When a Stripper calls you "Daddy"

Lurker_X
North Carolina
You like it? Creep you out? Make you feel old and go limp?

I will admit not being accustomed to this. But I was buying dances from someone less than half my age, and she was talking shit as we progressed... By the sixth song we were done with the pretense of dancing-- she put both knees on the chair, and Daddy just grabbed her ass and dry humped her until he was damp-humping... lol!

38 comments

  • RandomMember
    7 years ago
    Being called "daddy? "

    Somewhere between harmless and annoying. If you take it literally, it implies incest--which is creepy.
  • Cashman1234
    7 years ago
    I can’t comment - as it’s never been done with me. There is a fine line - as I’m guessing it’s intended to be erotic - but it could also be creepy.

    I think I’d rather not be called daddy -
  • georgmicrodong
    7 years ago
    My ATF sent me a video clip from her phone where she just looks into the camera, tilts he head a little, and says “daddy”. It’s fucking hot as hell.
  • TheeOSU
    7 years ago
    I've had a couple strippers call me daddy. I just snicker a little, I find it funny and just another form of SS.
  • grand1511
    7 years ago
    Step-daddy scenarios are all the rage in porn these days. Not surprising it would show up on lap dance couches.
  • MrDeuce
    7 years ago
    I've never been called Daddy by a stripper, but Latina dancers sometimes call me Papi. One in Austin even called me Papi Chulo! I had to tell her "Gracias, mi empanadita dulce, but there's only one Papi Chulo!"
  • jackslash
    7 years ago
    Some dancers have called me Daddy. I only object if they call me Grand-daddy.
  • Papi_Chulo
    7 years ago
    In the Latin culture it'a a friendly term of affection - e.g. you could be at a Cuban restaurant and the waitress may come-up and tell you in Spanish "papi I'll be w/ you in a minute" - def nothing to do w/ her literally thinking of you as her daddy - you even call young kids "mami" and "papi" out of affection sorta like "mamita hand me that bag" - again it's more the equivalent of saying "sweetheart" vs a literal father/mother.
  • Papi_Chulo
    7 years ago
    I use the word "mami"/"mamita" all the time w/ dancers (even non-Latin dancers) and just regular people - again it's part of the Latin culture particularly the Cuban culture.

    I def like using pet-names and them being used w/ me - I don't like being "all-formal" and shit and just like being real/genuine.
  • Warrior15
    7 years ago
    I take it to refer to the statement of " Who's your Daddy Now ? " Which is essentially complimenting you to say you are the dominate male there at that time.
  • Subraman
    7 years ago
    To me, fucking creepy incestual. I realize that as Papi says, it's affectionate in latin culture... but one "papi" and I'm asking the girl not to call me that again. My problem, not hers
  • Bj99
    7 years ago
    It’s no inherently creepier than calling someone “baby.” It’s just a cultural difference.
  • Papi_Chulo
    7 years ago
    Maybe not as much these-days; but black -girls would often use the term "daddy" - e.g. "hey daddy what brings you in tonight?" - again I like it and see it as a term of affection.

    You Anglos are too-damn cold and detached

    :)
  • Subraman
    7 years ago
    -->"It’s no inherently creepier than calling someone “baby.” It’s just a cultural difference."

    Right; I'm not passing judgement; just saying I don't like it, and if a stripper I want to spend time with starts saying it, I'll have her call me almost any other term of endearment instead. I'm partial to "Big Mover and Packer", as in, "Hey Big Mover and Packer, I bet you could move my Alu Mattar from Chennai to Jaipur without even breaking a sweat"
  • shadowcat
    7 years ago
    I used to see a dancer OTC in Columbia SC. One day we were making plans for our next dinner date and she suggested that we dress up. She said " I want to see the tongues wag when I kiss you and call you daddy". We did do dinner but we didn't dress up. :)
  • Bj99
    7 years ago
    Lol subraman. That’s intense.
  • Jascoi
    7 years ago
    at 68 i don’t mind being called daddy.
  • Bj99
    7 years ago
    http://grembert0.tripod.com/id1.html

    Apparently, it’s a 1920’s term for a woman’s wealthy boyfriend.
  • JohnTitor
    7 years ago
    Not into that whatsoever.
  • loper
    7 years ago
    Kind of like it. Maybe it's because my mom used to call my dad Daddy.
  • orionsmith
    7 years ago
    I dont remember any dancer calling me daddy. I've heard lots of other names though.
  • gawker
    7 years ago
    Don't many strippers have "Daddy issues" anyway?
    I once delivered my ATF to a rather pricey, high end drug rehab program and when she checked in she referred to me as her grandfather. The tour guide insisted I accompany them and I did. She then sent my ATF off with another staff member & brought me into her office and started questioning me about her life & history. Surprisingly I was able to truthfully answer most of her questions, said good-bye to my "granddaughter" and drove 2 1/2 hours home. I thought about her starting a road to a new life starting with a lie, and called the counselor back and told her just that. I said that while I knew her well and thought very highly of her I was her best customer, not a relative. She sounded offended and I apologized and explained that the misnomer had started out as an off hand remark and grew into a deception. She ended the conversation quickly. When my ATF first called me she said she & the counselor had laughed about it.
    More recently I was driving her to work at a club about 45 minutes from my home and it had been freezing rain all day and about 1/4 of the way there she said she didn't want to work, thought it would be real slow and she'd rather turn around and go home and fuck me. So she called work and said her great-grandfather was having trouble driving in the ice & slush so she wouldn't be in. I told her I could live with being her grandfather but not her great-grandfather. She never mentioned it again.
  • orangepicture
    7 years ago
    Haven't gotten "daddy" yet, but I'm only 37. I've gotten "teddy bear" as an affection which I don't really like. "Babe" or "Baby" I get too.
  • Pyroxl
    7 years ago
    It's a subculture or vernacular, heard it between an eary 20s couple with the girl behaving generally perky and childish.
  • JohnBuford
    7 years ago
    If I sense it's "natural" (not easy I know, with strippers) I'm ok with it. If it's contrived,then no,I don't like it at all.
  • flagooner
    7 years ago
    Does it make a difference if you ask her "Who's you daddy?" and she moans that you are?
  • Mate27
    7 years ago
    Homy shit Gawker, so many red flags with your atf and you still go on seeing her.

    Pathological liars see nothing wrong with stretching the truth and mislabeling scenarios to benefit themselves. It’s a ha it she will never break, ever. Glad you’re having fun with that, but it’s one of the reasons why I stay away from
    Clubbing.
  • SneakySecret2
    7 years ago
    Haven’t been called Daddy before, but that might be because I’m not old enough to be any of their daddy’s yet. I suppose only time will tell. I get babe and honey all the time
  • Charles Paisley
    7 years ago
    Two weeks ago, my newest fave at the club whispered at me, "Cum on my tits, Daddy" right before I was about to release. Damn near blew her head off.

    CP
  • realDougster
    7 years ago
    It’s cool, unless she actually is your kid :/
  • Subraman
    7 years ago
    -->"Haven’t been called Daddy before, but that might be because I’m not old enough to be any of their daddy’s yet. I suppose only time will tell."

    Well, according to us, this has less to do with age (the girl is not actually fantasizing you're her father) than a cultural term of affection, more "Who's your daddy" or "Ay papi chulo" than "watch out dad, you're crushing my smokes". It's definitely the case that latin women will call even young men, or even their sons, papi.

    There's a funny phrase my latin buddies say when they see a hot young mother with her child: "Que mama mas mami!"
  • chessmaster
    7 years ago
    Dont care either way. Doesnt do anything for me but not a turn off either. I have yet to have a stripper call me daddy though.
  • Htxx
    7 years ago
    I take it more as meaning sugar daddy and am ok with it.
  • ppwh
    7 years ago
    "Oh fuck!! She does kind of look like that chick I hooked up with 22 years ago..."
  • lopaw
    7 years ago
    I love it when a hot little latina calls me "mami", but hearing that from any other type of dancer would completely creep me the fuck out.
  • max_starr
    7 years ago
    I'm into females exclusively but I have a tranny customer who buys bitcoin from me regularly call me daddy all the time...no problem with that...I was a little peeved one time he sent me pics by mistake though...
  • Clubber
    7 years ago
    I had this conversation with my ATF. Wasn't that she ever called me that or I referred to myself that way, but we did agree I was like a father figure to our age difference.
  • wildbourbon
    7 years ago
    I don't mind being called daddy, but I really hate "hun."

    Also--when I lived in San Antonio everyone in service industries called me "boss", which I hated because most of them were my age. It was just a cultural thing but I hate that label/word for some reason.
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