Comments by trixxi (page 4)

I do agree and see your POV subraman ... I dont want to seem rude but at my club there is a majority of men who just come to hang out with the strippers and do not get dances at all ... I am not offended by them, I even get along with them, but I am at the club for financial earnings so when these types just want to hang out, I usually don't want to waste my own time when it is likely that there is a paying customer waiting for me. I do think there shouldnt be pressure to buy lap dances but from a dancer's perspective it gets old talking and "being the life of the party" with multiple guys who all think you are beautiful and charming but they refuse to tip you (or any dancer) or buy you (or any dancer) a drink. These "club friends" are always dropped for "paying customers," so while it is nice to chat briefly I suggest that if you really dont want dances with a particular dancer let it be known asap, also soften the blow by giving the dancer a small pity tip. If she wants to still chat after that you know that she is talking to you because she wants to, not because she is hoping to sell lapdances.

Subraman good comments, when you come to my club I doubt I would approach you if you acted like that. I do have friends that I hang out with (who do not get dances) but when a guy flat out says "no dances," to me that means personal time is available for me which i prefer over mindless bullshit without financial promise.

when i was a wee baby stripper i used to hear this as a form of rejection "im waiting for someone..." it might have confused me when i realized that they were waiting all night for a dancer that never appeared, but it never offended me at least.

when i was a wee baby stripper i used to hear this as a form of rejection "im waiting for someone..." it might have confused me when i realized that they were waiting all night for a dancer that never appeared, but it never offended me at least.

Very funny comments shadowcat and gawker!!! Honestly I was relieved when he left and the bartender said she once took an offer of $200 to pee on a customer's face but afterwards felt disgusted with herself. OTOH even though I dont personally consider Urine to be a sexual turn on, it is a bodily fluid and I am turned on by some bodily fluids like saliva.

thanks Slick

sometimes you have to try a new club to realize how good your previous club is. i think in the strip club world finding a club where you make good money consistently at and where you are also comfortable is rare. i think its partly illusion that some clubs are better money than others because even just one spender can decide to be incredibly generous with a particular dancer, and every club has its high and low moments. best of luck on your path :)

Thanks for the complements Juice :) I agree with u Sclvr even though I do also give UHM dances as well.

Maybe you *might* disagree ... but OTOH if those girls were making money and the customers were happy, WHO CARES??

Clubsmen have rated me everything from a 7.5 to a 10. (Personally I think of myself as an 8 or 8.5)

Also, strip club managers are not consistent. One day they see you bring in $$ to club and they love you, the very next day they could be two faced and ask you to leave and never come back, without explanation or reason. I have danced in over 12 clubs and this holds true for every strip club manager I have yet to meet. Dont expect much from most strip club paid staff / employees; they NEVER have the dancer's best interests in mind and typically only see the club as a bar with the bar sale's and customer's wants 1st and foremost.

I think the dressing room webcams would be a bad idea. Girls need a place for privacy. A (well known) club in Portland has the (male) manager's office in the dressing room and thats one of the reasons I am not interested in dancing there. Its not about doing suspicious activity its about having a moment of privacy and even clean your naughty bits without being recorded

one of my favorite customers was a blind customer Ken in his late 40s ... he loved reo speedwagon and would usually get lap dances with all the girls in the club ... he actually had a very sensual touch. I asked my dancer friend what happened to him and she told me that he was living with his parents and they no longer allowed Ken to come to the clubs. I miss giving him private dances, he was very eager and loved to touch me all over, he responded extremely to my touch. I think its cruel of his parents to prevent him from coming to clubs because he has no other alternative contacts with women. I know they want to protect him but it would be nice to see him again.

LOL! Excellent joke Slick!

In the DARKER strip clubs it can be hard to even notice money. I had one guy pay me a $5 for a $20 lap dance and in that light I thought it was a $20 ... Another reason why I perfer a slightly more well lit club. I find $ in empty chairs all the time. Found a guys checkbook in the lap dance chair one time (even though I joked about writing a check for some lap dances to the customer who found it with me) I gave it to bartender. I like finding $ but its also nice to find bud ;)

look and reread my responses, i never said that and i dont know how you could put your assumptions and misunderstandings on me

Kels stop asking questions!!! I think your General Comprehension Level is beyond the numerous intellectually competent responses you have received ... My advice is to get off the forums and live a little ... you are thinking in circles and not seeing the truth in the responses.

really good sex sometimes changes your philosophy and outlook ... AMP and SC experiences are just a tiptoe into the wonderful world of sexuality that is best when shared in a private relationship. have you ever had your nails done by the asian ladies? u know some are better than others and it all depends on the day time etc that u go. SCs and AMPs are similar in that no same wonderful experience is guaranteed. u dont have to stay with him but every man is going to have different healthy temptations. personally as women i think its better to approach men with more allowance and compassion. even though men are sexually different they still are people who need to receive love, with love to give.

Listen to George he is right!!! I am a woman and I have received some extremely sensual massages (from both men and women) at regular spas and I have been incredibly aroused and wet. I was not offered a "happy ending" but receiving massage in general is still very good healthy thing to do for your body. So I am not a man but heres my 2 cents: 1) massage is healthy 2) massage at North American spas is about $60/hr 3) AMP offer same massage with happy ending available for less $ 4) most men like the economy and availibility of #3 5) on the bright side he didnt get a prostitute, he doesnt have another girlfriend and he was honest 6) do you ever go out of your way to provide your man with a variety of sexual experiences? why not rent a book or Dvd from a library about how to do massage / erotic massage and maybe you can BOTH give eachother happy endings?

It is really frustrating telling lies or having to tell lies to people we care about. i tried hard to prevent my parents from knowing and i was succesful, but i eventually told them the truth because i hated lying. this is the only time i wish i didnt tell the truth because my parents will never think the same of me again. SCs and what happens ITC is really better kept private.

i love to have my nipples teased, sucked and played with in all types of ways. there are a few female dancers that let me lick their nipples on stage and it draws CROWDS. i love having fun with these girls :) Papi- u may just have an attractive chest!! im an extremely touchy / handsy dancer and i do love 2 way chest contact ... the dancer was probobly just feeling frisky ... sometimes after a dancer has repeated her 'lap dance moves' enough times she starts to get creative and surprise you.

I agree with clubgoer, the article has this feel that Willamette Week made 12 begrudging hipster writers go to some local strip joints and write about the "flavor" of the clubs. The tone is that typical hipster "Im cooler because of my thick framed glasses and i know where the good home breweries are AND i am more vegan than you." Its audience and its authors are not in the strip commuity at all.

Yes Papi you are correct, I have seen this behavior. When I danced at Jiggles an underage juice bar packed with about 30 dancers I saw several girls not approach customers. I think it is out of immaturity, or a blend of immaturity and lack of confidence or knowledge of how to "hustle" or "play the game." I see this as bad salemanship also. Another similar bad sales technique is when one girl acts so friendly with another dancer purposefully preventing the other dancer from making $. If you ever see a dancer sitting at another girl's set try your best to discourage it. Ive had dancers sit at my stage set on their cell phones knowing that they could sit anywhere else but when they sit at my stage they affect my $ potential.

dancinggal: where i dance the dressing room is a tiny closet about 3ft by 8ft. there are no lockers so i keep all my belongings in a large cloth duffel bag that i lock. technically i could lose, if a girl brought a knife my security system would be over. so far this hasnt happened. if you have a lot of cash i suggest to change it out at bar and ALWAYS keep cash and all valubles with u AT ALL TIMES. u already know that the other girls cannot be trusted. i know that my dancing climate is different than yours so these are solutions to theft that have so far worked for me. all the best

i would say that the more that i dance, the more often that customers approach me for dances. sometimes i dont ask for lap dances after a stage set because i have a customer already waiting for lap dances. sometimes i do honestly get overwhelmed when a lot of guys want lap dances all in a row, and then i go on stage afterwards .. and sometimes i do just want a break. i know its wrong but i have sought out a moment to myself instead of approaching customers, not because i didnt want $ but mostly because i was feeling talked out from previous customers, or getting tired of dancing on stage for no one and feeling discouraged to work the floor. sometimes a moment alone is just time to recharge my personal self battery. that said i do attempt to introduce myself to everyone atleast once. also sometimes im not aware of who is wiling to spend and who just wants to BS ...