Comments by Sowhatt (page 2)

That's a great review but it seems like concludes that this is far from the norm at this club and it normally sucks. We all get that once in a lifetime trip.

Put the moves on her like you would a civvie and then see if she asks for money

Poorly veiled attempt to brag about the size of your cock. Move along.

PL. but that doesn't mean what you want is off the table. Quit giving her cash out of the goodness of your own heart.

I wouldn't, and I have no problem with people smoking, used to plenty back in the day. The reason I wouldn't is you have no idea what's in that joint. Good chance it ain't ALL weed. Meth? Likely. Coke? Likely. When I say likely, I'm not saying that there's a 90% chance there's some in there, but you ARE at a SC with girls with drug problems, so is a 10% chance of suckin down some meth worth it?

Hypothetically: I woulda stopped right after she turned down the 181 and not continued the conversation. If she was interested, she would have caved and texted you back eventually with what she'll take. THEN you negotiate.

Weeknights make no difference in Big D. Actually, I'd go to one of the nicer places (SR in particular has been HOT for me on off-nights). On these nights you can find a girl that you like, and wrap her up for the whole time you're there for about 300, or even less. Basically it boils down to making a few hundred and spending the whole night with you, or making the same and hustling all night. Path of least resistance. Great way to cultivate a current fav relationship too. Be prepared for 25 dances tho.

Tons of reviews to read sir. To narrow it down on which clubs to read reviews for kind of by classification I'd go with: Baby Dolls - Value Cabaret Royale - Slower pace Fare Club - BYOB Spearmint Rhino/The Lodge - Big Spender Lipstick/DGC - Dives Again, lots of other options besides these. Start Readin'.

Quick n' dirty: fare club (byob) Got some cash to throw around and time to kill? SR or The Lodge. Wanna just hang and enjoy the eye candy with a good LD or two? BDolls

It was an easy call for me cause I went through it once, early on in my career. I didn't realize I had been zoned, cause I was still getting to slap her ass and grab her tits, which, let's be honest, makes getting zoned harder to spot. After which she'd tell me about her problems. Thank god for going in one night when she wasn't there, and being offered bbbj in exchange for paying a phone bill by some other rando. Made me think. Wait a minute.....SHIT! Now it's easy to spot. Watch your progress meter, if you've been zoned it plateaus, generally in the vicinity of the best available legit lap dances in whatever establishment she's working in, sometimes with discounts, but usually not. You're her friend, and you're reliable. Why give you a discount? Save that for the guys who still need to be hustled. Every other girl your progress meter will go up or down continuously depending on a variety of other factors that are certainly discussed in many other threads.

Stripper friendzoned.

Don't prepay, and I wouldn't go to her place unless you really trust her, you never know who's waiting there to welcome you.

the brunette fo sho

Maybe I need to give silver city another chance. PM me if you see this rick and let me know what I'm doing wrong in there.

Glad I'm not the only one that thinks so. I still say for the down and dirty, the fare is the way to go. Prove me wrong! @ SR fun can be had. The CRs are nice and large, if you get in the right corner, even though there's not a curtain, you or the girl can see trouble coming a mile away, although this pretty much rules out FS. The regular lap dance room is a horsehoe with divider walls, and if you're in there on your own or at least at the other end, tip your bouncer and you won't be disturbed, so good for an HJ or BJ I should think.

Good lord the lodge is expensive though. At least it used to be. I'd say SR or Fare Club, although the girl quality at Fare can be low. Best move is to find a good one at Cabaret Royale, negotiate, and take the party next door to the VIP at Fare where you can find a corner that is literally too dark for anyone to see into. Plus the room is usually empty unless it's friday or saturday night anyway. I totally disagree about Baby Dolls. While this may have been true in the past, I have neither experienced nor even heard of a "good time" in there in at least a year, they really cracked down. I've never been in the back at the Lodge, so I don't know what it's like, cameras, etc.

4. Grind only on your leg, purposefully avoiding balls and shaft. The kind where you do little scoots to try and make a little contact yourself, usually leave thoroughly unhappy, and never buy dances from her again.

Weed, no big deal. It's a misdemeanor too, for a reason (see thousands of other forums for the economic reasons behind the illegality of it, etc.). Coke, etc. Big deal. Fuck that shit.

crimes against nature is probably anal. this is north carolina after all.

This blows my mind. Are you saying you're only sexually attracted to women who are some combination of stupid, annoying, and bitchy?

only 300? jeebus. the one time i tried that last ditch move it was 1000. i couldn't swing that.

We've all been there, even the one who doth protest too much, methinks. Sadly, just with all other facets of life, once you've been there and been burned, you're probably better off. Can the movie-ending riding off into the sunset happy ending happen with these girls? It's probably possible. It just really doesn't happen.

Thanks guys, community comes through again.

clarification: she looks like a tranny in the second and third pics.

She looks like a tranny to me. Tranny = auto 0