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17 years ago
It's a deal ....I'll dine like there's no tomorrow.
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17 years ago
There are a few approaches. I've asked right at the table before a dance so she knows that I'm a decent tipper but am interested in getting off. Or, as the lap proceeds, help her understand by moving her hands and even then, just ask. usually, you'll get some who resist at first but if you're smooth enough to convince them you're not a cop or club rat, they do it. BJ's are obviously harder, it's different territory for some and it usually follows a series of HJ's unless she's a real slut. Tell them what you want, it's a faster route unless you really like the longer chase.
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17 years ago
chitownlawyer: I appreciate the reply. My son's a young lawyer but you know, I don't share my adventures with him (go figure). He even wanted me to go to clubs with him once or twice but but I told him he'd have to do it with his buddies and I'd go with mine. I think he'd be shocked at how much I've been into. I know, he'd probably shock me. Actually, I'm most afraid of the parking lot fender bender or some club asshole starting a fight to bring the cops etc. But none of that will stop me.
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17 years ago
You guys are scaring the shit out of me now. There's enough pressure figuring out how to account for all the time and $$$ I spend clubbing, plus adventures with the ATF. Now I have a whole new set of worries. I hadn't consdered the hear attack but wtf, I can count on the sympathy vote there. Car accidents? ugh.
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17 years ago
I like most of them and if one is ugly, it still works! Also, almost everyone it seems likes shaved pussy but I'm really into some hair, just not a big ugly bush. That's tough at the club scene because they all shave it all. But I ask my favorites to leave some for me once in a while.
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17 years ago
it definitely depends on what you want. Want to talk? Grab that USA honey. Want to be sure to get off in one session. Brazilians baby. The eastern europeans are pretty dirty too, which I tend to like. Some of the American girls are just too much work.
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17 years ago
I always do with my ATF and hardly ever with others. The rest just engage in thank you type kisses on the lips but I'm pretty busy when it comes to my ATF.
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17 years ago
I'm just lucky. My wife can't smell anything. I come home drenched in perfume every week and usually shot spots too. Solved that problem when we started doing BBBJ though. It's a good thing I feel like I died and went to heaven every week cuz I know I'll never really get there.
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17 years ago
My ATF and I have each other's real cell number and we'e used it to make arrangements and even just talk a little. I trust her at this point and BTW, she's not the type to even call, much less create problems. Ask me how smart I am in a few months though.
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17 years ago
I'm generally a low key type but become an extrovert when in the club, especially if I'm with a buddy. Then it's a party atmosphere vs. the pure game of the hunt.
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17 years ago
I'm there! I don't even open the non-related subjects.
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17 years ago
I always look for high mileage but am willing to test drive new dancers. I agree that it's the newbs and younger ones that disappoint the most. I had one remove my hands from her ass in the vip (unheard of in my club if not any). I didn't tip and walked out after about 1 minute saying I wasn't having any fun. She was gorgeous but within two weeks stopped dancing to become a waitress there. Good move for all.
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17 years ago
Interesting comments from those who don't prefer OTC. I guess I thought that was the holy grail of the strip club chase. I am admittedly behind in experience with such but that all just changed. I'm doing the OTC for 'social' activities now (no charge), and have my first time set up for sex OTC (to replace the laps/sex). Of course this is different because she's my ATF. I don't think I'd be interested as much with a new or strange dancer, that's the same as the escort discussion. We'll do both ITC and OTC depending on how much time I have that day. If I have her spend the shift with me OTC, I'll give her a shift's pay to free her up.
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17 years ago
In general, I agree that young twenty somethings sure are attractive compared to 30+. But, there are always exceptions and I've had a few this year. I wouldn't have expected it but found some 30's to be very attractive and they are much better at turning you on (and mileage). I noticed others posted that there a lot of young slutty ones out there but my experience with them is that they're not very sensual acting and have tighter limits. Oh, tighter you know what too of course.
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17 years ago
Yes sir. That's why frequenting a club/girls is important. BTW, do you detest (like I do) prepaid mileage? If a new stripper says I can do x for this many more dollars, I'm totally turned off and discard her.
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17 years ago
I'm glad I found this SCA club. I didn't know there were so many of us professional clubbers who can share intellectual capital. Have to start charging dues and passing out membership cards.
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17 years ago
Deinitely GFE for me. To go through the setup and expenses for lap dances only OTC doesn't make sense.
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17 years ago
Ok then, hopefully off to a new adventure soon. I asked about the hotel checkin thing because I've always used a card and larger places require it. I thought I read somewhere that id was needed at most now. I used to take a fling to one that specialized in by the hour and no questions asked but it wasn't great. I've graduated from that. It's a lot tougher when married, can't go to many restaurants too.
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17 years ago
Rootman here ....I'm mid fifties and hope I can enjoy this as long as the rest of you guys. I've always gone to clubs but only in the last few years did I learn to enjoy it much more. I think that's because I have the income to stay a lot longer and enjoy all the talent. I'm a professional, college educated and travel some for business. I never do a business trip without checking out any worthwhile club. I live in New York but not the city. By accident, now have an ATF (my first) after several months of play. Enjoying it and it's heating up further. I just this year starting working out and feel great for it.
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17 years ago
Here's something to think about. I need to modify my earlier statement about always looking for reviews with extras. There's a dancer I see once in a while, 20 years old (don't usually mess with them) and she is so polite and accomodating that I give her a 10 even without heavy extras. She's gorgeous, let's you pet around etc. but what I remember is she truly appreciates the good tip I give her. I always get a rather genuine thank you, hug and kiss (mouth style) and I think it's a model for other to work on.
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17 years ago
I'll summarize while the big head is doing the thinking. I'm going to see her in a couple hours. For me, I'm sure it started because of the extras. That brought me back enough to get to know her and I really do like her personally so that enhances it all. For the past few months, we've engaged in weekly (sometimes more) spirited LAP sessions, extras included to the point where it's getting hard to keep the noise down. If I'm thinking straight, I assume this is a plain old GFE without the pressure of a GF (I'm married). But now I'm frustrated that I can't afford to see her more than weekly so maybe our venture OTC will help that. As I told DougS once, I think I'm really fucked now (both ways) but I do feel 20ish again. From all I've read on this site, I'm convinced this can only end poorly, just don't know when.
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17 years ago
Wondergrl5: Since I'm not getting any younger, I look for high mileage situations. Given that, I look for positive reviews that imply that. I get a kick out of some of the posts because guys are thrilled they get to touch tits or something. I'm just bored unless I can get off. A product of doing it too long I guess. I'd only consider a bad review if it was an attitude or ripoff situation. Other than that, there are a lot of girls who will won't, I just seek the wills!
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17 years ago
I read the blog and it's well ....quite deep. I can relate to certain aspects as I'm in the beginning of my first ATF experience. As others said above, your account is yet another warning of what I'm probably in for. It's probably different for me though, not in too deep yet. Lots going on during laps (I mean anything), we enjoy each other's company ITC and just started talking about OTC. I will never fall in love with her but it's more obsession or crush. But it gives me a real jump in my step.
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17 years ago
Club rules must be different where you guys go. At my club, management sets the price, keeps about half. So if you negotiate a 2fer, the girl still has to pay the house and makes nothing at all. Anyone else run into this?
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17 years ago
CasualGuy: You're right, the Chinese will own us soon anyway so I'd take the opportunity to make a 'direct deposit' into one of their best looking women. Not cash though.