OTC first timer advice
mal_hodgson
Minnesota
I have a chance to set up an OTC with a dancer. Not my ATF by any stretch, but I have been getting dances from her regularly. Last time was a VIP session, with good two way contact and even got her to reach in my pants when I unzipped, but that was it. She was real nervous about management catching her if she did more. I should add i have no evidence that there is any ITC extras action at this club beyond a quick inside the pants fondling by a very few of the girls.
After turning down my ITC suggestions, she offered OTC at her place. Any suggestions for an OTC Noob on how to get the most out of an OTC experience?
After turning down my ITC suggestions, she offered OTC at her place. Any suggestions for an OTC Noob on how to get the most out of an OTC experience?
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"I wouldn't go to her place unless you really trust her, you never know who's waiting there to welcome you."
It could be Juicebox69!
I've had several strippers come over to my house and I'm spending next weekend at a stripper's place, but that doesn't mean I suggest following my example. I don't have any children, I'm not married, and I have a security system with cameras covering all of the doors into my house. The stripper who I'm spending next weekend with has been at my house several times and I've been to her place several dozen times. It looks like I'm being reckless but I'm actually being very careful and protecting myself. Make sure that you do the same, protect yourself.
1. Do not prepay, ever. You pay once services are rendered.
2. Make sure you are both crystal clear as to what the expectations are upfront.
3. Do a little research on the location in advance of the meet. I'm not really as concerned about the whole "her place" thing as other guys are, but I might be if it is a motel or crappy apartment complex. Also, you might draw some comfort if she has been dancing at that club and living in the area for some time. The most problematic girls tend to be the transient ones.
4. Just keep your eyes open and your wits about you. If you do not like anything that you see, then just walk/drive away. Don't let eagerness to get your dick wet make your brain soft.
Good luck!
Do not ever go to a dancer's place.
2. Don't meet at your place. If things inevitably hit the skids do you really want her to know where you live?
3. Use protection.
4. Never prepay.
5. Get there early if it's a hotel to make sure no one else decides to show up with her.
I would only say that once you get to know a dancer and establish an OTC relationship, it becomes easier and less worrisome. You can do it in her place, your place or any place and just relax and enjoy the experience.
Her apartment building was kind of sketchy, but it was daytime so I didn't feel to unsafe. Probably wouldn't have gone in if it was dark.