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15 years ago
I'm with the minority here apparently, I pay no attention to the shoes. Unless she's using her shoe on mr. happy, which has happened a few times.
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15 years ago
I go with a goal. Usually to meet up with one or more of my stable (I prefer the term posse) of regular girls and have some fun and conversation.
On those occassions I visit the Playhouse conversation is not the goal, I'm seeking a HJ finish.
I do have expectations. I'm a planner, not a go with the flow type of guy. I rarely leave disappointed.
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15 years ago
10) Where is it? I can't find it.
11) Do you want another song (halfway through the first song)?
12) You should take me to the VIP...it's a lot more intimate.
13) My boyfriend/husband blah, blah, blah...
14) Let me invite my friend over so we can do a double dance for you...
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15 years ago
Agree with others you want to do your due diligence and go with a club with a good track record. As an example a nearby club that was selling memberships only lasted about a year. There was a lot of opposition from neighborhood groups and the township was trying to close them down. But what eventually was the downfall was their landlord went bankrupt and the building was foreclosed.
The club i mentioned, Delilah's, has been in business for 16 years. Good (not great) time to be had these days but 8-10 years ago it was zero mileage. The primary owner passed away about 6 months ago, the husband has kind of come out of retirement to take over operation. He's up there in age, actually lives in Florida, so one can imagine him possibly selling out before too long. That's one of the reasons I'm hesitant to upgrade to the pricier "gold" membership, who knows what the club would be like with new owners.
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15 years ago
One of my faves often wears a sexy secretary outfit. Glasses, low-cut easy opening jacket, and short skirt. Busty, tiny latina - the outfit (she has several variations) never gets old.
I'm not a fan of fish net stockings for some reason but do enjoy the fishnet body suit or shirt with long sleeves. Something about a curvy girl in a tiny bikini(or nothing) beneath such an outfit is a turn-on.
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15 years ago
Why not mention the club's name? Maybe there are some on here who have the membership and can report their experience.
If the free dances are voluntary for the girls, you'll find out very quickly. Their attitude will tell the story. I would think more likely the club gives you a ticket or card or something upon arrival, you give it to the girl, and she gets reimbursed by management but I'm just speculating.
I have a lower level membership to Delilah's in Philly. $300 for year one, then $50 renewal. It's a very good deal. With this economy as an incentive they gave me 15 months on the initial membership. Free admission for me and a guest (can be as high as $20 on weekend "fight nights". Quarterly members only parties, open bar and food for a couple hours. Admission to an exclusive lounge area, not much happening there but allows to escape the crowds on ocassion.
The main incentive is free admission to the champagne room prior to 7 pm. The admission normally requires a minimum $160 bottle of wine or champagne. Still have to buy a round of drinks and tip the waitress but much, much cheaper obviously.
so long winded answer but yes have a membership to a club and am happy about it so far.
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15 years ago
10 currently. I add and delete from time to time. 8 are clubs in SE PA and Central and South Jersey that I either frequent or get to once in awhile. As mentioned, I like to keep tabs on the trends in the clubs, any significant changes. Two are clubs that I hit in Vegas.
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15 years ago
It's not something that comes up in our conversations typically. High school is in the distant past for me, I'm not really interested in their high school exploits.
That being said one of my current faves says she was a high school cheerleader. A former fave was on the track and field team (sprinter and shot put).
I'm sure there are others but it hasn't come up. High school chearleader uniforms don't do it for me, I wouldn't be interested in seeing a girl wear one. Some of those NFL cheerleader uniforms, now that's a different story!
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15 years ago
I prefer sticking with my favorites. I prefer the known vs the unknown. I like the efficiency and economy because I'm kind of particular and it takes me awhile to discover a new "diamond".
I've known some of my faves for 10+ years. I like the long term familiarity. When there's more than one there on a given night it can be a little bit of a juggling act but they appear to accept it. The jealous ones get kicked to the curb but it doesn't happen much, the screening process generally eliminates those.
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15 years ago
How much each of us spends is irrelevant. We all have differing disposable incomes (or lack thereof) available to us.
I typically go 2-3 times a month. When I go to Vegas typically 3 nights during a 5 night stay.
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15 years ago
You're really going to go through this much effort, waiting, plotting, scheming, phone calls - for $50? I'd chalk it up to a lesson learned. Good luck.
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16 years ago
Steve, please let us know what club you're referring to. Judging by your playlist I want to stay as far away as possible!
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16 years ago
Don't get it. As I've gotten older I've become a lot more assertive than I used to be. I would have given her 5 minutes max of yapping and then said something like "enough talking...get to work."
Don't care how hot or interesting a girl is. The most compensation for conversation she'll get from me is buying her a drink, certainly not $300+.
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16 years ago
My faves are mostly in their early 30's. Several I've known since their early 20's. One current fave is 21 and quite mature for her age.
I regularly get dances from some women in their mid-40's who are in shape and look great for their age. Could pass for 10-15 years younger. None of these women I would rate as a fave at present.
It wouldn't surprise me if I've had dances from women in their 50's, I don't ask their age.
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16 years ago
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Got to wait a bit, buried in the Youtube info was this:
"This newly released clip comes just days after news broke that anticipation of Jessica's on-screen nudity and hype from Swayze's final film wasn't enough to prevent their movie from falling victim to a straight to DVD/Blu-ray release on May 5th."
Surprising as there seem to be quite a few well known actors. In addition to Jessica Biel and Patrick Swayze (last film) there's Lisa Kudrow, Ray Liotta, and Forest Whittaker.
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16 years ago
If you take a look at my reviews of Playhouse you'll see I give it typically a 7.5-8. I downrate it a bit for the overall quality of the girls, many not that attractive, older, and/or heavy. And the place is somewhat of a dive inside.
Common practice is no tip for handjobs. I tipped on my first visit,didn't know any better, and then got the 411 from some regulars. I've never had a girl ask for a tip there.
Depends on the girl and the guy but I've gotten off on a single song with some girls. Twice in my most recent visit in fact. One girl seems to be able to time things to finish at the exact end of the four minute "song", which is timed by the club. Some delay things, some don't do handjobs, etc.
Good club overall but I don't think I've ever given any club higher than a 8.5, maybe not even that.
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16 years ago
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Interesting. Used to go to Cheeques quite a bit 15-20 years ago. It's a pretty small club, typical NJ go-go. Guess I'll have to check out the movie.
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16 years ago
Besides the glitter I once in a while encounter a dancer with way too much perfumed lotion on her skin. Gets on you and your clothes and lingers way too long.
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16 years ago
Metal detectors and pat downs are pretty standard at the clubs in Philly. Even the most "upscale" of clubs. Some are in somewhat shady neighborhoods, some in like industrial parks where no one lives.
Philly is the only place I can recall with this practice. Been to clubs in shadier neighborhoods in other states and no metal detectors, etc.
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16 years ago
How would they blackmail you? They don't know your name, address, phone number, etc.
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16 years ago
Scattered at clubs in 3 states:
1 Filipina
1 1/2 Thai/1/2 Filipina
1 1/2 Guatemalan/ 1/2 Belizean (sp?)
1 Hungarian
1 Japanese
1 Columbian
1 Mexican
1 3/4 Filipina/ 1/4 Mexican
1 1/2 Thai/ 1/2 German
1 1/2 Mexican/ 1/2 German
2 white girls
Have had Puerto Rican, Brazilian girls heavily in rotation in past but none currently. Some black girls as well but they seem to move around a lot at the clubs I frequent.
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16 years ago
Lots of asian hotties in Vegas as well.
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16 years ago
Just to clarify it didn't happen to me...to the customer on the next couch. I was amazed he didn't seem upset, at least outwardly.
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16 years ago
Only one of the suspects is a "dude". If you check out the names and the link with photos one of the suspects is an unattractive gal (Rianne Celine...). Article mentions she may have worked at the club at one time.
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16 years ago
Depending on the girl or the locale asking the girl's rules may set off alarms in her mind - is this guy vice? I've had girls say that my asking scares them.
I generally recon the internet and check out the other dances if possible. If that info is lacking then maybe a more generic "what are the rules here?" or "how are the dances here?" rather than directly asking the girl her rules. Or just trial and error, slowly feel up the booty and see what happens.