Dancer texting while giving a lap dance?
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Pennsylvania
Thought I'd seen it all...
Recently I was getting a lap dance and after awhile I noticed the dancer on the next couch had a PDA and appeared to be texting. She was facing away from her customer. Talk about multi-tasking!
I pointed it out to the dancer I was getting a lap from. At first I wanted to give the girl the benefit of the doubt that it was the customer's PDA and she was checking it out or adding her number or something.
At the end of the dance I overhear some converstation "it's a Blackberry". The customer leaves, apparently not too bothered, and she sits on the "prime" couch and goes back to checking her messages, texting, or whatever. We then ask her if we can use the "prime" couch and she gets up and leaves.
My dancer confirmed my understanding that the dancers aren't allowed to have phones, PDA, etc. on the floor.
1. Have you had a dancer use a cell or PDA during a lap dance?
2. What did you do? Or how would you react if it were to happen to you?
Personally I would have stopped the lap immediately and prorated the amount - if half a dance at $20 per I would have given her $10. I would have then sought out the manager and reported her.
Recently I was getting a lap dance and after awhile I noticed the dancer on the next couch had a PDA and appeared to be texting. She was facing away from her customer. Talk about multi-tasking!
I pointed it out to the dancer I was getting a lap from. At first I wanted to give the girl the benefit of the doubt that it was the customer's PDA and she was checking it out or adding her number or something.
At the end of the dance I overhear some converstation "it's a Blackberry". The customer leaves, apparently not too bothered, and she sits on the "prime" couch and goes back to checking her messages, texting, or whatever. We then ask her if we can use the "prime" couch and she gets up and leaves.
My dancer confirmed my understanding that the dancers aren't allowed to have phones, PDA, etc. on the floor.
1. Have you had a dancer use a cell or PDA during a lap dance?
2. What did you do? Or how would you react if it were to happen to you?
Personally I would have stopped the lap immediately and prorated the amount - if half a dance at $20 per I would have given her $10. I would have then sought out the manager and reported her.
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Second, dancer had her cell, did not use it until I asked her for her phone number. She instead said, "what's yours?", pulled out her cell and dialed mine, so we had each other's.
If I saw a dancer do that, I'd say something like, "Done?" If she keeps dancing or gets another call, I'm getting up and leaving the LD area and probably the club (because I probably wouldn't be allowed to stay in a club where I didn't pay a stripper).
1. Babysitter needing to talk to mom/dancer
2. Dancer not at club talking to dancer at club.
I once had a hottie grinding away. About the third song, I hear the ring. She answered it and sat back down on my lap. I stood up and dumped her on the floor and walked out of the VIP. I bitched to the doorman and left.
Next time I was there, she apologized and offered a freebie. It was her baby daddy calling about the baby from the hospital. Yeah, whatever, she didn't know that beofre the call if it was true. I told her to get lost.
When it does, I'll just let her finish the dance, pay her, and find another, more attentive girl.
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Two former ATFs of mine and I would text frequently when they were at work or just out & about. I would always try to keep the messages short...since I can't stand texting without a QWERTY keyboard.
A dancer's cell phone in a nude club? I wonder where she might hide it during her dances? Perhaps we just invented the dildo phone!
That's why they carry purses around, although the dildo phone would be interesting.
Of course I knew that, but then it would be difficult to bring up the dildo phone.
I've seen this happening more and more lately, although at my favorite club cell phonesd aen't permitted to be carried by dancers, tey all find a way to sneak them in. Personally, I think it is rude, selfish and inconsiderate (did I miss anything?) for a dancer to do this. I haven't pushed one away yet or walked out, but I do remember who did it and whether they apologied or seemed to not care. The smart ones don't do it. It's the ones who aren't focused on their jobs who make the rude interuption. In the total scheme of things, we shouldn't be too surprised, should we? In most cases, the calls relatd to kids, so if that's their focus, it can't be all bad, just not called for at the time. And just to make things current, it happened to me just this afternoon. It's someone who I'm just getting to know so I'm cutting her some slack to see if she improves her behavior. We'll see.
Bottom line: If I'm interviewing for a job that pays $400/hr (effective rate of $20, 3 minute ld), I'm going to give interviewer my enthusiastic, undivided attention. I expect likewise from someone I'm paying $400/hr.