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7 years ago
Do not make the mistake of fixing up your club. Customers dont care about the light show, the sound system, the food or staff uniforms. We want hot women, naked, in our laps.
Sinsations in keansburg spent a small fortune fixing up the place. I believe they are out of business in less than a year. If they had spent just enough to be up to code and then paid hot dancers to work until they had enough customers, they would be fine
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7 years ago
Civilian bar maid from the hotel we use for otc got to talking to my dates one night. I now meet up with her every few weeks. She thinking of stripping.
I need to think about a goal for next year
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7 years ago
"I’d take those comments as ss." Should be, "take all comments as ss until proven otherwise. " even if it is the truth i think it likely she said it to seperate me from my money. Interesting, can the truth be SS?
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7 years ago
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Doces300You can run but you will only die tired
Another piece of advice. Stop posting here. If she finds your posts here she will know about the others
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7 years ago
Oldwhiteguy
"So what some of you are saying is that anything she says to me is a lie because she is a stripper? "
No, it is "Assume anything she says to you is a lie because she is a stripper."
In the club I believe everything they tell me. It helps with the fantasy. Once I leave, I believe nothing unless I have supporting evidence. Even then I take it with a healthy dose of skepticism and consider how much my desire for it to be true is influencing me.
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7 years ago
I am told frequently I am a man that knows how to treat a lady and their boyfriends are just over grown boys. I stopped asking them why do they choose boys if they want a man. They usually don't understand the question or get pissed off that I implied they are part of the problem. I just accept the compliment, SS or truth and enjoy her company.
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7 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I am not surprised by this.
On weekends or most any busy night they charge for parking, entrance, cell phone and have mandatory drinks. if you BYO they charge you for BYO and then for each one they fetch. They demand tips. They charge you more for where you sit. if you aren't tipping every dancer as much as they think you should you are told to move to other seats and then you have to pay more.
They have a swingers club upstairs and I've have gone to club 35 with a female companion. She was into women but not into swinging. They suggested we pay more to get into the swingers club so we could get into the club for free. They suggested it several times to the point of being annoying I will say the swingers were always cool. Once they knew she was uninterested we left alone.
So why do I put up with it? I don't any more. I only did because my favorite club doesn't permit women and I was with a lady that wanted to go to a strip club. I think if she had realized how they picked my pocket, she'd have stopped going.
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7 years ago
Too many to count. It was much more common in the late 90s than it is now.
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7 years ago
Make sure your text includes a time, location and dollar amount.
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7 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
georgemicrodong nailed it A real feminist may not agree with a woman's decision to be a sex worker or lingerie model but she will support her right to make that decision.
As with any other movement, others have coopted the term for their own political purposes. Some to attack feminism by painting it as something it is not and others to lend support for their own fringe ideas that would get no support otherwise.
We mongers and PL's should support feminism. Women should feel empowered to undress for those willing to pay them.
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7 years ago
I have seen a few but not many. The Marly Bone in old bridge (closed but reopening as the red zebra soon) was rough in the 90's. I think that is where I saw most of the fights.
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7 years ago
This may not be true any more but I recall all of the stilettos clubs had a no female customer policy . I don't recall seeing any women as customers in any of my visits to any of them. I suggest a recon visit as others have mentioned or take a trip.
Club 35 in Sayreville is very couples friendly. Be warned they have a swingers club on premise. I have never seen anyone give any of the couples a hard time. Other couples may approach you but will be respectful if you decline.
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7 years ago
Shadowcat.
I did not have a party line but my uncle did when i was very young
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7 years ago
Dr98
Shyla stylez .
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7 years ago
Damn phone. Letters too close together and i am not paying attentuon
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7 years ago
You are welcome. I look forward to reading abiut tiur success
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7 years ago
Jhony25
Sent you a private message
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7 years ago
We were in a spot with no cell reception. I pointed to a pay phone. She had no idea how to use it. While showing her, she admitted she had no idea how to use a phone book. She had never opened one.
That is the most recent example
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7 years ago
I try to respect every monger's preferences and did not mean to criticize. I only meant to point out that successful OTC stories are the norm and there isn't much to post about so we likely get very skewed reporting.
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7 years ago
skibum609
The majority of my OTC session go off without a hitch and no drama. Those are largely boring stories. I assume many of the other men here have the same situation. We could post drama free stories that would read like we are bragging or writing a penthouse letter. If you want stories of successful OTC, I have many.
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7 years ago
I may be mistaken but i thought they filmed at cheeques in linden.
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7 years ago
I dont believe most posts like these but think we should reply to help any lurkers.
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7 years ago
Why worry about her story? Her story isn't the problem. The problem is she ignores your request and requirements. Cut her loose.
Stop worrying about snapchat. It Is none of your business where she came from or went. Why would anyone accept you when you are likely to pass judgment and demand answers.
She probably wanted someone that would let her in the room, get down to business and she could be out in less than an hour with her money. Instead you want more than she is willing to provide.
Chili had the right answer for the uninvited extra. This follows perfectly from the rule many of us have, never bring more money than you plan to spend.
If she and her friend are willing to dress as slutty librarians, I am more than willing to try my best to teach them to be good little OTC providers
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7 years ago
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JohnTitordon't sweat the petty things-pet the sweaty things
I got an earful last night about dancers and customers. The lady i was with told me a dancer she worked with years ago kept a notebook and would refresh her memory before her regulars came in or she met up with a customer otc. I would love to see what was in there