, no worries. If she made goal and just wants to cruise the rest of the night "hustling me" without getting shit from the manager for leaving early, that's even better.
That being said, her dancing on stage was 100% pro. She got a LOT of tips and she knew how to rub her tits in guy's faces, or do a nice spread with each tip. As I said, she was a solid 9 IMHO and even if someone thought she was an 8, she was undeniably hot. When I asked her about her stage dancing she said she was a cheerleader in HS and did a lot of civvie dancing at parties etc. which makes sense.
I'm invited to see her during the afternoon shift tomorrow; we'll see what happens. But last night was the best SC visit of my life regardless. Even the barmaid, who knows both me and my regulars made some comments in private about her attention to me. Yes, we were squirrels which I hate when others do it but it was FUN!
I looked squirrels up on urbandictionary, and it a person who gives lots of blowjobs because they always have a mouth full of nuts: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.ph…
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Have fun. I was thinking about no longer visiting strip clubs anymore and no longer posting here anymore. I'm not having much fun visiting strip clubs anymore. I just haven't figured out what else to do instead.
I had an ATF like that a few years back. She worked day shift, noon to 7, and we had an end-of shift ritual, where after her shift ended I'd take her out to dinner, then drop her off at the mass transit station to go home. I'd always asked her when I should show up, and she'd always try to talk me into showing up right when the shift begins. If I told her I wasn't going to show up until 3 or 4, she'd go into full-blown adorable mode to try to get me in earlier. I spent lots of entire 7-hour shifts with her, then 2 more hours after her shift. And the thing is, I always spent exactly the same amount of money -- two VIPs and two lap dances plus dinner later -- no matter how long I was with her, but she still wanted me there all day. She was no new girl, having been a stripper for over 7 years at this point... but being her favorite customer has its privileges
-->"I'm not that interesting IMHO"
I'm going to re-give you the lecture on knowing your value now -- no no, don't thank me, it's my pleasure :) I think we can tend to undervalue what we bring to the table... especially, a nice respectful guy, who isn't creepy, who spends money on her, who keeps her entertained (even if he doesn't realize it and thinks he's boring). She's both smart enough to recognize your value, and perhaps new enough not to realize she should ignore that and make you pay more :) But hell, even girls working in this business for a while occasionally find a customer who is a refreshing safe harbor for them, even if we end up perplexed as to what it is, exactly, that she enjoys so much about us. Still just a customer, of course, but as I said, "favorite customer has its privileges".
Sure hope it doesn't happen to me.
This is quite the opposite: a sober discussion of possible motivations of unusual dancer behavior.
Kinda makes more sense now - you should have used a smiley face instead of an exclamation point so it'd be more obvious (even some non-newbies still fall for the SS and think they are the exception)
heck my life didn't start enjoying the delightful world of many beautiful ladies until after sixty. maybe that is how i responded when my mind turned to mush.
"Good things come to those who wait"