You like it? Creep you out? Make you feel old and go limp?
I will admit not being accustomed to this. But I was buying dances from someone less than half my age, and she was talking shit as we progressed... By the sixth song we were done with the pretense of dancing-- she put both knees on the chair, and Daddy just grabbed her ass and dry humped her until he was damp-humping... lol!
Being called "daddy? "
Somewhere between harmless and annoying. If you take it literally, it implies incest--which is creepy.
I can’t comment - as it’s never been done with me. There is a fine line - as I’m guessing it’s intended to be erotic - but it could also be creepy.
I think I’d rather not be called daddy -
My ATF sent me a video clip from her phone where she just looks into the camera, tilts he head a little, and says “daddy”. It’s fucking hot as hell.
I've had a couple strippers call me daddy. I just snicker a little, I find it funny and just another form of SS.
Step-daddy scenarios are all the rage in porn these days. Not surprising it would show up on lap dance couches.
I've never been called Daddy by a stripper, but Latina dancers sometimes call me Papi. One in Austin even called me Papi Chulo! I had to tell her "Gracias, mi empanadita dulce, but there's only one Papi Chulo!"
Some dancers have called me Daddy. I only object if they call me Grand-daddy.
In the Latin culture it'a a friendly term of affection - e.g. you could be at a Cuban restaurant and the waitress may come-up and tell you in Spanish "papi I'll be w/ you in a minute" - def nothing to do w/ her literally thinking of you as her daddy - you even call young kids "mami" and "papi" out of affection sorta like "mamita hand me that bag" - again it's more the equivalent of saying "sweetheart" vs a literal father/mother.
I use the word "mami"/"mamita" all the time w/ dancers (even non-Latin dancers) and just regular people - again it's part of the Latin culture particularly the Cuban culture.
I def like using pet-names and them being used w/ me - I don't like being "all-formal" and shit and just like being real/genuine.
I take it to refer to the statement of " Who's your Daddy Now ? " Which is essentially complimenting you to say you are the dominate male there at that time.
To me, fucking creepy incestual. I realize that as Papi says, it's affectionate in latin culture... but one "papi" and I'm asking the girl not to call me that again. My problem, not hers
It’s no inherently creepier than calling someone “baby.” It’s just a cultural difference.
Maybe not as much these-days; but black -girls would often use the term "daddy" - e.g. "hey daddy what brings you in tonight?" - again I like it and see it as a term of affection.
You Anglos are too-damn cold and detached
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-->"It’s no inherently creepier than calling someone “baby.” It’s just a cultural difference."
Right; I'm not passing judgement; just saying I don't like it, and if a stripper I want to spend time with starts saying it, I'll have her call me almost any other term of endearment instead. I'm partial to "Big Mover and Packer", as in, "Hey Big Mover and Packer, I bet you could move my Alu Mattar from Chennai to Jaipur without even breaking a sweat"
I used to see a dancer OTC in Columbia SC. One day we were making plans for our next dinner date and she suggested that we dress up. She said " I want to see the tongues wag when I kiss you and call you daddy". We did do dinner but we didn't dress up. :)
Lol subraman. That’s intense.
at 68 i don’t mind being called daddy.
Apparently, it’s a 1920’s term for a woman’s wealthy boyfriend.
Not into that whatsoever.
Kind of like it. Maybe it's because my mom used to call my dad Daddy.
I dont remember any dancer calling me daddy. I've heard lots of other names though.
Don't many strippers have "Daddy issues" anyway? I once delivered my ATF to a rather pricey, high end drug rehab program and when she checked in she referred to me as her grandfather. The tour guide insisted I accompany them and I did. She then sent my ATF off with another staff member & brought me into her office and started questioning me about her life & history. Surprisingly I was able to truthfully answer most of her questions, said good-bye to my "granddaughter" and drove 2 1/2 hours home. I thought about her starting a road to a new life starting with a lie, and called the counselor back and told her just that. I said that while I knew her well and thought very highly of her I was her best customer, not a relative. She sounded offended and I apologized and explained that the misnomer had started out as an off hand remark and grew into a deception. She ended the conversation quickly. When my ATF first called me she said she & the counselor had laughed about it. More recently I was driving her to work at a club about 45 minutes from my home and it had been freezing rain all day and about 1/4 of the way there she said she didn't want to work, thought it would be real slow and she'd rather turn around and go home and fuck me. So she called work and said her great-grandfather was having trouble driving in the ice & slush so she wouldn't be in. I told her I could live with being her grandfather but not her great-grandfather. She never mentioned it again.
Haven't gotten "daddy" yet, but I'm only 37. I've gotten "teddy bear" as an affection which I don't really like. "Babe" or "Baby" I get too.
It's a subculture or vernacular, heard it between an eary 20s couple with the girl behaving generally perky and childish.
If I sense it's "natural" (not easy I know, with strippers) I'm ok with it. If it's contrived,then no,I don't like it at all.
Does it make a difference if you ask her "Who's you daddy?" and she moans that you are?
Homy shit Gawker, so many red flags with your atf and you still go on seeing her.
Pathological liars see nothing wrong with stretching the truth and mislabeling scenarios to benefit themselves. It’s a ha it she will never break, ever. Glad you’re having fun with that, but it’s one of the reasons why I stay away from Clubbing.
Haven’t been called Daddy before, but that might be because I’m not old enough to be any of their daddy’s yet. I suppose only time will tell. I get babe and honey all the time
Two weeks ago, my newest fave at the club whispered at me, "Cum on my tits, Daddy" right before I was about to release. Damn near blew her head off.
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It’s cool, unless she actually is your kid :/
-->"Haven’t been called Daddy before, but that might be because I’m not old enough to be any of their daddy’s yet. I suppose only time will tell."
Well, according to us, this has less to do with age (the girl is not actually fantasizing you're her father) than a cultural term of affection, more "Who's your daddy" or "Ay papi chulo" than "watch out dad, you're crushing my smokes". It's definitely the case that latin women will call even young men, or even their sons, papi.
There's a funny phrase my latin buddies say when they see a hot young mother with her child: "Que mama mas mami!"
Dont care either way. Doesnt do anything for me but not a turn off either. I have yet to have a stripper call me daddy though.
I take it more as meaning sugar daddy and am ok with it.
"Oh fuck!! She does kind of look like that chick I hooked up with 22 years ago..."
I love it when a hot little latina calls me "mami", but hearing that from any other type of dancer would completely creep me the fuck out.
I'm into females exclusively but I have a tranny customer who buys bitcoin from me regularly call me daddy all the time...no problem with that...I was a little peeved one time he sent me pics by mistake though...
I had this conversation with my ATF. Wasn't that she ever called me that or I referred to myself that way, but we did agree I was like a father figure to our age difference.
I don't mind being called daddy, but I really hate "hun."
Also--when I lived in San Antonio everyone in service industries called me "boss", which I hated because most of them were my age. It was just a cultural thing but I hate that label/word for some reason.
