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16 years ago
I'll buy at regular prices. It's part of the gig and the club expects the girls to do some of that. BUT...no $15-$20 drinks.
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16 years ago
I'm spending way too much with weekly or two/week visits. It's amazing, I'm supporting so many households now and still alive. Gotta find a way to back off soon. But I could get hit by a bus tomorrow, no regrets.
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16 years ago
I considered an hour but then thought that more wasn't better. It would get a little boring trying to keep it fresh and not get off for an hour. If you enjoy spending some time relaxing with a particular girl, that may be different.
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16 years ago
I think some of you are a little harsh calling the girls whores for doing what you want them to. It's the old double standard again. Guys are supposed to fuck everything in sight and the girls are trash if they give you a little fun? Not in my book. Strip clubs are supposed to be some light fun, right?
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16 years ago
I really believe that a LOT of women are drawn to the bad boy types, whether they realize it or not. I'm not one of those and can't be, not wired that way. But it amazes me how many women put up with the tons of shit their guys dump on them. I'm seeing a dancer now who has history with that (abuse, cheated on, law problems with the BF etc.) but she's really a terrific girl. I just don't get it. My take, be strong and confident but not an asshole.
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16 years ago
I spend big for the extras. I'd feel like a jerk if I didn't tip well for gettin it goin with a fine young lady. I'll match the fee for VIP or laps (multiples) for good service. If it's just a poor lap, no extra $$. If it's a fun girl and no extras, give her $20-$40 extra.
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16 years ago
You're on the right track being a regular in the club. That builds trust. Now you definitely should be on the attack with this girl to see where it will go. Don't try OTC so early, but definitely seek some extra service if you're interested in that. In my experience, it's usually very strict club rules that keep activity down. A LOT of girls will go for more once they trust you and IF they think they can get away with it in that club.
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16 years ago
Thanks to all the early posters in this thread. I ate the damn thing big time, fucked her silly and am set up to do it again. As for the later posts, I think I'm somewhat smart so will leave the surgeon general/CDC scares to others. I'm protecting what I can without eliminating life's pleasures. BTW...what girl would let you use a dental dam? You'd look like such a loser plus offend her silly.
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16 years ago
soldierswife: I don't think you were wrong. I spend hundreds in the club almost every time I go. If I could help someone help their kid for a mere $80, I'd do it whether I got it back or not. And the fact that you handled it so well would be BIG in my book. Sure, I can be a sucker but not for big bucks. Everyone has needs.
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16 years ago
I would never name names except in a general way, like 'Jane gives one of the best laps'. You can characterize mileage for the club pretty easily. If I do find a gem, I'm not that good at sharing anyway.
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16 years ago
It depends ...on the club and the girl. If it got pretty hot already, invest in another session soon before she cmpletely forgets you. Then go for more and finally, you can even ask if she'll take it out, get you off etc. These girls are not generally shy and are propositioned for everything. Just do it with some class.
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16 years ago
This is all better than Penthouse forum ever was. We should rename this the 'wood' thread.
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16 years ago
I have to say, I am just one lucky bastard. My ATF would never ask for anything, has never fucked me over (well, you know) and I just give her variable amounts that I think are fair and smart. She's so classy that way. No matter what happens to the relationship,I'll always remember that. Here's wishing y'all get the same treatment.
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16 years ago
I only access TUSCL from a home computer. Use Mozilla Firefox browser and it's easy to wipe out history, cookies and cache with one button (tools -clear private data)after each session. Also, the SO doesn't even know what Firefox is and uses IE. Barring someone installing a keystroke logger, it's pretty safe. The bigger issue is places like Google keeping records of your ipaddress and all the sites you visited. They have tons of data on that but it should only be an issue for those into illegal activity.
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16 years ago
Misterguy: The club was Wild-J's in Port Trevorton, a real hole.
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16 years ago
I went to a club in Pa. where the girls want matching tip (laps are 3/$50) in order to touch their tits. Fuck that, never went back.
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16 years ago
I go around work hours or other activities like golf, exercise. That usuall means only a couple hours at a time but that's enough for me.
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16 years ago
I much prefer the BBBJ but I did just fuck one yesterday. Know what? It wasn't that good. I have a variation of the original premise. I often can't cum when fucking but can with a BJ. I know, used to be the opposite problem. As for the Viagra, that shit works. If any of you are getting a little weak, RUN to get some. It also has other effects. In addition to rock hard boners, it seems to delay cumming AND it makes your dick bigger. Don't leave home without it. It's the new recreational drug.
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16 years ago
FONDL: Great idea. Massage therapist seems like a natural that can be learned in a reasonable amount of time. I had no idea it took that many months to learn and get licensed but it's reasonable in the scheme of things. Any idea what school might cost? She's not broke and maybe I can help some if I think I should and it looks like a real plan that could work.
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16 years ago
I guess the good news is that I can't remember the first because there have been so many. I know many on this board seek other things but I enjoy the hunt. I do remember every club I've gotten extras in and most multiple times of course. The early ones were very mechanical HJ's and now I'm enjoying the best sex of my life. Progress.
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16 years ago
FONDL: Good point. I was thinking of helping her with some skills guidance. We aren't in a big city with big clubs so SC waitressing won't work. Also, hours are tough in that business when you have kids. We need to sit down and talk about what I can do. I haven't yet because I don't have answers. She thought she'd get a job for $10-15/hour and that coupled with some other sources would work. I did the math, it doesn't close. I'm an experienced business manager with lots of backround in hiring, interviewing etc. so at least I can help with that. I long for the day when you could just go to a buddy and say 'I need a favor', hire this one.
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16 years ago
The song probably is pretty cool after a couple beers but unfortunately, it's Sunday and I just had a seesion this weekend that included my ATF breaking down from this scenario. I feel bad for her because she wants out but can't possibly make enough $$$ with a high school education and no resume. She really is a great girl, no drugs, got kids and treats me great. But the whole scene is getting to be a struggle for her, very common with dancers.
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16 years ago
bmwman69: Must be a car guy like me. One thing I've learned, and some of it because of this board and the collective wisdom, is to try to control the action in a club. Even if you're a little shy, you can turn into a new person in the club. I think it's important to get what you want and maintain respect. I think my suggestion of tipping extra at the stage and inviting a dancer over is a good ice breaker. If you see girls you like, don't sit there and watch others, get in the game. Buggest problem I have now is ditching those who cruise by the table that I'm not interested in. I tell them I'm waiting for someone so they don't waste our time.
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16 years ago
I'm not surprised that there are no replies to this yet. The whole board just went limp.
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16 years ago
I have asked a couple of dancers and indeed, they are sensative to rejection in many cases. I found that hard to believe given their trade but now that I'm close to a couple dancers, it seems there are a lot of them who struggle with what they're doing to make a living. Many are supporting kids etc. but they're still people with emotions. Best way to land one you want is to tip better at the stage (5-10) and just say 'come see me'. It's an easy path even for the shy guys and girls.