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An end to the hustle / put a stop to her SS

SebastianCobb

California

I'm new to the game and like any rookie I've made plenty of mistakes. I've come here in the past to ask questions regarding my situation. Some of you have taken it as me being a troll or just stupid for falling for SS. The fact is that I caught feelings for my ATF and refused to give up on her. Recently she's gotten way too comfortable and I've started putting a stop to it and calling her out on her BS/SS.

During our last OTC, my ATF told me that she had invited her friend over to join us (the one from prior incidents for those of you familiar with this). That upset very much because she did so without asking me If I'd be ok with it beforehand. According to her, her friend was sad and needed "companionship". I said to my self "I'm not a therapist so why is she coming? I don't want to hear her problems". I was adamant with my ATF that I did not want a 3 way. My ATF told me that it was ok, "her friend would just be there for a little while then she would leave". According to my ATF, her friend was came in a separate vehicle but when we left the bar, my ATF and the friend got in the same vehicle".
It would appear as though both of them had arrived together and they were scheming.

When the "friend" got into my ATF's car, my ATF text me and asked me if wanted to do a 3 way, I re-iterated my disinterested and my ATF started to become upset. Although she denied being upset, her facial expression told me more than a thousand words.

We left the bar parking lot and proceed to another place to "hang out". Lo and behold both my ATF and her friend arrived. From that point forward my ATF coped a really bad attitude. She was sarcastic, bitchy, argumentative, snide, and hateful towards me (someone who gives her nothing but love and takes care of her well). We kicked then my ATF and had some fun while the friend just stood by because I did not allow her to play with us.

My ATF left bitchy and pissed. At this point in the game I'm becoming much more hardened so less and less is affecting me. I waited over a week and my ATF called me. She told me that she was having "car trouble" and if I could go pick her up. I said "sure I can. She then told me that she was going to call her niece and ask her if she could help her and that she would call me back. Some time past and didn't receive a message or call from her. Being that I am genuinely concerned about her, I called her but she didn't pick up. I then text her she didn't reply but did call me 15 minutes later. She told me that they got the car running, that she was going leaving work in approximately three hours and would call ma back if there was anymore trouble.

Three hours later she called me back and said that her car was "towed" because there were battery issues. She told me that the car was being "towed" to the "Pep Boys" parking lot and they would work on it in the morning. Apparently it was a simple battery issue. So instead of getting the car "towed" why didn't she call me so that I could get her a battery and install it in the parking lot instead of having it "towed". She then told me that her friend picked her up and that her aunt had called the tow truck. She asked me "what I was doing" so I took that as an invitation to go see her. Asked her the same and she told me that she was "about to go out because she needed to make money for the car repair". I asked her how much the cost would be and she told me "$250". Only issue what that story is that they used AAA and AAA does not charge anywhere near that amount to tow a car that is only going a short distance to basic members.

I told her that I could help her and I would GIVE HER THE MONEY IN PERSON rather than wire it because not only would I help her but would make for a good OTC date. She told me she would call me back. An hour went by and I got no texts or calls from her. I called her but she didn't answer then I text her but she didn't reply until about an hour later. "She told me that she would tell me where to meet her when she would know where she was going because she didn't have her car". A statement that made absolutely no sense, "how do you not know where you are going?".

Three hours went by and no calls or texts from her. I decided to text her to ask her if she was ok out of genuine concern. She said she was. And here is the kicker.......tan ta ran......My ATF refuses to add me on snapchat. I've always wondered why?.....She knows I have feelings for her, it's obvious and now I know why. A friend of mine happens to have her on snapchat. I went to my friend's house before going home and she me her posting vids on snapchat partying it up in her friend's car behaving in the most sluttiest way that you can think of. Her attire was also the most sluttiest that you can think of. She was basically dressed like a naughty librarian, wearing a blazer, but nothing underneath it except for a bra. Question is where was she going or coming from dressed like that?......It was too late to go work at an SC so was she about to OTC with someone else or even "walk the streets"?.....

Does her story make sense to you guys? because it doesn't to me.......Was she scamming trying to have me wire her money to go out and party or for some other bullshit?......I have not heard from her since last night and I'm pretty sure she's pissed off because I didn't fall for her scheme. Either way I don't understand why she just wouldn't me up with me?....I would've paid for her "tow" and that's not even considering the fact that I take really good care of her so why would she jeopardize her arrangement?.....Seems like she's gotten too big for her britches.....What do you guys think of this situation?......(and yes I realize more and more that she's bad news.....believe me she's on her last leg.....I'm about to cut her loose but just curious about what others think about this situation and what would you guys have done?").