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19 years ago
If you come in their quite regularly they will remember your face even if you don't get dances from them. I was surprised that a dancer who was a friend of my ATF remembered the last time I was in that club some 5months ago.
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19 years ago
Well FONDL seems like your ATF is very professional in her work. Is she or was she a little older say in her 30's? I just don't see too many young women in their early to mid 20's having enough sense to be polite, professional and courteous.
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19 years ago
I'm with the natural breast as long as they don't sag too much. I have been told by some women that lifting light to medium weights will help give them some lift to their breast if it is sagging or to keep it from sagging as they age.
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19 years ago
If I ask a dancer for a lapdance and she doesn't have me seated in the room before the song begins, then wants to stop dancing right as the song ends shouuldn't I be able to complain to management? I mean if they are really serious about being customer friendly they would do something about it like give a free dance or drink on the house, but I know that will never happen in a million years. The reason why is we aren't really "customers" in the true sense of the word. Yes we make them money but aren't always treated well for our money. We are more or less dupes in their plan to make money. I guess what I am trying to say is stripclubs aren't really legit businesses ,you get what you get. Sometimes you have your good days or nights and sometimes you get pissed off but I guess you enter at your on risk.
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19 years ago
No not bold enough to do that. Sounds like you wasted your money, you pulled your dick out during 10lapdances and didn't get a nut. You went through that trouble for nothing.
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19 years ago
FONDL, you had a very good description of what the "smaller" clubs are like. Some of the smaller clubs around where I live call theirselves a "Gentleman's" club but to me they are not because the club is small, no more than about 10dancers working at a time, and the quality of goodlooking girls is still low. I haven't seen anyone over a 8 in these smaller clubs. On the average the girls range from a 5 to 6 with a few 7 or 8's here and there.
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19 years ago
Tell her you already have someone in mind you would like to ask for a dance. She will then probably say something like " You can get 2dances, 1 from me and 1 from her." You then tell her that she the other girl is someone you usually get a dance from when you come there. If she still keeps talking get up and go and sit at the bar or by the tiprail. After a while she will get the picture and leave your table.
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19 years ago
JC2003: There is something most customers want from the dancer and it isn't love & affection. We don't completely trust most strippers either.
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19 years ago
jctone: I feel ya on the part about someone embarrasing you my cousin has did silly things in the past(giving his jacket to 1 of the dancers) but we still have a pretty good time for the most part. The guy from work has only been out with me once to the SC but I had asked him did he want to go to the club again. Actually the real deal is I get the notion he would rather go to an "all black" club. The club we went to and are going back to is more of a mixed club although they have a decent number of black females. I will tip or get a dance from any female I fined attactive regardless of color. To him the white female would have to be built more like a blackfemale for him to show interest. I just get the feeling if their was a slim white girl on stage and I tipped her he would think something was wrong with me. The last time we went we got their real late and I didn't get to enjoy it, this time it will be on my terms or he doesn't go at all.
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19 years ago
You shouldn't go to a stripclub or Bikini bar looking for a friend or girlfriend. All you should think about is getting the best mileage for your buck. Hell if she gives you a HJ for only $10dollars consider yourself lucky.
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19 years ago
I guess I should put my 2cents in since I started the topic. I guess I would continue to do what I am doing already that is going out to "dance" club every now and then, checking out a sporting event, watching a movie, or just hanging out at a friend's house "shooting the breeze".
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19 years ago
Man quit wasting your time, leave that girl alone. Why in the world would she not think that you were talking about her when she asked "Are you waiting on some one?" and you said "what do you think?" Unlessen you are the type that gets a dance from alot of different girls. That right there would have pissed me off with her.
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19 years ago
What's wrong with a stripper "simulating" a sexual act? It's hard to have any real fun any more at most stripclubs.
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19 years ago
I would like to add that if you are new to the stripclub scene, or in some casies new to a particular club it is best that you bring a friend or a group of friends. I have found that in alot of clubs if you are sitting along some strippers think of you as easy prey. Unlessen she gets you off by yourself, you won't have to put up with lines like Buy me a drink or buy me some cigarettes. I guareentee you that a stripper want ask these things if you are at a table with 2 or 3 more of your friends.
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19 years ago
Well Babygirl isn't skinny, all though I see what you are saying. Maybe Babygir'sl weight is more "muscle" weight and therefore she seems heavier than the other girl. BTW the other girl Libby does have a Bigass.
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19 years ago
PP? you lost me on that one shadowcat? The only girl I know named Amanda is a Biracial dancer who is half Korean & Half Black. She is fairly thin.
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19 years ago
Never mind, I get it now your favorite club Plaitnum Plus. That's probably about a 5hour drive for me, doubt I will be going anytime this year especially with the gas prices so high. Maybe I can make it at the beginning of next year.
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19 years ago
My #1petpeeve is showing you her "goodies" during a private lapdance. I already saw it on stage, stick with the grinding and leave the peep show for the stage.
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19 years ago
At this club the girls seem to like hanging out with guys in large groups at least 4 or more people. They will sit and laugh it up with these guys for a long time and only 1 or 2 of them will get a dance from any of the girls, some don't get 1 at all. On the other hand, that night I had a pretty decent "stash" on me but seems if no dancer wanted to have sum fun with my stash. The few that did come over were not my type and I didn't want there company. It's not like I was tipping. I did tip the ones that I thought were attractive.
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19 years ago
The Sniffer is a pervert.
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19 years ago
No I wouldn't make a habit of it, as a matter of fact this was the first time I had tried it.
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19 years ago
Mailman I am not even sure how to ask a dancer for more Grinding during a lapdance so I sure can't tell you anything about asking for extras.
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19 years ago
What about asking for more grinding? how would you ask for that? Do you say baby back that ass up?, Do you like to ride? what works best?
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19 years ago
Fondl: It was improper for her to say she would be back then disappear into the back. If she knew she would be away for a little while she should have said so upfront. I think she felt kind of guilty that she lost out on making some money that's why she said ask for her next time. I am not hating on the girl. I know she is kind of young (about 23) and sometimes young people don't always make good decisions. I will still ask her for another dance whenever I go back, but I won't wait for ever and I probably will remind her of what she did last time( In a nice way.)
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19 years ago
Casualguy you took a big risk in doing that loan. You must have been spending a decent bit on her in order for her to ask you something like that out of the blue. Maybe she thought you hada lot of money?