No more being disappointed!
Clackport
Washington
Recently I've started a new thing. If I meet a stripper I like and have a good time with, then I'll ask for her number. Obviously sometimes it's for OTC purposes, but sometimes it's just for wanting to know if and/or when she's working.
What prompted this for me was going to different clubs and not seeing even one girl that interests me, these kind of club visits are a waste of time and money to me, and I don't have a lot of time to begin. At least with the phone numbers, I know when they're working, so when I go see them, there is potential for a good time from new strippers you haven't met, and there is a guarantee of a good time with that stripper you're gonna see.
I've probably asked for around 12 numbers, and only one 1 or 2 turned me down, so a lot of strippers are willing to give you their number.
Thoughts?
What prompted this for me was going to different clubs and not seeing even one girl that interests me, these kind of club visits are a waste of time and money to me, and I don't have a lot of time to begin. At least with the phone numbers, I know when they're working, so when I go see them, there is potential for a good time from new strippers you haven't met, and there is a guarantee of a good time with that stripper you're gonna see.
I've probably asked for around 12 numbers, and only one 1 or 2 turned me down, so a lot of strippers are willing to give you their number.
Thoughts?
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Rock on and play hard.
“Context” is important – some dancers may think that a PL asking for her # is b/c he wants to get w/ her; i.e. try to be her BF or something – so “context” is important – when I ask for a dancer’s #; I’ll say something along the lines of “can I get your # so I could come see you some other time” – instead of just “can I have your #” – that way she does not think I’m trying to date or stalk her.
Making contact w/ a dancer to meet in the club probably yields a higher batting avg that setting up OTC.
It may also be a good idea to let dancers know about a burn ph or better yet a Google # and explain to them that is a good way to get a customer base and keep in contact w/ regular custies w/o having to give out her real # or any personal info.
Still, some will never respond to your texts and it was a wasted effort. But many times I've set up a time/day to meet a dancer at her club and had great times with them. I do this as much as possible. And I've found it a worthwhile endeavor.
The downside of this modus operandi is that the dancer I've been in contact with expects me to spend my time and money on her. If I see a new hottie, I can't easily ditch the dancer I have a date with.
I too travel a lot, and my repeat visits usually don't allow me to build a rapport with dancers (I may visit a city once a year). I too have done what Corvus has and contacted a dancer before I arrive to make sure I have some company for the evening... but I stopped doing this because once I had arrived I would spy a dancer better looking than the one I was meeting. I am too polite to just dump a girl I had asked to free up time to meet me and go talk to what I perceive as the better looking dancer. In some cases the better looking dancer may not even accept an advance from me in fear of stripper locker room drama.
It's a gamble - go fishing in the ocean or at the trout pond.
Also Esta like Papi says, just tell you want her number so that you can come see her again.
The paradox is that even when you're always able to coordinate visits with your favorites, some days/nights will be disappointing because of raised expectations. My best times in clubs have been unplanned. They never could have happened without the risk of being disappointed.
Also, echoing what was already stated, if I text a dancer I'm coming in, the expectation is set that I will spend most my time and cash on her. I don't want to establish that kind of expectation usually.
Usually, the only time I even keep the number is if OTC was just arranged, then, if it was good and she made it past the sniff test, then I'll keep to arrange future OTC sessions, otherwise, I delete it and move on. There are plenty of other fish in the sea.
Remember, it's a numbers game (no pun intended). You're not going to be attracted to every stripper you see, so in order to get exposure to the ones you want, you need to spend time browsing.
??? Why is it a waste of time? If you don't get texts back, I can see that. But it's literally been years since a stripper totally ignored my texts (sometimes they ignore one here or there, or don't respond back until the following day). But I never ask for their number unless I've spent at least a couple hunnert on them
You sound like someone who actually wants to have outside off the clock relationships with strippers. That's great!
But you post and post and post and it sounds like you must run through them really quickly. I mean each outside relationship is likely to run for weeks or months, or more. But you keep posting about all the new things you are doing with new women in strip clubs. You post about getting dances from one, when you are intending to see another one off of the clock.
Even this, talking about how to get their telephone numbers, which suggests seeing them outside, but then talking about it in a way which suggests that you are doing this with lots and lots of girls.
What gives? The more involved with them you plan on getting, the less of them that this should include. You seem to me to be someone who says he wants to see them outside, but then must in fact be somehow preventing this.
True?
SJG
I rarely if ever just go to the club to buy dances and nothing else.
All of them are either on their way in or out of the rotation. I go to the club to seek out replacement ladies for the ones on their way out. Once we OTC, that's the only way I see them until they exit the rotation. I can usually tell if OTC is even a possibility within the first song or two, and within another song or two the subject is broached. If she's willing and serious, 9 out of 10 times I'll have the deal sealed and her number with arrangements for OTC either later that day/evening or the next morning. If it's not done by then, I'll ask her when she's working next before we part ways at the club and hit it again next at that time. If the deal isn't done by then or she didn't show up for her shift at the club when she said she would, no loss, I just keep looking for that next replacement that I was looking for before I met her.
So it sounds like you guys are saying if you text a dancer you're coming in, then you're obligated to spend all your money on her. I don't see it that way. I just see it as you'll know you'll have a good time regardless, whether it's with her, or with a new dancer you meet and like. Of course I'm gonna spend some money on the girl I came to see, but I by no means feel that I have to be glued to the girl.
Sometimes it all comes together for me other times it doesn't. But it's all fun when dealing with naked hotties.
I've had dozens upon dozens of stripper's phone numbers from the three cities I visit on a regular basis. But currently there are only about four in my phone. They cycle out at a pretty fast rate for the most part. Although one I've had for two years and another for nearly a year and a half.
I say if it works for you keep rocking, if not figure out what does. For now I have a lot more civilian girl's numbers than dancer's and other than one recent extreme example, this is working well for me at this time.