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10 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
The clubs I generally frequent don't have paid parking, but from to time I do visit one that does. My thing is, if I am paying for parking, I expect a certain level of security for my vehicle. I once was at a club in Baltimore and decided to use the clubs paid valet parking ($20) since the club wasn't in the best part of town. While I was there I ran out of cigarettes so I decided to leave the club for a little bit, go down the street and get a pack. There, parked on the street about a block away was my car, sitting up on blocks, with the tires and wheels gone, the passenger window smashed, and the radio gone. I went back immediately and got the club management involved, whose statement was "that they are not responsible for damage or theft of customers vehicles", and pointed it out on my valet ticket. I asked why my car was on the street and not in the lot, they said that they had a party scheduled later and were trying to keep room in the lot for VIP's and that parking on the street was regularly done with minimal issues. I had to call the police and deal with it through them. Afterwards I spoke with my attorney about it and was told that unless when I dropped my vehicle with the valet they had signed a contract or acknowledgement of intent to protect, they are not responsible. Lesson, if you are going to pay for valet parking, ask where your car is going to be parked, if possible watch where it is parked, or better yet, either take a cab or go to a club where you can perk it yourself.
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10 years ago
Never found one by a dancer in cognito telling me about it. Did once while out of town stopped off at a bar to get some lunch and a brew and found that they had strippers. It was a pleasant surprise, and almost missed my afternoon appointment.
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10 years ago
Everything in NYC is expensive. Wether it in a SC, or just out in the city, if you want to do anything it is going to cost you a lot more than just about anywhere else in the country. Strip clubs are especially expensive, and because of the history they have had, are scrutinized and monitored VERY closely. From my observations that I have made though, clubs in surrounding areas are the beneficiaries of this. You can go just an hour or so out of the city into New Jersey, eastern Pennsylvania, Connecticut, or even upstate New York and your dollar will usually a lot further and usually you can get away with a lot more ( of coarse, it varies from club to club).
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10 years ago
If I am paying for this, I want 2 sets of boobs
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10 years ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
IMO, your not wrong, but you burnt that bridge for any future fun if you ever change your mind about her, or are just horny some night and want a booty call.
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10 years ago
I would let your ATF set it up for you, she can more easily discuss this with her friend and find out if she is actually willing to go through with it. Also, if your ATF isn't attracted to her and visa versa, it can get very awkward. I have had several OTC threesomes with dancers, and I usually let the one dancer select the other party involved. She knows what she wants, and are usually good at getting someone you will like also. Word though, if you plan on using the one for repeated service in this way, let her be in charge of the activity while it is going on and make sure you pay equal attention to both.
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10 years ago
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impalaThe People's Republic of Pennsylvania
Philly can be good, but is REALLY expensive. I live near there and have found that an hour to an hour and a half drive in any direction and just as much fun (if not more) can be had, and usually for a quarter the price tag.
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10 years ago
They use to have them all the time at the In Between Lounge near Wilkes Barre, PA. Alas, the place is no longer open. Best to find out what girls are into girls, and encourage them to go up and "help" the other dancer, you would be surprised at what happens.
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10 years ago
I have been before, several time actually, and got burnt every time. Learned my lesson, still hang with them, but know better than to fall in love again.
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10 years ago
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impalaThe People's Republic of Pennsylvania
Philly goes in cycles, and it is usually opposite what is going on across the river in NJ. Lately south jersey is pretty lax, but it is getting tougher in Philly last couple of years. I miss the good old days a couple of years ago she. You could drive up to Rhoad Island and just have a great weekend of debauchery and is was "legal".
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10 years ago
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impalaThe People's Republic of Pennsylvania
I know PA for the most part is really strict, although there are a few remote pockets that you can get away with a lot. It's not like it was 10 years ago, though, was slot of fun back then.
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10 years ago
OHHHH YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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10 years ago
Rockstar, I meant no disrespect. I have been dealing with all sorts of dancers for over 20 years and that is the way ALOT of them are is all.
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10 years ago
Sounds to me like the same old "I'm not a stripper, I'm an entertainer" bullshit mixed with a flaky dancer who sees someone with a someone stable life in her crazy, unstable stripper world. That's why she keeps you in the loop of "aquaintinences" but has never really made you a real friend or lover.
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10 years ago
A very young Dana Delany back when she was on China Grove in the 80's
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10 years ago
Clubbed, I have had similar situations also. There are a few that I have started relationships with at the clubs, and have gotten quite "familiar" with them in and out of clubs. I also understood that when at the club if they went back to the VIP room with someone else that their there to make money. I actually had one dancer get so attached to me that she asked not to come in while she was working because she felt that if she was giving a lap dance to someone else and knew I was there she felt guilty, but we hung out a lot before or after her shift, usually at the club she worked or at a nightclub with her crazy (and not necessarily good crazy) stripper friends. Also, I have been out with my SO and seen some of the dancers, bouncers, and barmaids and had fear shoot down my spine that they would want to talk to me fans that I would have to explain how I knew them. But, hey, that is the life that we live.
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10 years ago
Clubber, I whole heartedly agree. But you have to agree, if you think that you are going to get something extra, you will go along with a lot of bs to get Mr. Happy stroked, and usually will believe her when she wants just a little bit more, then a little bit more, then a little bit more. That's their job, to separate you from your money. That's what they do, some a just a little less honest or more deceptive than others. I'm not saying a little extra effort on your part won't be rewarded, especially from a dancer that is newer or there more for fun than a "career" (especially in the smaller clubs or topless bars). I am saying, though, a true professional "dancer" is there to make money and will usually do what it takes to make the most from whom ever they can, and if that involves stringing you along or leading you on they most will. Now, if you are a regular at a place and have established somewhat of a relationship with them (especially a smaller place), in my experience your efforts are usually rewarded better because they want the return business, and it may even lead to other things eventually.
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10 years ago
Most dancers have so much baggage included that you don't want to bring it home. Most of us go to the strip clubs for the fantasy of having a beautiful woman pay attention to us so that we can forget our problems, but if she is living with you her problems become yours. I lived with a dancer once, and it was great at first, but quickly I realized that between the late nights, jealous wanna be boyfriends, crazy (and not in a good way) friends and coworkers, your friends always trying to get a BJ from her once they find out where she worked, instability and drama, it wasn't worth It. Also, if you think it will get better for her once she is living with you or that she will chance once she sees your life you are safely mistaken.
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10 years ago
A dancer friend I know (I know her from outside the SC world, and no, I haven't had sex with her, but I would in a heartbeat) told me that if a guy tries to get her off first she usually doesn't return the favor. She told me a lot of customers "get off" getting the dancer off and unless afterwards they explicitly ask for the return favor she just sits on their lap. Also, she says that if they try to get her off it is a great way to get them to buy additional dances later (either at that time or a later time/date) because they think it will lead to more ( but it never does). Most dancers know how to stroke your ego and bleed every penny from you.
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10 years ago
Have a friend that have a bunch of business cards made up for a fictitious club in New York City (and write his disposable cell number on the back). When we would go out of town on business he would use them. When at a strip club he would discreetly slip them to some of the strippers and tell them we are from out of town scouting talent and she foot the bill for what we were looking for, and asked if she wanted to make some REAL MONEY. Also, he would tell them not to tell the bouncers or management. If they believed it (and they usually did), they were all over us for the evening, we usually didn't have to tip them and still got dances (and sometimes VIP's), and more often than not they would call after their shift finished and would come over to the hotel to for some real fun.
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10 years ago
Yeah, but then she wanted another $100
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10 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
I know several escorts (not as a client) that started out stripping, and they all have told me that that is where they got their initial client base. A couple of them still do dance from time to time, especially when they are looking to replenish their client list. Thing is, I know for the most part, they did do "extras" in the clubs before they were escorts, but now that they are also escorts, they don't do "extras" at the clubs anymore, not worth getting caught and loose a place to find new customers.
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10 years ago
Part of such a decision depends on your age. Personally, I recommend the new Chevrolet Impala. I know what your thinking, "that's an old mans car", but check them out, they are very comfortable, quiet, and roomy. Plus, you can get several bags of clubs in the trunk.
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10 years ago
I have been to both city's and have to say that when I was in Minneapolis I was disappointed in the strip clubs. Generally I like the smaller clubs, but the ones I found were either crap holes or badly overpriced. Was told of a couple of BIG clubs that were good, but was told to be prepared to lay out a grand or so.
Pittsburg is hit or miss but in general most of the clubs are pretty good, and if you have transportation and can drive a little bit most of the clubs about an hour outside the city are pretty good and most time "extras" are available. )
Have fun and stay smart.
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10 years ago
With enough money you can get ALMOST anything you want from ALMOST anyone. The question really is how much is it going to cost. (and before everyone gangs up on me I said ALMOST).