Strange things men have done with or to a dancer during a lap dance.
tropicalH2O
I enjoyed the topic of what dancers do to men that are off-putting and thought that a discussion of what unusual things men do to dancers might be interesting.
Two weeks ago a customer who had been drinking leaned over to kiss my cheek and left a small hickey on my face (yuck, it didn't feel good and it left a reminder of his weirdness). A former regular, without much prior sexual experience, used to grab me really hard and squeeze me during the dances. I had a black and blue hand print on my left hip that lasted for more than a week. I thought that my chiropractor gave me the bruise, and paid attention to my next adjustment (he was innocent). The next time I danced with the regular he got me in a 'death grip' again and I told him to be more gentle.
Okay some good stuff to balance out the negative: I like being held or hugged by someone I like or someone who is sensuous. I like occasional talking about something funny or nice. Tips are always good. Dancing with someone who you like so much that you are losing track of the song count and have to ask him to help you. Forgetting where you are, because being with that customer at that place in time is so wonderful!
Are there any unusual or strange things you've done to a dancer in a club?
Two weeks ago a customer who had been drinking leaned over to kiss my cheek and left a small hickey on my face (yuck, it didn't feel good and it left a reminder of his weirdness). A former regular, without much prior sexual experience, used to grab me really hard and squeeze me during the dances. I had a black and blue hand print on my left hip that lasted for more than a week. I thought that my chiropractor gave me the bruise, and paid attention to my next adjustment (he was innocent). The next time I danced with the regular he got me in a 'death grip' again and I told him to be more gentle.
Okay some good stuff to balance out the negative: I like being held or hugged by someone I like or someone who is sensuous. I like occasional talking about something funny or nice. Tips are always good. Dancing with someone who you like so much that you are losing track of the song count and have to ask him to help you. Forgetting where you are, because being with that customer at that place in time is so wonderful!
Are there any unusual or strange things you've done to a dancer in a club?
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H2O...San FREAKIN' Diego!!! Girl, a little more time on this board and you could go on a VERY lucrative road trip, including TN of course...I vote for a cross country Dance-Fest...just tell us where!
So, to get back on topic, I guess that is my strange act at a club, critiquing dances- good and bad. If especially good I give an extra tip. If bad, I tip and tell them what I think they are doing wrong. Like the girl in Austin who hit me up for an extra $5.00 AFTER the dance because I touched her tits. She got schooled on sales and customer service.
In any normal business they would at least try to find out what was wrong or not accept your money if you did not like their product and let them know right away. Just part of the reason I can't have much respect for strippers at the end of the day.
I appreciate your perspective and insights.
2. One man had a huge plastic cock with balls the size of oranges. He was so into the fantasy of this being his natural equipment, that I went along with his fantasy and did 7 songs for him.
3. Another man is very gentle and just likes to be carressed very lightly. He wears very thin black cotton/lycra tights. He smells good, but feminine, like baby powder and Jean Nate body splash. I can also smell the fabric softner scent on his clean clothes. I believe that he is 100% hetero; he's just different and nice. He treats me well and always tips. He strokes my hair while I dance slowly for him and slightly stroke his neck, chest, thighs, and crotch.
4. One customer makes sure that I am working, pays for the VIP room, goes to the men's room and slips on a condom. I dance for him slowly and we talk occasionally. Toward the end of the songs, about 15, the rhythm gets faster and he releases. He remains in his clothes but doesn't want to make his pants/shorts wet.
5. One man was wearing a bra; I noticed it and told him that I thought it was sexy.
6. Last Summer a very young, Johnny Depp-look alike took me to the VIP. I was getting frisky with him and he told me to sit on the couch. I did and he pulled my panties to the side and DATY for half a song. I made him stop because he was on his hands and knees and I was afraid we were going to get caught. Later that same night, a guy from New York bought a bunch of dances in the same VIP. After doing about 15 songs for him; he asked me to sit down. I did and he DATY (I was thinking, do I have a sign that says "eat me"). Five minutes later, the manager came into the VIP and the guy was dancing for me! The manager did a double-take and I just grinned (I was very glad that he hadn't come into the room a few minutes earllier). -T
I have rubbed a few backs, shoulders, and even a couple of feet.
Once a dancer and I exchanged hand massages. It was very cool and sensual.
In another time and place, I left the club when my ATF had also gotten new shoes and they were blistering her feet. I left to get her band aids. I'm sure the other patrons got a laugh at us as I doctored her feet, on my return.