Customer psychology

Hmmmx hard to say. Where did the drama come from? A customer, another dancer, management? Did these customers that tipped you see anything happen?


My first thought is if you were scowling, maybe they wanted to see you smile and tipping was their way of doing this?

Or maybe you are just cute when you are mad... 😁

Cute,bubbly and all smiles to me is to commercial. That describes 90% of the girls in every Club. I always look for something different.

Whelp. Since I have to list my stage name if I want to list the club I’m at, I’d rather not say.

Plus, as we all know, management at BBD is always monitoring this site and creating BS shill reviews, I *really* do not want to be explicit. 🤓

I’ll just say some of the customers did see, some didn’t.

—>“Cute,bubbly and all smiles to me is to commercial. That describes 90% of the girls in every Club. I always look for something different.”

Lol! That may well be true. But what I can say is if I had taken a customer up on his offer for dances, and he did ONE minor thing I didn’t care for, (that I’d normally brush off) he would have dealt with my wrath for sure.

^^^ sorry I got to persona... glad you took the high thread and avoided a confrontation with someone unrelated to the situation...

And I am sorry you had to deal with some unpleasantness 😥

I am sorry that your a hard night. Makes me want to team up with MackTruck and double dump on the cause of this unpleasantness.

I got a 15 min VIP dance the other night from a girl that was pissed at some of the drama ISC. To date the best dance ever. She took her frustration out on mr. Happy. By the look in her eyes she was now happy and excited about it. I've never left a silver dollar in my pants during a lap dance but I was closed at night.

^ Lol! Sounds like it was a very gratifying experience there.

And aww thanks MackTruck and FishHawk. I’m more calm now 😁

This is an easy one to explain. Many guys want to chill, drink, take in the view, and visit with a few girls before the real fun begins. It's not at all uncommon that I see a girl that I like on stage soon after I arrive, and I do basically what you describe -- express my interest, tip generously, and tell her that she'll make a bunch o cash if she finds me later. I appreciate a strong work ethic on stage and I would tip accordingly, but I don't spend until I'm ready to. It's my prerogative since I'm the customer.

I guess nice dancers finish last

Such is the life of sales - sometimes it rains; sometimes it pours; sometimes it's a drought.

Custies also have nighs where nothing goes well - such is bizarro-world.

I've occasionally seen drama go down in a club. If I see one of the dancers unjustifiably getting shit on, I'll usually tip her more generously than normal. Maybe some guys who see that would also ask for a private dance even if they hadn't initially intended to.

Maybe your case was just coincidence. Is this something that has happened in the past also?

its just coincidence

I think drama intrigues me. I might have been one of those customers but then again I never tip when everyone else is tipping. I’m just surprised it involves you somehow your not that kind of dancer at all to get caught in something crazy, wonder what it was.

MackTruck and FishHawk is team dump a load

Your welcome spicey

I guess some guys just like bad bitches?

Sorry you had a bad night, though.

Not enough info, nicespice. How long did you actually stay ? As some posters have pointed out, we often like to chill, and take things in before asking a dancer for dances. Was the same crowd there throughout the entirety of the shift ? Depending on the nature of the drama, might induce some people to tip. I don't recall any stage drama (ie, arguing with DJ for his choice of songs) making dancer more appealing. I do recall one "drama" many years ago where 1 dancer got too aggressive for bachelor party groom liking, some tug tug, push push ensued. Bouncer quickly broke it up, dancer taken off stage rotation for rest of night and was fired.

Sometimes it just ain’t your night, on balance I hope there’s very few like that, at least for you spicey, sorry you had a bad shift.

My first thought was something like codemonkey said. Some guys see a “damsel in distress” and they want to be your “knight in shining armor.”

A dancer told me she's was fired at the club down the street because she punched another dancer in the face hard enough to break her hand.

I feel like dancers & costumers are constantly confused by each others behavior and choices, myself included.

But a lot of it probably comes down to we all react to what we notice... doing something that stands out might get u more noticed than doing something right or playing it cool.

^ The costumers dress the dancers right ?

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Drama? At a SC? No way! Seriously, though, after meeting you, I don’t see you getting caught up in drama. You seem quite level headed.

Lol. Shit.

When I was at Sin City once two dancers started fighting on the vip stage and the customers started throwing money at them. I mean a lot 🤣

^ that's crazy

A good catfight is always fun
(as long nobody gets hurt.)

"Psychology is the scientific study of the mind and behavior. Psychology is a multifaceted discipline and includes many sub-fields of study such areas as human development, sports, health, clinical, social behavior and cognitive processes."

I'm not going to speak for everyone else but generally My mind is not the driving force in the club, so psychology is probably not the correct term for my behaviors lol

Last fight I saw was over stolen chicken nuggets....

Customers are nut jobs. I don't even try to understand what goes on in perverts' heads too much anymore.

Minnow said: “Was the same crowd there throughout the entirety of the shift ? “

To be fair, it was overall busier when that happened. 😝 But even still.

"Customers are nut jobs."

Well... yeah.

On a serious note.... I don't believe customers are having a good time for the most part. They come to the club looking for an outlet for something they can't find anywhere else. For a lot of these men, its basically the only contact they have with women. That lack of experience is going to show. Its why there are sites TUSCL ....

I’m a customer. Always looking for some fantastic dancer to do a job on my nuts! That is that what we mean by nut jobs, correct?

^^^ lol

I agree with Blah, one would have to be fucking insane to spend money on strippers.

^^ have dealt with my wrath
some people pay more for wrath.

I suspect that it was just coincidence that no one tipped your first set and lots did the second and that this seemed to you. To correlate with your attitude. I am not sure what drives patrons to tip at the stage, but I suspect that attitude is pretty far down the list. Looks, dance ability, any extra attention at the stage, and feeling a duty to tip, all are probably more important than attitude, but one does like a dancer to be appreciative of the stage tips if no bubbly.

I like the dancer gathering up her tips from the stage. It gives her another chance to interact with us PL’s.

I do miss this aspect in Tijuana. there the stage manager gathers the tips.

I've seen clubs where the club gets a percentage of stage tips... it sucks

I am psychological impaired

Possibly just a coincidence.

Possible that some guys noticed the drama and felt compelled to improve your night. The good news is that sympathy dollars spend like any other dollar.

Also, a lot of guys prefer to tip / approach later in the set.

There is also the options/waiting game.

You can tip a girl and ask her to come to your table and she may wander off for 2 hours. She may mention somebody else asked first and that can be a wildcard of 1-10 dances.

So sometimes you are waiting for a specific girl - or you have a few priority options in mind. If that doesn't come to fruition you then level set and seek out other girls.

That's my approach at least.