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2 years ago
@Robot: " Should I text her and say we should keep it a "professional" thing and I won't be there for a while?"
Yeah, sure, that'll reassure her. 🤦♂️
Assuming you're making this up as you go along, that is.
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2 years ago
I think this sounds a lot like the stories BigThirdEye and MoneyMan1234told, which also never happened.
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2 years ago
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gammanu95My casual drinking is your alcohol poisoning.
@Cashman, just look around. You have to know that lots of women showing bare boobs, and more, on Twitter, right?
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2 years ago
If you're dead set on buying a dancer an outfit, reconsider. She makes enough to buy whatever she wants.
If that's not good enough for you, just ask her to find an outfit in your price range and point you to it. Lots of dancers I know get their outfits from other dancers, and former dancers who now do some sort of sewing or assembly.
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2 years ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
What I want from TUSCL is exactly what I'm getting. I haven't had a chance to try out the new site under development yet, so I can't comment on what new features, if any, that might be there. But I'm pretty happy with the stuff currently provided.
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2 years ago
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mogul1985I have 3 lives: Work, Dog Shows and Strip Clubs
They're not.
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2 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
I think care is in order, not that you need such a warning. 🤣 Many of the girls who use the term "sugar daddy" mean, or are at least hoping for, long term, and no sex. Obviously that's not going to interest someone like you, and the "no sex" part would definitely be a deal breaker for me, and I have no doubt you'll kick those types to the curb even more quickly than I would.
I don't mind the long term part, which anyone who's ever read any large number of my older posts should already know. That's what my ATF and I had, and my current is a de facto sugar baby.
I can't even count the number of dancers who claim to have a sugar daddy who doesn't want sex, but are known to have put out in the club, however rarely.
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2 years ago
Total bullshit. At a guess, he's getting a kickback for every drink sold and set that rule for his own benefit.
For comparison, the PT's in Louisville is *also* owned by the Rick's chain, and nobody has ever made any fuss about me buying only one bottle of water. So he's blowing smoke up your ass.
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2 years ago
I can't think of a single song that is worth $20 to play that they'd actually play. Maybe I'm the odd man out here, but I feel like the girls know what songs they want, and are much more likely to dance well to those than anything I could pick.
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2 years ago
Yeah, nothing. Especially not from a seeking woman.
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2 years ago
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gammanu95My casual drinking is your alcohol poisoning.
Assuming they are actually her, and they sure as fuck look like her, the nude ones are hot, Hot, HOT!
Def fap worthy.
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2 years ago
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founderslip a dollar in her g-string for me
@booji boy: "In the EU I think that any citizen there has the right to request that removal, so Founder may not have a choice in the matter."
Yes, they do, but for a company based in the U.S., with servers in the U.S., the best they can hope for is to simply block the site.
As for deleting, I'd say "yes, but..." It's much less problematic than editing without any history, but maybe only during a certain time period, or before a certain number of people respond, or only for verified members, or maybe only VIP?
I don't think it's necessary, and the trolls will never delete their own posts anyway, but I suppose it's not a bad thing.
The way-back machine will probably pick it up anyway.
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2 years ago
Love it when women are in the club. Just additional entertainment.
Of course, most of the clubs here illegally exclude women who aren't escorted by a man; just kinda waiting for one of them to say, "let me in or I sue you".
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2 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
@rickdugan: "Never underestimate the ability of women to rationalize what they would otherwise consider unacceptable."
The same could be said for many of the men who meet dancers OTC. "She's not a prostitute, so I'm not a John."
To be fair, it's not always *just* rationalization, on either side. As you alluded, there are some very real risks to actually advertising as an escort, and for the men, in meeting one. I've met a number of dancers who absolutely acknowledge what they're doing (maybe not so much on SA; I have less experience there), and use their club time for much the same purpose *we* do, i.e. to size someone up before agreeing to meet up elsewhere.
That's not to say that there isn't a lot of rationalization going on for both the men and the women, but it's not the *whole* story.
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2 years ago
Closest I've come is one of my son's ex-girlfriends.
If I found any of *my* classmates, I'd be very surprised, though a couple of them still look really damned good.
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2 years ago
To be clear, I suspect most don't "ask customers out to dinner." I expect most of them are asking customers to buy them dinner.
Different things.
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2 years ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
In some of those IG shots, she looks a fair bit like one of the local PT's dancers. While they're both attractive, I don't consider either one of them to be "pretty".
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2 years ago
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ilbbaicnlKeep it in my pants when I do OTC. If I were a stripper it would stand for I like big bucks and I can not lie.
@wallanon: Your post presumes that fucking a particular dancer is *worth* avoiding all the others. That might have been true with my ATF, but even she didn't get "jealous" enough to ask me to stop. In fact, she was more likely to want to join.
Any dancer I've asked to go OTC has already likely passed the "no stupid shit" test, and won't cause a problem. If she was faking it, I probably won't see her again. I once had *four* dancers in one club that I was seeing OTC. They all knew, in fact at one point, they apparently all got together and discussed it. At another club, I was talking to two friends. At some point, they had a falling out, and one of them came to me and told me that I couldn't see the other one anymore. I told *her* that wasn't gonna happen, but if *she* wanted to stop talking to me because of it, I understood. She didn't stop.
I do my best to manage expectations. Just like I'm not the only dick she's sucking, she's not likely one sucking *my* dick.
Yes, I'm sure your "choke her out in the back" scenario happens; *did* happen to one of my favs. The "choker" got *her* ass kicked, and never got another dime from me, in or out of the club.
So while you choose to characterize being self-confident and assertive as mere bravado, it's not, and my experience backs that up.
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2 years ago
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ilbbaicnlKeep it in my pants when I do OTC. If I were a stripper it would stand for I like big bucks and I can not lie.
While I go to the clubs *less*, and do VIP less frequently, I don't eschew them completely. As rick says, clubs are fun for me, and whoever my current OTC partner might be, eventually they will kick me to the curb, or I will do so to them, and I'd like to at least keep some options open.
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2 years ago
Many of the girls around here use two as a form of defence against probing fingers. Few of the dancers that I prefer are shy about taking them both off in a VIP though.
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2 years ago
Strip clubs, even without sex, are relaxing for me.
Video games, especially VR ones.
LEGO assembly.
Outdoor walks.
And reading fiction, especially space opera, will always be my go to.
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2 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
I'm in the same minority as C.M.I in that I wouldn't want a mom/daughter threesome.
There used to be a club in Louisville where the daughter was the manager and mom was a dancer. I had it on good authority that mom was an extras dancer. I can't help but wonder if daughter knew, and if so, how she felt about pimping out her mom.
There was a set of identical twin escorts for a while. They would see you together, but in a tag team way, one at a time. Sadly, one of the overdosed a year or so ago, and from the looks of her facebook, the other one hasn't been taking it well at all.
I met a dancer several years ago at one club. Gorgeous woman. Tall, busty, one of the prettiest faces I've seen, and could suck a watermelon though a a drink straw. She retired, and one day I'm in another club, and who do I see but a younger version of her. It was in fact, her daughter, and another of her daughters was working at the same club. Both just as beautiful as mom, though with a definite family resemblance, the younger one didn't look as much like mom. Sadly, neither of them was willing to demonstrate their skills to me, and seemed to be under the impression that mom had never done anything like that, either. I forbore to correct their impression.
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2 years ago
Oooh, the mention of Bruce Dern reminded me of another, Silent Running. That one is great, in my opinion.
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2 years ago
Short Circuit, the "Number 5 is alive!" movie is cool too, along with Roxanne with Steve Martin.
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2 years ago
Kristen Stewart is underrated. Twilight did her no favors.
But Spy Game with Robert Redford and Brad Pitt is probably one of my favorites.
The Earthling, with William Holden and Ricky Schroeder is another one.
And I know what everyone says about Black Adam, but I enjoyed it.