Favorites versus luck of the draw
Friday, May 8, 2009 11:09 AM
Here the scenario: Visited a club I hadn't been back to for a while. Saw a dancer on stage and liked the way she looked. We made eye contact and exchanged smiles. After her set she came over to join me. I'm was looking forward to getting to know her, but after a few minutes of small talk I realized I had already spent time with this girl on a previous visit (I found out later that she was wearing hair extensions the last time I saw her, so that was probably why I didn't recognize here at first). By now the dancer has settled in and is treating me like I'm one of her regulars. Don't get me wrong - she was attractive, good dancer, fun to talk to, etc. and I ended up having a good time. Still, I saw a couple other dancers I would have liked to try out, and I kinda missed the thrill of the chase and the chance to meet someone new. Variety has always been one of the attractions of SCs for me. Anyway, the point of this rambling is that the experience got me thinking about the whole dynamic of having favorites versus trusting the luck of the draw. Just wondering how others look at the pluses and minuses. (Apologize in advance if this topic has already been "done").
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