What are your clubbing "accomplishments" for this year and goals for next year?
MrDeuce
Illinois
As the end of the year approaches, I spend some time contemplating how things went in various aspects of my life: interpersonal relations, spiritual life, job and professional development, financial affairs, best books read, best movies watched, and (yes) how satisfied I was with the hobby. What was the most satisfying aspect of your clubbing in 2017?
In my case, I would have to say the main "accomplishment" was a return to full sexual function after a little ED scare during the last two months of 2016, when I had very few orgasms or even erections. My first SCORE (Stripper-Related Orgasmic Release Event) of 2017 didn't occur until the second week of January (unusually late), a covered BJ in Washington Park, IL. Since then I've enjoyed about 70 more, about 2/3 blowjobs (the vast majority of which were uncovered) and the rest a mixed bag of lapgasms, HJs, and TFs. I've enjoyed over a dozen OTC dates with three different strippers and have received offers from about ten more just in the last couple of months.
My strip club goals for 2018 include:
(1) pursuit of some of these OTC possibilities
(2) my first threesome with two strippers in a hotel room.
What about the rest of you?
In my case, I would have to say the main "accomplishment" was a return to full sexual function after a little ED scare during the last two months of 2016, when I had very few orgasms or even erections. My first SCORE (Stripper-Related Orgasmic Release Event) of 2017 didn't occur until the second week of January (unusually late), a covered BJ in Washington Park, IL. Since then I've enjoyed about 70 more, about 2/3 blowjobs (the vast majority of which were uncovered) and the rest a mixed bag of lapgasms, HJs, and TFs. I've enjoyed over a dozen OTC dates with three different strippers and have received offers from about ten more just in the last couple of months.
My strip club goals for 2018 include:
(1) pursuit of some of these OTC possibilities
(2) my first threesome with two strippers in a hotel room.
What about the rest of you?
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Goals for next year: Try to up visits to at least monthly. Problem, only a couple of clubs close enough to visit. Lack of time and variety will be a problem.
Accomplishments this year, all ITC: extras with 12 different dancers, mostly BBBJs and CFS. On rare occasion, covered Greek.
Good to have some goals. Mine:
1. convert a particular dancer at one of the clubs that I visit to an ITC extras girl. This is a goal nearly every year, but with a rotating list of dancers. Sometimes I'm successful, mostly not. But that's the nature of goals.
I could try hooking up with local girls instead of visiting strip clubs. I stumbled onto a friend of a friend on a dating site just surfing out of curiosity. I'm wondering if the girl is related to a former dancer I knew. I never tried contacting her.
If my side business becomes successful, I won't need to work a regular job. I need to study and learn skills.
Next year, I will bring SJG into the fold as a deserving, valued member of TUSCL.
Oh, yeah. I'm also going to quit lying so much.....
Happy New Year, y'all! ;-D
meh, i don't really have any accomplishments. but i did get to see my CF FULLY nude this year, which was cool.
That's it.
So now I realize that I need to get from behind my computer and engage in more 1-on-1 interaction with real women. While doing VIP and OTC is fun and enjoyable, it's also therapeutic because it's helping me regain my confidence. Watching too much porn was making me into a creepy PL and I didn't even realize it. I had a hard time looking women in the eye and telling them exactly what I want and over the last couple of years, my social life has been improving.
Goals for this upcoming year:
1) Have a CF at each club I visit (a total of 4 in ATL) in which I can get free OTC action if I choose.
2) Have a more precise SC budget.
3) Make it rain at least 2k at a club on a slownight so that I can look like a young rich stud.
- My first threesome
- Fucked three different girls in one night
- Bj's from two different women in two different clubs in two different states on the same day.
- First itc fs with a black girl.
- Got extras from a dancer who had previously not given extras.
For this year
no plans or goals.
Thosa things I accomplished last year were not goals (other than the threesome). They just organically happened in the course of clubbing and afterwards I realized I hadn't done that before.
I need to think about a goal for next year
The best accomplishment this year was a HJ with a couple of quick licks of my dick at the bar by a civvie who was there with her husband.
My goals for next year are to visit more clubs I've never been to, and get a lot more extras with several different girls
- At my favorite club, this year has been one of the weakest years, stripper quality wise, that I can remember. If this one factor was different, it might have changed my entire year, but as it is, it was slim pickins for me, and so it made it easy to transition to:
- I spent a bit more of my time and $ on SA than on SCs
- I spent a LOT of time with my ATATF... our relationship has gone to, well, I'm not sure what it is, exactly. Not totally FWB, but not really like an arrangement, either. Maybe "a very expensive sort-of friendship with benefits".
- I held back a bit on spending on the sex industry overall, for personal reasons
So, no real SC based accomplishments this year.
Goal for next year: Find a stripper I'd consider at LEAST a CF, if not an ATF, by April
2018 SC goals: have fun at various strip clubs including a few that I have never been to before while staying below my budget for the year.
My goals for next year are:
1. Write the next volume of the System titled: "The System, Part Duh." ;)
2. Try to forget that I ever saw a grown man post this:
*** vincemichaels - November 29, 2017 - You are an idiot. A woman is a woman no matter what age they are, what a stupid POS you are, fag. Lick my asscrack. LMAO ***
3. Focus on quality a bit more than quantity. Don't get me wrong, my partners are always attractive, but they lack some of the elegance and refinement that I sued to enjoy when I lived in the northeast.
4. See a few new clubs in places that are a bit more relaxed.
My goals for 2018 - feel like I've been there done that w.r.t. SCing and not really feeling too-excited about the game currently - actually would like to SC less and spend less $$$, but it's not-easy for a level-10 PL to change its spots - liking variety I'd like to check out new SC scenes away from my local area, but even that I'm not too hard-up for and would be contingent on spending less locally.
Other than that, I plan to cut back on my SC spending. I went hog wild in Q3 and Q4 this year. I'm going to budget going to the club once every 2 or 3 weeks instead of two or more times a week, which I have been doing since early November.
I accomplished this without even thinking about it as a result of other activities. Those other activities, several of which I rate as accomplishments, are:
1. (By a large margin) became an active member of TUSCL. Had read on and off for a while, but I had become jaded with how much BS existed on Atlanta board and Atlanta reviews on TER, so I assumed most everything was BS here too. Then, I joined the conversation, got to "know" people, took a lot of advice, and was able to use it in very good ways.
2. First ITC BBBJ and CFS. Both at reasonable prices. Thanks Follies. Not counting that orgy club disguised as a theater/strip joint I visited in SF in the late 90s, a tit fuck with a little light licking was the furthest I ever got past a HJ (and many of those were self-service) prior to this year.
3. Discovery of, and eventually the successful use of, SA.
4. First OTC encounter, and first really successful OTC encounter.
5. Survived a couple poor SA experiences and 1 bad OTC and now have the first hand knowledge to reinforce TUSCL teachings on what not to do.
Are you sure you're not letting Douchester or RandomAsshole ghost-write for you?
1. Avoided trannies at the club for the second straight year!
2. Didn't RIL even once
3. Free OTP action walking into a club
4. Met Miley Cyrus' sister from another mister
5. Got special treatment for bringing Taco Bell into a dive
Goals:
1. Upgrade from a box in the alley behind the club to a motor-home in the strip club parking lot or at a nearby Wal-Mart
2. Find a CF who will return my texts when rent isn't due
3. Hang out with a dive club DJ at an upscale club and talk shit about how stuck up everyone is so he plays the 7 minute 11 second version of Hey Jude for my lap dances next time at the dive
4. Find a worthy cause to post 10 discussions per day about on TUSCL
5. Pick out new pronouns to get more mileage at the club without having to give bigger tips
Visit at least 6 new clubs this year out of my home state.
More LDKs this year, and more of my favorite fetishes in the extras clubs.
-visited a SC for the first time
-first lap dance
-first VIP (no extras though)
-getting a girl on SA
"goals 2018"
-ldk