Dancers spanking themselves

not sexy, not a turnon, don't like it.

I don't care for the thunderous slap but a moderate slap during a private dance is sexy. Some girls enjoy it and really enjoy it when the customer does it to them. Anything that turns them on!

I always wondered this myself. It's a big turn off to me, I hate it when they turn around and spank themselves hard/loud. I wondered if I was alone, or most guys like that.

Does nothing for me, but if they wish to endure a light slap, oh well.

What I would like to see is some dancers slap their faces and say, "What the fuck am I doing dancing in a strip club?" Then leave, never to return!

Seen it to many times.

Turn off.

Would rather see something original.

I like it when we both slap her ass every so often. It's turn-on that can point to bigger turn-ons. When you get her just right, it feels good and sounds great. But it's more about the spirit of it than the slap itself. It just punctuates the fact that she's being a hot ass bad girl. It's all in the timing and the attitude. If you don't get it, there's probably no explaining it.

A girl repeatedly slapping her own ass on stage with no interaction is lame.

A turn off for me. I think that they do it just to please the some customers that get turned on by it.

Lame, boring, useless and unattractive.

I think that it distracts from her dance routine.

I don't get any pleasure watching it.

Ooh, great question!

Yeah, I agree that it's stupid. Like shadowcat said, they think we think it's great. No. Now, if I were slappin' dat ass, that'd totally have me chubbin' up. But doing it to yourself, nuh-uh.

I don't like it. It is a turn-off. Seems like most of the customers like it.

I personally don't care one way or the other, but like Chandler says, its more about the spirit of the spank than the fact its happening. My ATF does it and its always a good thing.

I don't like it. If they are trying to say "look at my nice ass", I think they would be better served with a sensuous rub.

Dancers spanking themselves is not a turn-on.

Add me to the NOT list. Just stupid if you ask me

I personally don't care one way or the other, but like Chandler says, its more about the spirit of the spank than the fact its happening. My ATF does it and its always a good thing.

^^^ This. ^^^

Not a turn-on for me. Most of the time when I see a dancer do it she gives a look like "I just did something naughty. Did you like it?". I don't get it.

Plenty of dumb things girls do, probably because they think boys want them to. Most of the time, BOYS do want them to, but MEN have money to buy dances. Some examples:

waggle the ass in a ghetto-style that demonstrates utter lack of perkiness

slap the ass

spread the pussy lips wide at the stage edge for a gaping "hole shot" view

stick the tongue out and sneer

cram four fingers up the pussy

cram five fingers up the ass

grab the giant, bolt-on, fake tits and wham them together on the guy's ears

jump up and down so that the giant, bolt-on, fake tits pound the pavement

slam the shoes down to make a loud banging noise

anything else that is "butch" and aggressive, rather than slinky-sexy-feminine

Don't like it. Don't get it.

Book Guy's rant shows that if you're insecure about it, you'll never "get it". The times I enjoy ass slapping, it's done with a bit of a sense of humor. Things come to a point in a lap dance where it just seems like the right thing to do. Whack! Then, it's on to other mischief. No big deal.

The girls who look lame spanking themselves on stage out of the blue seem uptight about what to do for attention. They make too big a deal of it. No humor. I don't think they get it.

If they want to spank, they should spank my monkey.

A dancer slapping her ass doesn't do anything for me. If anything, it is a turnoff. Along with most dancers shaking their ass when I really want to see their tits a whole lot more than their ass. I did have one young dancer want me to spank her or slap her ass during lap dances. I thought it was a bit weird but complied with her wishes. I was thinking I could get used to slapping dancers around so I could see how some guys might like that. However I've seen where one guy slapped a dancer on her ass and she didn't like that at all. Bouncers escorted the guy out.

If a dancer wanted to spread her pussy lips, I wouldn't mind at all and would like seeing that. I haven't seen dancers do that in a long time.

Wow, I guess I'm in the minority here by far, but I always enjoy that. Yeah, it can be startling some times if the club is really quiet and sleepy. But it kind of gets things going I say.

Rule of thumb: Don't slap a dancer (or any other woman) anywhere unless she gives a hint she digs it. Done at the right place and time, just about anything an attractive woman does could be hot.

How will she know whether she digs it until you slap her?

A dancer slapping her ass is making one of two statements:

1. "I'm different and I want you to notice me.
2. "I like it rough, do you?"

If either of these appeal to you or turn you on, fine. If not, fine. It's all marketing and for the dancer it's the bottom line that counts, no pun intended. A good ass smack can be sexy at the right moment if she is otherwise interesting and sexy. But if that's her main come-on, well.....