Older vs younger dancers—what’s the difference?
I was working during a slower day shift. Which led to me spending a while hanging out with a customer and chit chatting before doing dances.
He asks me to guess his age. I respond and we banter. In turn, I asked him to guess mine.
He tells me. “Hmm. From your looks alone I’d guess sixteen...But the way you act, there is no way I’d put you at 26.”
My reaction was pretty 😮
Most customers guess me younger. But to be fair, on a fast hustle nightshift it’s more difficult to get a good “read” on somebody. So there is that component. And I don’t like slowing down the conversation by surprising customers with my age, so I claim to be 21 to keep the conversation going.
And I’m pretty sure they assume I’m lying up when I say that. But since they want me to drink with them, they won’t call me out too much. 😜
Anyways, it felt pretty weird being read so accurately.
Which leads to the topic. How do dancers in different age ranges tend to act?
He asks me to guess his age. I respond and we banter. In turn, I asked him to guess mine.
He tells me. “Hmm. From your looks alone I’d guess sixteen...But the way you act, there is no way I’d put you at 26.”
My reaction was pretty 😮
Most customers guess me younger. But to be fair, on a fast hustle nightshift it’s more difficult to get a good “read” on somebody. So there is that component. And I don’t like slowing down the conversation by surprising customers with my age, so I claim to be 21 to keep the conversation going.
And I’m pretty sure they assume I’m lying up when I say that. But since they want me to drink with them, they won’t call me out too much. 😜
Anyways, it felt pretty weird being read so accurately.
Which leads to the topic. How do dancers in different age ranges tend to act?
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Younger dancers (18-20)love those hood rat types. If you come in with looking like 50 cent throwing up gang signs with no job, you gonna be good with the younger strippers. Younger dancers have NO work ethic. None. Whatsoever. I would say they don’t take well to sarcasm either. More difficult to make laugh, they don’t get a lot of references. They are there to party not work. Glued to phone.
Older dancers late twenties and up- way more professional. Tend to work the room harder. They usually have devoloped some sick sense of humor about their profession by this point and are wise to a lot bullshit. Much more into nurturing regulars. Less flakey. Much much much easier to make laugh at least from my standpoint. I think younger girls are wowed by a certain look that they’ve been taught to like and find attractive/cool (aka ghetto trash) and older girls are more into personality. They appreciate that side more because they’ve seen all the looks by now. IME.
I would say on the whole younger dancers tend to be a hotter group. I just don’t know what happens to them over time. Drugs, find a better a job, find a high rolling SD, who the fuck knows. I don’t see that rock star 18 year old stripper stick it out for years and years.
As far as my preference I’m open to either. I do love brand new strippers that I can talk to about the game. I really get stoked when they come to me asking what to look out for in the club. I’m very open and honest and tell them pretty much everything. (Except when I’m cuming, it’s not my fault!)
And with the older dancers it’s great to be able to talk to someone who can actually hold a two way conversation.
There are obviously huge exceptions but this is what I tend to see.
23 to 28. More intelligence, a bit more life experience, more laughter vs giggles, strays with eyes (looking around a lot), not terribly focused. They are about the money and it shows.
29 to 40. Definitely more life experience interaction, more focused on customer, real laughter vs fake. Conversations are truly enjoyable because they seem to actually want to connect. Although, there to make money, they hide it like a pro.
40 plus. They’ve been there, done that... cut the bullshit and let’s get down!
That is my assessment and experience with strippers.
The older dancers are usually much more stern with their no’s and younger dancers it’s day to day what the rules are.
But on avg younger dancers seem to not go as far (on avg) in terms of mileage, in part b/c they can often get away on their looks and bubbly youthfullness - it's also harder for the avg younger dancer to have a convo at the same-level as a 40+ y/o PL, or get his jokes.
Younger dancers seem to also wanna party and get blasted more on avg than older dancers; but again it's not universal.
Older dancers are more apt to being jaded though.
First of all, I never ask dancers their age because I don’t care. All I care about is if she’s hot and friendly
Secondly, and this may come as a surprise to some, but it’s hard for me to tell the difference between a 20 year old and say, a 27 year old
My CF is 26. I only know this because she has a tattoo that says “Since 1992” and it’s pretty self explanatory that was the year she was born. But if she didn’t have that tattoo....I wouldn’t be able to tell if she’s mid twenties or early twenties
On universal question I've heard bandied about for a long time is can you really expect a woman to tell the truth about her age ?
I do like having conversations with the 28-35 girls because I can relate more often and they get me.
But for now my CF is doing the trick.
I prefer 25-30's. More interesting conversations, more life experiences, more likely to have sexual confidence beyond their physical looks.
Late 30's and up - mixed here. Once you filter out the ones that go straight for offering extras or have bad attitudes towards the younger girls - usually a good time as long as you have an attraction.
Of course this varies by clubs/parts of the country. If anything I'd consider this mostly my Austin/Dallas TX ratings.
A younger dancer with finesse is like a treat and becomes the ones that PLs affectionately call CF or ATF.
That aside - dancers are substantially sexier and with better finesse than civilian women. Any day.
The problem with the younger cohort is too many gps types and "fast money/party girl" mentalities. They typically arent going to stay in the sc game by their mid 20s due to burn out/lost interest - so im not too keen on the younger types bc its a mixed bag as to whether im going to get my $$$ worth
More older ones on day shifts.
But younger ones, on night shift, no responsibilities, often more ready to run off to a motel with you.
SJG