Sugar Daddy vs OTC
JohnSmith69
What's the difference between a sugar daddy relationship and a regular OTC relationship? I ask because I'm trying to figure out what I have with my DS. We only rarely meet in the club. Instead, we usually meet for dates whenever I'm in town. We spend a couple of hours doing something fun, then go to the hotel for multi-orgasmic sex. I pay her an agreed upon sum of money each time we have a date. Is this a sugar relationship or an OTC relationship? Is there a difference?
Here's what I think. A Sugar daddy pays his baby a certain amount of money as an allowance every month, with no guarantee of how many dates there will be or whether those dates will necessarily involve sex. In an OTC relationship, the money is paid per date not per month, and it always involves sex. In other words, while these two relationships may have some similar characteristics, the OTC relationship focuses upon paying a certain amount for each time the couple has sex, whereas the sugar daddy relationship is more about being with a beautiful young woman and having a more traditional date. Is this right, or are there some other distinctions?
Here's what I think. A Sugar daddy pays his baby a certain amount of money as an allowance every month, with no guarantee of how many dates there will be or whether those dates will necessarily involve sex. In an OTC relationship, the money is paid per date not per month, and it always involves sex. In other words, while these two relationships may have some similar characteristics, the OTC relationship focuses upon paying a certain amount for each time the couple has sex, whereas the sugar daddy relationship is more about being with a beautiful young woman and having a more traditional date. Is this right, or are there some other distinctions?
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last commentI think the latter part of your note is what most sugar *babies* would prefer. :)
Where OTC is or can be a date, hook up site (hotel, home, apartment, etc). You do the deed and pay.
Both are the same with sex is mixed in. But the SD/SB has more of a "cleaner" feeling because you are not directly giving money for sex. You are "paying bills". I know tomato or TAMATO....lol
A man gets more out of OTC because the date is more practical money wise and both sides get something out of it and can end it anytime. This also allows things to progress better as neither is being taken advantage of.
In my book why bother with being a SD as you get more out of a marriage or just having a girlfriend. Even a mistress is more sensable and less costly with the man getting more out of it.
And then back to the room for sex. And more sex. I enjoy having a woman join me for dinner, great conversation and just enjoying her company. And when they stay the night, morning sex too.
It's keeping me out of the SCs but its working for me lately.
a) extremely lonely and fantasy prone men who are so starved for human interaction that will take even a paid for pretend one and value it even more than sex. I would fully expect such men to go into a funk and kinda let themselves go when the girl eventually moves on and the man realizes is just getting older.
b) guys who have so much money they just don't give a fuck about a few grand a month. (Guys in category a), by contrast, might be experience some "monetary" difficulties even at just a couple of grand a month, however. Might force them to cut out their other interest such as going to strip clubs but never getting extras, for instance.)