Families And Our Hobby
In my case family means my three brothers and one sister; I have no wife or children. All of my siblings know of my SC hobby but just one brother knows of my sexual dalliances with strippers. Two brothers and my sister think I am just plain silly to patronize strip clubs. The brother who knows exactly what I get up to with accommodating strippers makes no judgements (he is a life-long bachelor like me). He just thinks that I could do so much better for paid sex than boffing dancers for $300 a pop.
Do your families know of your SC hobby, if not all the gory details?
Do your families know of your SC hobby, if not all the gory details?
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My parents don't know, and don't want to. We firmly established that my life choices in some areas weren't going to be in line with their desires in my early teens. For the most part we've agreed to focus on other aspects of our lives and maintain a pleasant relationship rather than constantly bickering and judging each other. Its more or less a don't ask/don't tell situation.
My acquaintances and extended family don't know, but mostly because its just not something that comes up in short casual conversations.
As far as the money goes, strippers ain't cheap, but IMO its a fuck of a lot cheaper than dating.
So the only place to share my exploits is on here with my fellow degenerates.
It sure makes life easier when you don't have to lie to the ones that you love.
I don't have any siblings. My dad lives in the same city I do, but he doesn't know. My mom lives in a different state, so she definitely doesn't know. Most of the people I know are acquaintances, not close friends. And the few close friends I do have and hang out with on a regular basis, don't know either.
w.r.t family – I come from a very conservative Hispanic family so they would not approve and would probably think there is something wrong w/ me for visiting those places.
w.r.t. friends/acquaintances – some male friends/aquatics that are single know; but I don’t discuss the subject w/ married dudes for the most part (they often have other priorities).
I have one sibling – a married, older by 3 years, brother – he knows and says that I should enjoy myself but is worried I may be spending too much on the SCs – but hey – YOLO :)
For those of you who have family or friends who know about your strip club activities, how did they find out? Did you get caught like in steve229's case? I'm just curious because it's not like I'm purposely keeping it from the people I know, it's just that strip clubs are obviously something that's very UNlikely to come up in everyday conversations. So, unless you got caught, I don't really see how they would know.
Not married, so nothing to hide. Though if my immediately family did know, I think they would judge me so best to keep that world separated.
For me; if I am talking with a male acquaintance and the subject of sex (w/ girls :)) and/or chicks comes up; I’ll then mention my hobby.
many of my friends (who actually treat me like family should) do.
My sisters will argue about whatever they disagree with.
Ain't that the freakin' truth!
My wife knows I go, and that I fuck. My kids know I go, but if they've guessed the other, they haven't let on. Same with my mom. I suspect my brother knows what goes on, given that *he* is a reformed "bad boy". Whether he's guessed that I partake of what goes on is anybody's guess; he's good at keeping his mouth shut.
Some of my co-workers know that I go, but I doubt seriously they even have a clue about what goes on, much less that I'm involved.