Comments by mreef (page 3)

Not to repeat myself, love the older women. Loved women in their 40s when I was in my 20s. Unfortunately, I'm almost 40 myself. The young ones just don't do it for me (too innocent, too young looking and frequently bodies that look under age). My sweet spot is 25 to 35, as far as dancers go.

The best is when they greet you with their hand on your crotch. Get that a lot at Cheaters in RI, not so much at the other Boston area clubs. Never had the humming thing, but I'm intrigued.

I keep looking for clubs where patrons complain there are too many "fat dancers", all I keep finding are 18-21 year old waifs. Has nothing to do with how hard they try, it's just what appeals to me.

I discussed potty training with a stripper before getting some LDs. I kid you not. She had a girl next door quality in her personality, so it wasn't weird. It came up when we both found out we had toddlers the same age. Surprisingly, it didn't detract from the experience and I got many dances from her and the thought of my toddler vanished once she got nude and in my lap!

I would have your wife post on the pink site (stripperweb), and get opinions from the girls. Many threads about reduced sex drive due to stripping. That would concern me. Agree with the whole "open" relationship issues. I know many families with closed relationships being torn apart after 10+ years due to infidelity (including instances with the stay at home mom screwing around). So it can happen to anyone.

They play music in clubs? Seriously, my only concern with music is the length of the songs. My strip club song theorem: - Songs are too long when you are waiting for a favorite to finish her set on stage - Songs are too short when getting a LD

Find dancer that "does it" for me. Get her attention (tipping, etc) and get LDs until out of cash. Leave. Repeat at each visit.

Happily married guy here (15 years). Not interested in extras (could not deal with the risk of catching anything, even with protection... well maybe a HJ would be OK), just a high quality, decent mileage full contact LDs. Offers titillation and feels like being with other women, without actually cheating. Clubbing also offers the thrill of different women, without the risk. That said, carving out the time is the biggest challenge for me (worked out the money issue). That remind me, wife and I were watching "I think I love my wife" with Chris Rock and he mentioned his "stripper stash" in passing. Gave me a good smile.

From the second most recent review of 418: "The only reason the club gets a 2 from me instead of a 1 is that I didn't get shot while inside and from the looks of this place, it's seen that kind of action before."

I always wondered this myself. It's a big turn off to me, I hate it when they turn around and spank themselves hard/loud. I wondered if I was alone, or most guys like that.

Dancers have outfits? Never noticed. :) Prefer birthday suit.

Witness the video this week of the AZ pastor beaten/tazed/arrested for refusing to let his car be searched at a border patrol checkpoint (well inside our border). By "exercising his fourth amendment rights", he ended up tazed, arrested, beaten, needed stitches in his head and new front windows in his car. He was hiding nothing, just being a dick. I always hear people mentioning raids. How often do raids of SC clubs occur? I suppose it varies widely by geographic area. Here in the NE, I couldn't see any Mass clubs getting raided (they are too pedestrian), but perhaps some RI clubs (especially after the change in indoor prostitution law take effect).

>> I always take more cash than I intend to spend. I always spend all the cash I take, intentions be damned. :)

Possession of small amounts of marijuana was decriminalized in the last Mass election, making it a $100 civil offense. Many different police departments had tickets printed up that they will give you if found carrying/smoking. I believe it is 1 ounce, I read somewhere that was around 12 joints (for personal use), but I guess it would depend on the size. No real impact on strip clubs, since it's not technically legal. Big difference between decriminalization and legal. Personally, I don't want any smoke in a strip club. I already smell like (cheap) perfume when I come home and have to take steps to mask that. Smoke would be a dead give away (My wife: "I thought you went to the movies, why do you smell like smoke").

I often question the wisdom of bringing my whole wallet into clubs. But I figure when it's on me I have more control rather than leaving it in my locked car.

I am an opportunistic clubber, I go when I can, without arousing too much suspicion from the wife and family. I am always taking a 20 or two out of my wallet and stashing it away, so I always seem to have a $200 to $350 available for the club. I tend to take no more than $200. The most I have spent is $250 or so, but my usual club stay is 1-2 hours, so I'm definitely in and out relatively quickly. I once did a VIP and was out in 35 minutes, with my wallet $150+ lighter. I've had dancers ask why I'm leaving so soon. (Uh... the "movie" I went to only runs 100+ minutes).

Yikes is right. I've turned down dancers for LDs that looked too young, even though I was sure they were over 18. I don't like the school age girl look, I can't imagine what some of these underage girls look like. Wouldn't want to be in the wrong club at the wrong time (whether you were "with" the girl or not).

A co-worker of mine went and brought back the "menu". I love the idea of bringing the girls out and picking (it must be tough to pick just one), but the prices are expensive, relative to club extras (especially compared to RI clubs, Cheaters, etc -- which I believe is almost as legal as Nevada, but certainly not regulated/safe). I have watched many if not all of the HBO reality episodes -- I was most jealous of the couples (husband/wife) that come in and share a girl.

My favorite LD club, the dancer takes off her outfit before the dance/song starts, so for me it would be what is the point? (Then you get the old sit in your lap naked until the start of the next song).

Boston. But thankfully we are close to Providence, RI for a bit more "excitement".

I have never tried negotiating for LDs. Maybe I should. $20 seems to be the going rate everywhere, but I've been there when it's been slow.

I never get tired because my primary purpose of going the club is to get LDs and get out in the minimum amount of time. Nothing more frustrating (to me) than clubs where the girls will not approach you, or hang out with regulars. I don't mind the dancers that say hello and strike up a conversation before offering a dance, but I'd rather they say "wanna dance" than nothing at all. My 2 cents -- everyone is different. I also don't go to club unless I have a minimum of $100 LD money in pocket. Only gotten out of a club spending less than that a couple times.

I don't frequent the clubs enough to worry about my personal information, I'm always honest (town, relationship status, number of kids, what I do for a living). I seem to have enough trouble seeing the same girl again -- I make a special trip hoping to see a potential new favorite and she's not working that night.

I like them old. I always ask how old before the LD, and they always lie. Usually the tell me low 30s (31-34) when they look high 30s or early 40s. For me, it's a turn on with the older ones, but they never tell me their true age. I ask how old they think I am, and they always guess 10+ years younger. No one believes me, but this is a family trait, all my brothers and sisters look 10 years younger than they are. The ones that look young are a turn off to me, especially if they play the young part (pig tails, school girl outfit, etc).

> Just as long as she doesn't start telling > me about her kids right before doing a lap > dance like one dancer did one time. I've had that happen a few times. Usually when we are in the LD area chatting waiting for the song to end and she is sitting on my lap. I thought it would be a turn off, but as soon as the song started and she started, I quickly forgot about her kids.