ROB?
Tuesday, July 26, 2016 1:59 PM
I think I know the answer to this question, but I'm curious to get some feedback. Thanks for your input.
So, I'm testing out the sugar scene. Signed up for SA and have started going on some initial dates. I'm looking for an ongoing thing, not a one time hookup. All of my dates so far have been with attractive young women. One I wasn't really interested in, but the others are options. I would consider these women to all be 8.5's and above. Picture the best strippers in the club, except without the drug addiction, and a little more like the girl next door. Most are in college or college educated and not many have tattoos. Don't get me wrong, I have some favorite strippers who have plenty of tattoos and do their fair share of drugs. The SA women I've met with just seem a little cleaner cut.
Anyway, on to the situation. So, I meet this one girl online. Early twenties, pretty, hot little body. We exchange messages, numbers, start texting, and then meet for a meal. We spend about an hour getting to know one another and we are really hitting it off. We both feel comfortable around each other, so we discuss the details of an arrangement and come to an agreement. We are both happy about the arrangement and look forward to starting soon.
Then, she goes to the bathroom, returns, and the hustle began. She asked me for $$ for today's date. She said her previous SD's had given her $ up front, to show they were serious. I told her I wasn't aware of this in advance and didn't feel comfortable with it. She said she really needed it to go get her car from the repair shop, before it closed that night. After I said no, she said it would be an advance toward our first date together. I still said no, so then she asked for less money. I still said I didn't feel comfortable with that, because I thought I might give her the money and never see her again. She started pressuring me and guilt tripping me, questioning whether I could really afford to be a SD, if I was sweating over a small amount of money like that. I told her we could meet soon and start the arrangement and she would get her money then. She insisted she needed it then, to get her car. I refused and eventually, I said sorry, and walked away.
She contacted me a couple of days later, but still we had the same issue, so things went nowhere. Before the hustle at the end of the date, we got along so well and I was really attracted to her, that I was hoping she would be my new SB going forward. I'm disappointed things didn't work out, but there are other options I'm pursuing too.
Since this would have been an ongoing thing, she stood to make a lot of money over the long run, so if she was genuine about wanting an arrangement, she left a lot of money on the table by insisting on the up front payment. My gut tells me that she is a hustler though, who does this regularly. She has no intention of entering into a relationship with anybody, and just gets guys to fall in lust with her, and then suckers them out of upfront money and disappears. I had heard about SB hustlers conning guys by getting them to send them money before their first date, but never after a first date like this.
So, was she a ROB? Also, for any of you out there that have used SA or other sugar dating sites, any advice? Thanks.
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