Comments by JohnBuford (page 2)

Given the concerns over identify theft and information breaches,yes, it's a perfectly reasonable request IMO.

" I need $1,200 to get an apartment."

@Papi... yes first time OTC.

Thanks to all of you who took the time to respond. I'll update if/when something happens.

Hi Papi. That's the thing... this club is known as no extras. I'm not so naive to think she's never been paid for sex, but I'm guessing it's been a case-by-case arrangement.

Yes.

Bravo !

Good to hear from you and pleased you are you doing well.

NICE whip. I love the color.

" The time is always right to do what is right."... Martin Luther King Jr.

The club was opened in 1975 by a guy who made his money in the fruit business. Hence the name.He argued (and won) in court that a stripper dancing was "artistic expression" and should be treated no differently than "regular" dancing.Thus,in Massachusetts we have fully nude and alcohol.

If I sense it's "natural" (not easy I know, with strippers) I'm ok with it. If it's contrived,then no,I don't like it at all.

I don't say this in a smartass way,but I think you both need professional help. I TOTALLY understand wanting to "help", I've done it myself plenty of times. But this thing you have going on ? Whew. Above my pay grade as we used to say in the Army.You're 72. Children ? Grandchildren ? If yes,are you spending time with them that could be more beneficial ?

Think of the $350 as an investment and not an expense. At a minimum you learned what NOT to do.Their hustle stays the same,whereas you can up yours.

My rule has always been whatever she has done and with whom before we met is her life and her business. But after we met ? Nope. No interest in seeing or hearing her with another guy.

If you are truly enjoying your time and not just " going through the motions", absolutely rock on dude.I'm at the other end of the spectrum.I'm taking a sabbatical because it hasn't been fun for me lately.I'm relieved to see that I am OK with not going.So long as you can too,I don't see a problem.

Isn't Bangmyycock in Tyland ? Or is that Cygone ?

ROB,no doubt in my mind. I think you handled it well.You paid for dinner,came to an agreement on the business side of things and made plans to meet again.If she took an Uber/taxi to get the restaurant I would have paid for her ride home,but that's it.

Dude,you caught lightning in a bottle with this chick.She's clearly an outlier and rather than dwell on the sloppy exit (and how many relationships stick the dismount ?) be grateful that you had the times you did.

nauri,turn this into a road trip.Could be a book here:"Travels For Two Way." Start in Florida,head north.Hit every club between there and British Columbia. Let us know what you learn. You could be the next Kerouac.

Tell her you will drive her to see her father.If she stammers... you're being played.Absent that,insist on her father's name and the hospital he's in.If she stammers... you're being played.If she does give you the information call the hospital and ask to be connected to his room.If he's not s patient...well...shrug.

Law School ?

Grrr...meant to post " $40 million empty suit "

For the record, the vote was 2-1. If you include the first Judge who ruled, it's 2-2. That's hardly a "slam dunk." But...hey, the NFL (for now) has won.Noted. The mouth-breathing Pats haters are happy. Good for them. Just don't whine when the NFL/Goodell (a $40 million) screws your team.

I'm a retired senior NCO from the US Army and was a recruiter in New Jersey for three years in the early 80's.Most of the females I put in had " issues ." Daddy issues in particular. This one girl had made it quite clear that she was available, but Fort Leavenworth beckoned in my mind so I passed. Anyway, she had a tat on her wrist and when I complimented her on it she asked if I wanted to see her other one ." Sure. " She smiled and started to unbuckle the belt of her jeans. Again...the military prison at Leavenworth beckoned and I told her no. That was my first time I realized girls with tats are a mental mess.