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10 years ago
Clubber, maybe you need to get a t-shirt made up: "Warning! Official Old Perv on the loose!" ; )
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10 years ago
Those'd have to be gay deer if they're both bucks.
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10 years ago
This website hosts discussions for and reviews by the customers of strip clubs, so, chances are we won't know a whole heckuva lot. A couple of dancers do post on here, but I have no idea how much they'd know. You might want to check out stripperweb.com, a site for strippers.
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10 years ago
How about this, VBD: A masseuse was whining to me about how her husband-to-be didn't trust her while she was giving me a handjob. The wedding was supposed to be the following weekend. Ironic humor aside, it wasn't much of a turn-on either.
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10 years ago
Good thing to give to your boss on your last day. "Kiss me shiny metal asshole!"
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10 years ago
Like some others have mentioned, costumes and role-play could make things interesting, along with massages, showers, and making it a threesome. Doing it in other rooms in the house could be fun, too. Maybe you two could pick up some porn and try to imitate some of those scenarios. She sounds like she probably has some toys, but, personally, that's something that's never interested me.
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10 years ago
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ilbbaicnlKeep it in my pants when I do OTC. If I were a stripper it would stand for I like big bucks and I can not lie.
Yeah, I gotta see it to judge.
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10 years ago
Note to self: If I can get to Atlanta this summer, bring a lot of extra t-shirts.
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10 years ago
About twenty years ago, one dancer made cupcakes for the staff. She brought a couple out for a buddy and me. Another dancer and I got into the habit of bringing in small candies -- Lifesavers, root beer barrels, what have you -- and sharing them with each other.
Last year in Indy, I chatted with the server at one club, noticed that she had changed her hair from the blonde it was the year before to closer to a black color this time. She bought me a couple of Cokes.
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10 years ago
A couple years ago, one dancer told me all about her troubles with her husband. We still wound up doing an OTC. I can't help but think that she told me all that stuff as a sort of test, just to get a better idea where my boundaries were.
For the most part though, I wish they wouldn't talk about their SOs; they need to take their mouths off automatic and remember that their job is stress-relieving fantasies. That sort of senseless yammering really can put a damper on the mood; 'sides, I can get enough of that crap chat from the women I work with.
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10 years ago
+1 GMD
The closest club to me is 75 miles away in Fargo; it offers borderline air dances. The next closest is 150 miles and across the border in Canada with nothing but air dances. The next nearest clubs for some hands-on fun is 300 miles away in the Twin Cities. (I haven't included Outlaws in Devils Lake, a scant 80 miles away because I have no idea if the place is even actually open.)
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10 years ago
John, you have different tastes and different standards. You have a greater income than most of those guys, so you're able to roam and explore a lot more than them; you're able to sate your desires. A lot of these guys probably have much lower incomes, possibly even fixed incomes, so they can't roam and explore and experience.
The men and women there are probably all locals; they probably know each other do some extent, possibly even very well, and they probably no longer see each other "beautiful" or "handsome" but as friends and companions. You mentioned that this was a tropical location, so I'm guessing it wasn't the U.S.; if so, chances are the cultural expectations of beauty are much different than our media-saturated and -defined standards of beauty.
So what might be ugly to you could be a friendly face, a warm body, and a loyal personality that someone can look forward to waking up to each morning.
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10 years ago
Almost forgot to ask: Did you two make it to a strip joint?
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10 years ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
Is that place owned by the same guy who owns Dick's Last Resort? The instructions sounds like they come from the same mindset.
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10 years ago
Congrats, John, and I have to say that I'm envious, too...except for the pot part. My brain and my body are messed up enough as it is; I don't need any drugs -- legal or not -- helping that out. The anxiety of any potential busts (police busts, not hers, though I'm sure hers are a very welcome anxiety *g*) would put a huge damper on any trip for me.
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10 years ago
Joe, you should've told her you wanted a side-by-side comparison.
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10 years ago
$4750 for one woman and *maybe* just one encounter? Or $4750 for a string of encounters, averaging about $300 each (depending on the market, of course)?
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10 years ago
Delivering pizzas in a college town, I tend to see a couple a week at least.
My biggest problem tends to be resisting the temptation to clamp a ten spot in my mouth and drop to my knees, begging for a dance.
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10 years ago
After I remind a bored dancer that I'm hundreds of miles away, she tends to stop texting me.
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10 years ago
Tony Randall should get an honorary mention as a dirty old man. He was 75 when he married his second wife -- who was 25.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tony_Randall
http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0709704/bio?ref_=nm_ov_bio_sm
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10 years ago
I've always used a straw. I'm just so used to fast food and eating on the go, I just never thought about any perceived image problem.
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10 years ago
Yeah, it sounds like they're misreading their demographics.
Several years ago, a buddy in the Twin Cities told me that the Entertainment section of the newspaper would have strip-club ads. I told him, no, you need to check the Sports section. It didn't click with him that the target audience for the Entertainment section was for the general readers and families, while the Sports section demographic is largely male.
But that also doesn't mean that a strip club's target demographic is going to sports fans -- not unless there's a home game and the club offer no cover to those who come in with a ticket stub.
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10 years ago
Just glad they didn't break out those pillows.
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10 years ago
It's all going to depend on the dancer, the club, the amount of business at the time, everyone's moods, and who knows what else.
Best thing I can suggest is just go. If she sits down with you guys again, offer to buy her a drink and start chatting. If she suggests some dances, go for it but it couldn't hurt to offer her a little extra cash as thanks for the conversation and perhaps to entice her for some more get-acquainted chatting; just try to not make it sound like you're giving her the brush off, okay? : ) Keep it casual and friendly but still a profitable night for her; she's there to make some money, after all.
If you've already brought up the prospect of OTC with her, I'd probably wait until just before any dances. It'll give her something to think about while she's dancing for you two. It could add some extra incentive into the dances, but, on the other hand, it could be a deal-breaker for her, too. No one here knows who she is, so we can't offer any real insight into her; only you and your wife know her; only you and your wife can make that call.
Good luck, man. I hope things work out.
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10 years ago
I wonder if he means he hasn't been in that club's bathrooms in two years.
If nothing else, it should get flagged for clarifications.