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21 years ago
J23 I cried reading your post, being a mother and expecting, thats what scares the shit out of me...C&S's reasoning is that he think strippers are not people with feelings and emotions.. he thinks they are all fallen women he says in another of his posts, and now by the looks of this he thinks they have fallen from being raped and molested.... What a sick human being... C&S What in the world made you think up such a nasty POS post.
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21 years ago
NA, I agree that some women take over advantage of sexual harrasment. However, I once had a boss who I knew had Feelings for me, he made it pretty known.... I tried to stay his friend without leading him on to think I felt the same way... I will admit I am a flirtacious person... but I really watched my self around him... one day he went out to break with me, and gave me a gift, I told him I couldn't take it, and he said its nothing really just open it... I finally did and it was a diamond tennis bracelet, I was shocked I thought I was going to get sick, he then asked me to leave my husband and live with him, and that he would take care of me and my daughter, he even traded in his truck for a car so I would have somewhere to put her carseat, LOL, (sorry thinking back its really funny), I told him that it was nice and that any girl would be happy to be with him, but I loved my husband and wasn't going to leave him anytime soon... (sorry so long)
So I told him I couldn't take it and he told me to do whatever with it, he didn't care he bout it for me and wasn't returning it....
My plan was to put it in his car before he left work so to not complicate things more... after a few hours of work went by, his manager(also mine) said that he thought I was a bitch and that I was going to get the shitty jobs for now on, and BLAH BLAH BLAH.. Ok...this made me mad..
I went to the general manager witht he bracelet and told him the story. He then took a picture of the jewelry and returned it to my manager himself with a warning.
I was not happy witht he results, I thought a manager should not act that way and that it was unexcuseable to make me work under him anylonger, I asked to be moved and was denied, I talked to other managers thoughout the company if they would let me transfer to thier department, and most of them wanted me there, so they went to the GM and Gm said he would not let me.
Instead, they tranfered me to the shittiest work they had in the company and cut my hours and pay.. while he got promoted. TALK ABOUT UNFAIR!!!
So after this incredably long ass story LOL, I ended up quiting (which was their point) I did not file anything, (its all he said she said anyways right)
I agree people take it way too far and plead sexual harrassment way too much, but for the few real cases, its hard to be helped out in those situations, so it all a matter of who tells the truth and who is a really good damn liar.
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21 years ago
Memorial day and Labor Day are huge money days... I loved working those nights..
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21 years ago
C&S Are you so stupid to accually make up some dog shit like this and think its a fact... you are so extremely morbid.
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21 years ago
LMAO.. them strippers do not exsists, we are angels from heaven.. didn;t you know this??
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21 years ago
Yeah HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA..... No stripper would ever invite you back to thier home, strippers work hard to have nice things, they do not want scum like you in thier house... LMAO HA HA HA HA HA HAHA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA
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21 years ago
OOPS "have not expirienced" sorry.... I was typing too fast LOL
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21 years ago
AH Clubber, you must mean Romanticlover and clean and sober... they are just fools who do not think strippers are people, they think we do not have live outside the clubs, and all we do is manupulate men in any way shape or form we can.. they obviously have really expirienced the true pleasures of the strip club world.. they are just imagining it through thier sick and morbid minds.
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21 years ago
OK now I am curious, what harmfull thing do they do, before I answer?
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21 years ago
Its very scarey let me tell you... LOL.. my first time on stage the girl before me accually had to push me up there... I fell on my face I might add ROFLMAO now....
As for poll tricks.. I think almost anyone can do them.. as long as you have balance with heels. THere are some simply one that are easier to show than explain.... but even some of the "hevier girls at the club I worked at could do em. And trust me doing them will give you some extra muscle strength... and it never hurts to go work out at the gym.. I think its a must in order to keep in great shape.
as for your second question, I used my real name as my stage name which is Dusty, and here are some example of names and attitudes to go with them:(commonly)
Raven-ususally dark colored clothing and maybe even dark hair
Summer- Blonde like to wear bright glow in the dark colors
Chloe- Fun blonde or brunette, light or dark colored stage outfits
Spice- on the sexier end, wearing mor frilly things, that are more seductive that revealing
Ashley- blonde, themed costumes like school girl, cheerleader, farm girl
Ginger- Brunetter/ red head warm and funny like to wear everything
Shyla- Shy-er- blonde or brunette more on the seductive end mainly covered up until time to do a "real strip tease"
and as for me I simply LOVE LOVE LOVE mens names on dancers e.g. Charlie, Tony, Stevie, Shane, Bobby, Jordan, Austin, and of course Dusty (wink wink)
You said IN. Club and they are making you audition first? Thats so odd .. all the IN clubs I have gone to work at didn't make me try out, I just had to fill out an app. and got the Job.
GOOD LUCK!!!
Its a fun Job, and don't let it stress you out when its slow, you will always make more on nights and weekends, and Make the money, DO NOT LET IT MAKE YOU!!! that is sooo true... if there are drugs at your club. PLEASE PLEASE do not get into that scene, its better to make money to save up, not blow away on drugs!!
Don't fall on your face like I did
Dusty
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21 years ago
I do too... its not like riding a bike LOL... each new club is a new enviroment.. but it ususally only takes a day or 2 to get used to it again LOL.
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21 years ago
as much as I dislike RL.. it wasn't him... didn't sound like him.. so I checked what you all were talking about.. and the name posting that sicko stuff is RomanticsLover there is an S after romantic...
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21 years ago
sorry its WWW.LAPROFASHIONS.com
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21 years ago
IS she a new dancer? Most dancers that do pole tricks say ankle strap shoes are a must!! And some will take thier garters and wrap them around the heel of the shoe and around thier ankle for extra support.
When I was dancing the cheapest place to get shoes was
WWW.forplay.com
and
WWW.LAKISS.com
they have really good prices and they are extremely sturdy shoes! What you can do is order a free catalog to go to your house, and then bring the catalogs into her. I had a customer that did that for me once, and I ended up ordering a but load of crap out of it, and since he was nice enough to think of me, I had him pick out an outfit he would like to see me in and I bought that one and wore whenever I would see him in the club.
I hope that Helped
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21 years ago
A shy dancer is more than likly to head to a group, so she will not have to make as much conversation as she would if she were with and individual, The Old Pro's as I like to say usually know how to make conversation and would prefer and individual in hopes of conversation and dances. I prefer individuals in hopes they will come see me again, But I love bachelor parties (at the strip club, not home shows), if you can snag one guy and give him an incredable dance he is more than likely to buy the "groom to be" a dance as well, and if you work really hard, the word will spread and you could be getting dances with the entire group. But for some reason that only works with bachelor parties.
LOL
Dusty
Good Luck!!
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21 years ago
At the club I worked, we had these 3 beautiful black girls named mohogany, silk and Asia (AJA), and almost every white gentleman in the place would fall head over heals for them... I don't see anything wrong with it at all, they were all good hearted women and had a private dance that would knock your socks off!... Alos at the club I worked at there were quite a few white Girls that only danced for the Black gentlemen.. I say go with what you like.. there is no shame in wanting the other race to do dances for you!
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21 years ago
When did you start visiting SC? 2000
When did you start dancing?(dancers only) April 4, 2000
What is your favorite club? Club O in Harvey IL
Who is your favorite dancer? A dancer by the name of Raven.. damn is she sexy
What would your dream dancer look like? Dark Blond hair, blue eyes, big tits,(fake or real)and very tall
Are you a club regular? I was for a long time at a Club Called Jimmys Resturant in Chicago Heights, and I still would be if I weren't Pregnant, it us looks trshygoing to a stip club all big and patruding :)
Would you rather have good coversation or a kick ass lapdance? Most dacers don't talk to Female Patrons, so I never get good conversation, I choose KICK ASS LAP DANCE
Would you ever date a dancer? No, I am married, if I weren't hmmmm... I guess so
Do you drink? Occasionally, e.g. Chrismas Parties, New Years eve, birthday,that kind of thing
Do you smoke? I did, till I got preg, nd don't plan on going back to it,
Do you do drugs? NOPE
Do you attend neighborhood clubs of big city clubs? I lik Neighborhood clubs, because you are always remembered, Big clubs you are just dollar bills
and last but not least
Would you ever talk to a STRIPPER who has been FUCKED for MONEY!!! I may have.. how would I know!?!?!?
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21 years ago
The most disrespecfull things I have encountered are:
1. On a stage show once, a guy bit me on the crotch so hard I bled, he litterally dove in when opened my legs... I had him tossed out
2. Another time on stage...A guy grabbed my boob so hard and squeezed it I had a hand mark on my bood for a day an a half... he was also thrown out.
3. I a private dance, a guy tried to stick his finger up my bum as I was turned around... at a no touch club.. he was thrown out
4. I have been bit.. licked.. grabbed.. smacked.. and had my hair pulled... yet I am still not bitter :)
5.I have given numerous private dances, that the guy all of a sudden didn't have enough to pay me afterwards
I have had guys get pissed off when they offer me a drink and tell them I do not drink and they tell me to leave.... The list could go on forever... but these were the first to come to mind
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21 years ago
No doubt about it he's lying.. but who cares.. let him live in hi dream world, and lets stop provoking it. and maybe it will go away for a while again... lol
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21 years ago
I was not going to reply to this.. but now you crossed the line you nasty mother fucker peice of shit that you are.. YOU EVER SAY A MOTHER FUCKING WORD ABOUT MY FAMILY AGAIN.. i WILL FUCK BEAT YOU UGLY PATHETIC MOTHER FUCKING ASS..DO YOU HEAR WHAT I AM FUCKING SAYING!!!! I AM SORRY THAT THE PEICE OF SHIT THAT YOU ARE HAS TO TRY TO CUT PEOPLE DOWN .. I AM SORRY THAT YOUR LIFE IS SOOOO FUCKING BORING THAT YOU HAVE NOTHING BETTR TO DO THAN SIT HERE WATCHING ALL YOUR THREADS ALL DAY LONG IN HOPES SOME ONE WILL BUY INTO IT AND KEEP YOUR FUCKING ASS GOING. NOT TO MENTION TH ONLY THING I HAV EVER SAID ABOUT YOU WAS TO THE JJ POST SAYING BASICALLY HE NEEDED TO STOP POSTING ABOUT YOUR "SO CALLED CLUB" I WAS FUCKING GETTING TIRED OF READING ALL THE CALLING OUTS HE WAS DOING TO YOU.. SO IF YOU WERE A FUCKING BIG BALLER TAT YOU THINK YOU ARE ... THEN YOU WOULDN'T EVEN CARE TO COME HERE WITH YOUR BULL SHIT... GROW UP LITTLE BOY. AND GET YOUR FUCKING FAGGOT ASS DICK OUT OF YOUR SO CALLED BOUNCERS AT YOUSO CALLED CLUB ASS... YOU FRUCKING QUEER MOTHER FUCKER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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21 years ago
ok now that i said what i needed to say ... i will never post to his threads again... sorry i had to do it just one last time.. but now I accept the challenge
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21 years ago
LOL.. V never had a problem until today... buty ou are soo right on.. i will definately have to add that one now.
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21 years ago
I would have to say I was somewhat picky as a dancer.. it wasn't intentional, I don't think... but there were a few people I would avoid.. my main problem was dancing for people who couldn't speak english.. so I would avoid them when possible.. ifthey pulled my over and asked for a dance.. either I would give them a dance.. or tell them I already had a guy waiting... I know it sounds mean... but the guys who couldn't speak the language, usually didn't understand DO NOT TOUCH!!!
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21 years ago
unfortunatley if you look at the bottom there is a thread made by him that he brags that has been on this board for over a year!!.. the only reason why its even still here is because he keeps bringing it back.. so it may go away in 7 days, but he will bring it back,just so he can say its been here for over a year whoo.. hoo..
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21 years ago
RL is just scarey weird. I am not afraid of him at the discussion board himself... I would definately not want to meet him in real life. .. As for KP he is just a lonely boy who can't get any.. I can see why he is so bitter... however I do not think he is female... Any girl who would come to this board would think the same way about him... we know that what he sayd is not true and just shrug it off... its not a big deal...but when it comes to my family thats where I draw the line... I do everything that I can to make my children happy and the same goes for my husband.. I love them more than anything in the world... When they are spoke of in a fowl manner.. I am a momma wolf and I will eat whoever messes with my pack... Under normal circumstance I would have never spoken a word to him... Unfortunately I drew the line there... Thank you for the post.. it was nice.. I am over it no big deal