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10 years ago
Several things could be going on here:
--- She could have actually wanted the feeling of skin on skin
--- She may have wanted to get pregnant
--- She may have caught something and was going to share it with all the "dirty bastards" that are doing her
--- She was upping the service level available, this was your free sample on this service (the hook) so that your next visit together you would be willing to pay extra for that ( IMO this is what she was after).
Anyways, don't do it, you don't know how many other customers she provides that level of service to. Better to be safe that to "get a gift that keeps on giving"!
Have fun and ride hard
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10 years ago
You go and tell a stripper your only gonna give her 45 cents and tell us how far you get
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10 years ago
Just remember to wrap it, you don't know how many of us she "has really wanted it from". But, that being said, good luck to you and we expect a full report.
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10 years ago
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GACAUn-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.
It verses so much from area to area, state to state, town to town, club to club, and even dancer to dancer. Club I use to go to quite regularly some dancers wanted $100 for just a handy, others in the same club if you caught them when their rent was due would blow you for $20. Best thing is to do your homework and to ask them how much before going back. Find the ones that need to make quick cash (listen to that sob story about her baby daddy not paying his child support, how her roommate stole from her, or how her car just broke down and she doesn't know how to pay to get it fixed), and go to clubs that are slow and at the end of the month. Also afternoon and early evening strippers dent do need to make more money and know their options are more limited due to the time of day they work, and avoid the most popular dancers, they are already working the marks, find the one that isn't getting as many dances only because she may not be the prettiest (hell, it's usually dark back in the VIP room anyways).
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10 years ago
#11 She drives by your house every day
#12 She shows up at your work
#13 She covers her walls with photos she has secretly taken of you
#14 She ties you up and keeps you in her basement
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10 years ago
I've seen in Pennsylvania after a raid that the clubs are never the same and that the "fun" dancers move on to the next club or start escorting.
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10 years ago
IMO don't be rude about it, if she tells the other dancers your an asshole (not like a stripper would lie and say you didn't tip, you were trying to steal from her, you were being an ass, etc.) you may not get any attention from any of them. Best thing is when she gets up to dance, use the rest room, etc., get another dancer to sit with you and let her see you are paying a lot more attention to the new one. She will either get the hint or the 2 will get into a fight over it, either way a win win for you.
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10 years ago
Find out when she isn't there, get another dancer to sit with you, spend some time and money on her. Next time you come in hopefully this one will catch you first and you can be cold to the other one. Maybe she will get the hint.
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10 years ago
Yeah, but at least you generally know when you go to an AMP what kinda action your gonna get. Strip clubs a lot of times can be a crap shoot.
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10 years ago
Years ago saw one put one I'm while on stage then got out a vibrator and went to town on herself. She made ALOT of money that night. Next time I was in I asked if she was dancing that evening and was told she got fired, was told that an LCB agent caught her act and any insertion was violation and the bar got fined. Saw her a couple of years later on an escort site and she specialized in a Greek experience.
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10 years ago
Charge strip club expenses on your company card and expense as entertainment
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10 years ago
Boobs and beer
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10 years ago
Same old story, city has all their "less desirables" cornered into one part of town so that the "respectable" population doesn't have to see them. They know their there, but in their white picket fence world the two don't collide. Sometimes they even visit the area to get their fix. But soon, property values plummet, developers buys a lot of the cheap properties, and want the city to "clean up" the area so that they can make a fortune, forcing the "less desirables" to another part of town (or a different town), and the cycle continues.
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10 years ago
Dancer I once dated (didn't know she was a dancer when I first met her) use to be greasy a lot after her shift. She told me that if she started to sweat her lotion would start to come out of her pores and would feel greasy. Problem was if she didn't rub a lot of lotion on while working her skin would get really dry from all the smoke in the club.
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10 years ago
Do when I can, best way to figure out what is on the menu from the talent
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10 years ago
Non smoking club, so girls and patrons would "go outside to have a cigarette" was the excuse they would use. Was a good racket they had going on till the cold weather would hit. Place closed a few years ago, though, due to a club opening about a mile down the road that was much more lenient on the rules and all the girls went there.
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10 years ago
I use to be a retail manager at a major midrange retailer. Was once given a resume for a sales position and listed for previous employment was as a private contractor for __________ Entertainment, address, and position was as a Customer Service Representative. Sounded great, tried to call number for company and kept going to an answering machine. Called her in and she was very dressed very conservatively and acted very professional. She interviewed very very well. It took about 2 weeks to process applications, and in the interim I visited a local strip club and low and behold, you know who I saw dancing there. I left before she saw me, but I didn't hire her. I conferred with my HR manager, and he decided that if I did and the rest of the staff found out her previous employment (primarily a male staff), it would be either too big a distraction or a sexual harassment case just waiting to happen. Don't know if that was right or wrong, but it was a different time, and I knew the crew I had working for me and he was right, it would have been a problem.
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10 years ago
Very first time was a small little roadhouse with Go Go dancers. A couple of guys from work dragged me along saying the girls there "would make a man out of me". There was a tall meaty big titted bottle blonde named Ivy dancing to Chain Gang by The Pretenders when we walked through the door. I had just turned 18 (could drink at 18 where I was at at the time), and it opened my eyes to a whole new wonderful world, beer and boobs with no one judging you. Also, got my first lap dance and my first handy that night. It was quite an experience for such a shy naive farm boy from Pennsylvania.
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10 years ago
I usually have them get the room. First thing, when you are done, you can just leave. If there are any damages, any complaints, any issues, it's not yours to deal with or an unexpected call when in certain company. Second, a lot of dancers who do OTC service are going to see multiple clients in an evening, so they are going to want the room anyways. And lastly, if she has the reputation as an escort or the cops show up later, nothing is in your name.
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10 years ago
I can almost guarantee nothing was going on inside that club, owner was very strict and there was no privacy, plus I was offered several times some fun out in the lot.
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10 years ago
A club I use to go to shared a lot with a moving truck rental company that I knew the owner of, and he told me that he thought some of the girls were doing stuff in the lot because after a weekend from late spring to early fall he would find a couple dozen on the ground between the moving vans that were parked in the lot. Between them nobody could see you. He finally started parking the vans so close to each other that nobody could walk between them.
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10 years ago
You were lucky. I have ran into a few dancers outside the club and have been nice, letting them in line in front of me or even helping one into her locked car once, and all it usually gets me is them telling me not to tell people there not to say how I know them. I once even saw one at a convenience store on her was to work trying to buy cigarettes and their debit card would work and I bought them for her. She said to me that she would "square up with me later or something" as she put it. When I saw her at the club later that night she wouldn't even acknowledge that I helped her out earlier. When I said something to her ( and I was nice about it), she told me she wasn't there, it wasn't her (it was). Same old stripper shit, all about the money!
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10 years ago
I look at going to clubs with the intent of OTC like a baseball scouting trip. You may have to sit through a few games before you find someone that like or are willing to see you later, or someone "getting hits" right away.
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10 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Superdude, according to my attorney Maryland has no such statute. It didn't help, though, that I am a resident of Pennsylvania, and local law enforcement in the area neither liked out of state people and really had an issue with this club and we're not going to do anything to assist in this issue other than the bare minimum that they were required to do. They actually gave me a hard time about it I had to get my attorney to get them to amend their report so that it didn't sound that I was negligent in my parking choice so that I could get my insurance to cover my bill.