Do they talk about us?
JohnTitor
don't sweat the petty things-pet the sweaty things
Another user here just mentioned in another discussion that the strippers talk about US.
Is that generally true, as far as you know or have heard?
Do they just share Intel about what guys to avoid and who is looking like a spender?
I've never really thought too deeply about it until now.
This insight might be useful. Thanks.
Is that generally true, as far as you know or have heard?
Do they just share Intel about what guys to avoid and who is looking like a spender?
I've never really thought too deeply about it until now.
This insight might be useful. Thanks.
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Stripperweb girls will almost certainly share info about the "creeps" to avoid, as they can probably ruin their entire day it would seem. Even extras girls want to avoid them because they want the world for $20. They would probably prefer the wide eyed and bushy tailed PL that gets his world rocked by a dirty dance and spends all his money. No dancer with half a brain will talk about the big spender, keeping him to herself. The one that does will regret it when every girl she tells goes to that guy and if the other girl is a hotter, better dancer, the blabbermouth never dances with him again. Maybe if the dancers are BFFs they'll share everything or most things. But many friendships have soured over money, smh.
I know because dancers have shared info with me. I once had multiple favorites and at least a couple were friends with each other at different clubs in the same club. It's the reason they sometimes wait to ask to dance to let another dancer ask first. In one case I made a deal to get less expensive prices if I was willing to buy more dances. Another dancer told me she knew I made a deal with a dancer and date said she could match it. Of course both said not to share the info with the world. This was at the now closed platinum plus in Greenville. I was already getting two for 30. If I bought more than 2 sets and went with 3 sets of 2 for ones, the third two for one would be 2 for 20 and if I really wanted a lot of dances that night, she would keep doing two for 20. I rarely did that but I knew the dancers were talking.
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It's not like all the regulars at Club Desire have a coffee shop meet up where they pass notes. Or, if they do, I haven't been invited yet.
Sometimes when drinking and partying with my CF and her friends (with me buying the drinks, of course), the girls will talk about the customers in the club and who they should approach. They are brutal in their assessments. Unlike us PLs, the dancers aren't concerned about looks or age. They are concerned about how much the PL will spend. I remember the girls talking about a man sitting at the bar, a man wore a suit and tie and appeared affluent. They put him down and called him the "$50 man" because he had been coming to the club for years and had never spent more than $50 on dances.
This can both help and hurt customers. Go to VIP with an extras girl, and all the extras girls will approach you next visit, but the non-extras girls might avoid you. Say no to one black dancer and she will spread the word you don’t like blacks, even if it’s fat dancers you don’t like. Give a dancer a satisfying back rub and a half dozen dancers will approach you asking for the same.
Well, that's what they think about you guys. They think I'm cool.
money and am not afraid to spend it, but I expect to get my dick wet.
There have also been dancers who got pissed for some reason and lied about me to other strippers. This happened several times at the club where the DS worked because several girls were jealous of the money that she made from me and others.
60%+ of the conversations I heard were related to money. Either what they had to pay or where to get it (customers). The rest seemed to be about 20% other dancers not there. Gossip, you know! The rest, BS..
Yes, the girls talk about us. I've been to many clubs where you can see the cliques of girls sitting together. Once you take a girl from one clique for some dances and treat her nicely, you'll probably notice that the rest of the girls in her clique are the ones to hit you up for drinks or dances shortly after versus girls from other cliques.
I visited my CF in a Connecticut club 4 times in a 7 week period this summer. During the 4th visit, we sat at the bar for 1.5 hours and she shared a ton with me, including that some of the other girls asked about me cause I always make a bee-line towards her. She told me she likes to give me dances because I always do VIP and that I am respectful. She said she services a lot of jerks, but appreciates my visits. I didn't take that as SS because the two of us are very comfortable and honest with each other.
That's very interesting that a dancer would share such specific details to another dancer. I don't think i've ever run into that, but some shared notes could have done some dancers wonders with me. Then again, i'm not really quirky enough to have a bespoke style that a dancer could recognize and communicate to other dancers.
Fast forward 45 minutes. Apparently this girl showed up an hour late. I had 4 dancers come up to me at the bar while she was getting ready and tell me she had arrived and that they all told her to come find me. Two of the dancers I have never met before in my life. So yeah, the girls were sharing information.
Later on, a rather large brunette dancer I have zero interest in approached me to ask for dances. I told her I already had or promised all my dances for the day. She asked for names out of curiosity and when I told her, she realized they were all blondes. Right before I left, this same dancer and two other brunettes were sitting together across the bar from me. They waved to get my attention and then all 3 of them grabbed their brunette hair by the side, kind of shook it at me and the one yelled "when do we get our dances" in a kidding manner, but this is another example of them sharing info about us and our preferences.
I have also had dancers mention some of the strange customers they met.
I remember several club where if you were in the right floor seat or lap dance cubicle you could hear some of the conversations in the dressing room. I always wondered if some of the dancers didn't know this or didn't care.
You would hear all manner of things such as. You can't believe how big that guy's dick is. That guy is a cheapskate, to I just found a really good deal on shoes or outfits. Often it was complaints about bachelor parties or other large groups of people. I have also overheard dancers complain about certain ethnic groups. Until recently the clubs where I frequent, the most often complained about were Mexicans. Indian customers have seemed to move to the top of the list most hated group.
She had been sitting with one of those two dancers. When the dancer I knew got up on stage, this new girl came over. YES they talk.
In my personal experiences being in a clubs dressing room, they ALL talk! Granted, I'm not talking about dozens of dancers, but my recollection is about 6 to a dozen or so. When you first enter a female domain as a man, they go quite. But after a short time you blend in and they start up again as you fade into the background. I saw this behavior many times in my work experiences. And I do mean they TALK about everything.
Enlightening.
I've been in that situation as well, but when you are in their domain and sort of "disappear", an entirely different experience.
Absolutely agree. On a slightly related note, even though I don’t smoke, I always carry a lighter or two when I’m clubbing. I haven’t met a stripper yet who can hold on to a lighter, so it helps with that “disappear”ing act when you can reach out and light her cigarette or blunt.
Seems you and I are the only two here that have ventured into the world of the DR. :)
It was my experience that the club conversations are much different then the DR conversations. Well, they were back in my time.
There are some stories that I can tell of conversations when I "disappeared" in a female environment. :)
Want to team up with lopaw and we three can collaborate on a SC DR tell all book? :)
:)
The best "girl talk" I've heard was not in the SC environment, rather in the general public.
Been there done that. Take a bunch of guys shootin' the S#@^ with a female fly, reverse the sexes. There you have it!
I'd love to write a book detailing all of my mongering. I guarantee it would be a one of a kind. I would definitely need both yours and gmd's help on the DR chapter :)
The back story was that I took one of the three sisters back for an HJ the Friday before Christmas. Despite giving her ample warning that I was going to pop, she kept her head right above my junk with her mouth agape and I popped right into her mouth to her surprise. She exclaimed, spit it out and said she was not expecting me to have "a gun" as a dick. Fast-forward 5 days to the Wednesday after Christmas, the EXACT same thing happened to sister #2; again despite ample warning from me. I got a lot in her mouth (she was hacking it out for at least 20 seconds) and some in her eye. She too said my dick was a gun...no joke. Two days later, I took sister #3 back for 4 dances to fluff me up (no release), then immediately took back sister #1 again for 4 dances to finish me off. Sister #1 immediately told me that her sister had told her of a guy had a "gun for a dick" and got some in her mouth and eye to which she said she knew who that guy was (me). Apparently, sister #2 had a bloodshot eye for over a day. Sister #1 finished me off and once again commented of my "gun", but that time did a better job of aiming for her stomach.
Shortly after that dance is when I caught all 3 of them gossiping about me.
I'm in. In my business experience where I've been in the same environment, all female, where I fade into the background, well the conversations often are not that different than a DR. :) Perhaps a less intense most of the time.