Comments by mreef (page 2)

I don't do extras, so obviously OTC is out of the question. But I was surprised when a girl told me she was going to give me her number, until she realized I was married. Odd. Why would she care? I don't take off my wedding band at strip clubs, I'm not a PL looking for a date. If I was looking for extras/OTC, my marital status (and hers) would be irrelevant.

I think doing something behind my spouse's back is part of the allure. My wife knows I love strip clubs (I used to tell her when I went ~15 years ago), but she doesn't realize I resumed going. There are some crazy women who think jerking off to porn and visiting strip clubs is cheating, my wife isn't one of them. I think she would be more bothered by IM'ing with an ex-girlfriend on Facebook because there is more of an emotional connection versus getting LDs from some random girls that I'll never see again. I think it's great that some clubbers go with their spouses, but I can't imagine going with my wife, it would be more of a turn off, unless perhaps she was bi (and I know she's not -- she would be more into a MMF 3-some).

I don't travel for business, in fact, I work out of my house, so I have no work-related reason to leave, must less travel. I'm happily married, have 3 young kids and no interest in extras or cheating on my wife. Going to a strip club is not cheating and neither is a good 2-way contact LD. I think when you start talking stick shifting, HJs, you've stepped over a line. Speaking of when there's a will there's a way, I got out tonight. It was only an hour, but love the smell, sight and touch of strippers!

Funny, I was making my Christmas list for my wife last night and thought about adding "Gift Certificate to local strip club", but didn't think that would go over too well.

Not sure the episode, it wasn't obvious from a quick google, but this animated gif is all over the web, so it shouldn't be hard to figure out.

1.5 hours (no traffic) for the sole purpose of the club. Feel like a PL, but it's worth it! (SuperDude, *love* the pictures associated with your profile).

Had my first 2fer experience the other day (see review), and I can't imagine going back to paying $20 per LD.

I've heard of wives that think if their husbands view porn, it's cheating. Crazy!

> Didn't David (Fox Mulder) Duchovny have some real > life "sex addiction" problem that led to a break-up > with his hottie wife, Tea Leoni... AFAIK, they separated but never got divorced and recently reconciled. Last I read (tmz) they were going renew their wedding vows in November.

Yup, the Savvis one is quite famous, it's even in the Wikipedia entry for the company: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/SAVVIS Scores must have had a good week. The night after the $241K they "scored" $129K from another guy (spread over 4 of his credit cards): http://www.thesmokinggun.com/archive/0603041scores1.html The funny thing is The Smoking Gun mentions another lawsuit that was filed around the same time against Scores for a $28K hit against another CEO!

Ditto on the 3 clubs in one night. If I was single and didn't have a family at home it probably would have been 4, but I didn't want to push my luck with "staying at work late".

No such thing as too slutty (for me). My wife occasionally comments on someone (not a dancer because I go to clubs on the DL) as being skanky -- I always want to reply "But I like 'em like that!" I don't like the girl next door look -- I like my strippers to look like strippers. But this is purely my thing, to each their own.

Ditto on the envelope in the desk. Always take a $20 here or there, cashback using debit card, or any singles and stash them away. Since I only go a couple times a month or so, I usually have $300 to $400 sitting in my desk. Usually try to take no more than $200 per visit to avoid VIP temptation (only once, $130 for 15 minutes, big regret). Prefer the $20 LDs. Also, avoids a big withdrawal of $200 when I'm "going to the movies". I've spent many a movie night at a club. I always read the www.themoviespoiler.com before going out in case my wife asks about the movie.

I have never left a club not smelling like a stripper. I don't know the brands of perfume, but they all scream stripper to me. Love the scents, but need to change my shirt before coming home.

Extras -> Providence (most all clubs) LD only (no upsell, good 2 way contact, no extras) -> Mario's Air dances -> most other MA clubs

Never waste my time with a 2nd chance. Too many strip clubs (and too many dancers), too little time.

From 2007, article about Peep shows in NYC and closing of the PlayPen: http://gawker.com/299570/the-last-live-nude-peepshow-girls-in-manhattan I tried to keep a couple tokens from the various NYC peep shows I visited many years ago. still have them. Luckily my kids never came across them and asked me about Show World Adult Center. :)

> What are some of your fantasy scenarios? They don't involve celebrities, that's for sure!

I've never been asked for a tip after a LD at the clubs I frequent. What I did object to is when I went to a private booth and the dancer told me to tip the house lady (old, heavy, ugly) for showing us to the booth. All she did is walk 15 feet and open the door for us. I reluctantly gave her $1.

$0. If she is good, we do more LDs. At $20 per 3 minutes, it's a good deal for her. I have tipped before, 10 consecutive dances (no extras), gave her $200 and $11 in singles I had in my pocket. I left the club that day with nothing left.

Funny you mention Stringfellows since it was just in the news the other week with the Simon Cowell and Ryan Seacrest visit (with pictures). 10pm to 3:30am -- I think Seacrest later said he spent too much on lap dances.

Identical as outside a club.

When my wife asked me what I wanted for Father's Day, this crossed my mind, but I kept that thought to myself. :)

And of course I've had a few that replied with "Why not" after you decline a dance. The last time that happened to me, I asked her if she really wanted to know (she did) so I explained why she had no sex appeal to me. She thanked me for being honest and left me alone.

I usually say "maybe later" or "no thanks" but for some reason the other day, a dancer sat down, introduced herself and then asked if I would like a private dance. My response: "I'll pass". As soon as I said it I realized how it probably sounded. So she said "Are you waiting for someone else?", so I said "Nope". It was a bit awkward, but she left. 6 LDs later (with 2 different girls), I'm back out sitting on the floor. The "I'll pass" dancer comes back by. I don't know if she saw me getting LDs with the other two girls (it's in a separate room), but she again asks "Are you waiting for someone?". I said "No" (honest answer, I wasn't) and she said "Well then, do you want a private dance?". So I just said "No thanks" and with that she got pissed. Made some kind of remark (didn't catch it) and stomped off, pushing a chair. Just then, one of the girls I had some LDs earlier with walks off stage and asks "Waiting for me?" (I wasn't), but replied "Sure!". I usually say "No thanks" if she is not my type and "Maybe later" if she is a possibility depending on who else is there. In this case, the "I'll pass" girl looked about 17 years old, all of 90 lbs and flat as a pancake. Too young (looking), no curves and not even a cute face = zero sex appeal for me.