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Dancers spanking themselves

What do you think of dancers spanking themselves during their dances?

Like it or not? Turn-on or turn-off?

I'm not talking about a light tap on the bottom. I talking about the girl that whacks herself so hard it sounds like a gunshot going off.

I notice a lot of black girls seem to do it. I was at the tip rail the other night watching this cute black chick and she spanked herself so hard (double handed on both cheeks)that I nearly spilled my drink. I don't know if it was a regular part of her act, or if she was playing off my reaction (and tips), but she kept smacking the hell our of her ample botty while giving me hot looks.

At another club I got a table dance from a spanker girl, and towards the end of the dance she bent over and motioned for me to spank her. Now this club doesn't usually allow contact with dancers on the main floor, so I was kinda reluctant, but she keep egging me on. At first I wimped out and gave her a halfhearted smack. She look back and said I could do better than that. I finally gave her a real smack that left a palm print on her ass!

So my vote is yes, like it, turn-on.

26 comments

  • imnumnutz
    15 years ago
    not sexy, not a turnon, don't like it.
  • 59
    15 years ago
    I don't care for the thunderous slap but a moderate slap during a private dance is sexy. Some girls enjoy it and really enjoy it when the customer does it to them. Anything that turns them on!
  • mreef
    15 years ago
    I always wondered this myself. It's a big turn off to me, I hate it when they turn around and spank themselves hard/loud. I wondered if I was alone, or most guys like that.
  • Clubber
    15 years ago
    Does nothing for me, but if they wish to endure a light slap, oh well.

    What I would like to see is some dancers slap their faces and say, "What the fuck am I doing dancing in a strip club?" Then leave, never to return!
  • robofan
    15 years ago
    Seen it to many times.

    Turn off.

    Would rather see something original.
  • chandler
    15 years ago
    I like it when we both slap her ass every so often. It's turn-on that can point to bigger turn-ons. When you get her just right, it feels good and sounds great. But it's more about the spirit of it than the slap itself. It just punctuates the fact that she's being a hot ass bad girl. It's all in the timing and the attitude. If you don't get it, there's probably no explaining it.

    A girl repeatedly slapping her own ass on stage with no interaction is lame.
  • shadowcat
    15 years ago
    A turn off for me. I think that they do it just to please the some customers that get turned on by it.
  • SuperDude
    15 years ago
    Lame, boring, useless and unattractive.
  • Joe from NJ
    15 years ago
    I think that it distracts from her dance routine.

    I don't get any pleasure watching it.
  • Ooh, great question!

    Yeah, I agree that it's stupid. Like shadowcat said, they think we think it's great. No. Now, if I were slappin' dat ass, that'd totally have me chubbin' up. But doing it to yourself, nuh-uh.
  • jablake
    15 years ago
    I don't like it. It is a turn-off. Seems like most of the customers like it.
  • DandyDan
    15 years ago
    I personally don't care one way or the other, but like Chandler says, its more about the spirit of the spank than the fact its happening. My ATF does it and its always a good thing.
  • txtittyfan
    15 years ago
    I don't like it. If they are trying to say "look at my nice ass", I think they would be better served with a sensuous rub.
  • how
    15 years ago
    Dancers spanking themselves is not a turn-on.
  • founder
    15 years ago
    Add me to the NOT list. Just stupid if you ask me
  • Notsosly
    15 years ago
    I personally don't care one way or the other, but like Chandler says, its more about the spirit of the spank than the fact its happening. My ATF does it and its always a good thing.
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    ^^^ This. ^^^
  • happylap
    15 years ago
    Not a turn-on for me. Most of the time when I see a dancer do it she gives a look like "I just did something naughty. Did you like it?". I don't get it.
  • Book Guy
    15 years ago
    Plenty of dumb things girls do, probably because they think boys want them to. Most of the time, BOYS do want them to, but MEN have money to buy dances. Some examples:

    waggle the ass in a ghetto-style that demonstrates utter lack of perkiness

    slap the ass

    spread the pussy lips wide at the stage edge for a gaping "hole shot" view

    stick the tongue out and sneer

    cram four fingers up the pussy

    cram five fingers up the ass

    grab the giant, bolt-on, fake tits and wham them together on the guy's ears

    jump up and down so that the giant, bolt-on, fake tits pound the pavement

    slam the shoes down to make a loud banging noise

    anything else that is "butch" and aggressive, rather than slinky-sexy-feminine

  • LoneLurker
    15 years ago
    Don't like it. Don't get it.
  • chandler
    15 years ago
    Book Guy's rant shows that if you're insecure about it, you'll never "get it". The times I enjoy ass slapping, it's done with a bit of a sense of humor. Things come to a point in a lap dance where it just seems like the right thing to do. Whack! Then, it's on to other mischief. No big deal.

    The girls who look lame spanking themselves on stage out of the blue seem uptight about what to do for attention. They make too big a deal of it. No humor. I don't think they get it.
  • txtittyfan
    15 years ago
    If they want to spank, they should spank my monkey.
  • casualguy
    15 years ago
    A dancer slapping her ass doesn't do anything for me. If anything, it is a turnoff. Along with most dancers shaking their ass when I really want to see their tits a whole lot more than their ass. I did have one young dancer want me to spank her or slap her ass during lap dances. I thought it was a bit weird but complied with her wishes. I was thinking I could get used to slapping dancers around so I could see how some guys might like that. However I've seen where one guy slapped a dancer on her ass and she didn't like that at all. Bouncers escorted the guy out.

    If a dancer wanted to spread her pussy lips, I wouldn't mind at all and would like seeing that. I haven't seen dancers do that in a long time.
  • Digitech
    15 years ago
    Wow, I guess I'm in the minority here by far, but I always enjoy that. Yeah, it can be startling some times if the club is really quiet and sleepy. But it kind of gets things going I say.
  • wallanon
    15 years ago
    Rule of thumb: Don't slap a dancer (or any other woman) anywhere unless she gives a hint she digs it. Done at the right place and time, just about anything an attractive woman does could be hot.

  • chandler
    15 years ago
    How will she know whether she digs it until you slap her?
  • gk
    15 years ago
    A dancer slapping her ass is making one of two statements:

    1) "I'm different and I want you to notice me.
    2) "I like it rough, do you?"

    If either of these appeal to you or turn you on, fine. If not, fine. It's all marketing and for the dancer it's the bottom line that counts, no pun intended. A good ass smack can be sexy at the right moment if she is otherwise interesting and sexy. But if that's her main come-on, well.....
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