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6 years ago
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@PhatBoy99
It really seems like you set your second favorite down a better path.
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6 years ago
Made it on the list! :D
But for reals, how cool would it be if there was a giant TUSCL member meet up? We'd probably turn the entire club upside down.
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6 years ago
@nicespice
I think I can only handle one favorite at a time; too many and I'd probably lose my mind. Ideally I'd love to spend as much time with my ATF as possible without giving off the impression that I'm too into her (even though I am).
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6 years ago
@nicespice
I'm more afraid of the slacking off part. Also I don't want to make it seem like I'm desperate for her attention.
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6 years ago
So you would draw the line at once a week?
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6 years ago
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ei8ht_BallStill don't know what I'm doing here . . .
Things with my ATF are going well so far. I hope it continues into the foreseeable future. I really like this girl and I hope she becomes a bigger part of my life.
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6 years ago
Ultranationalist trying to revive the Soviet Union
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6 years ago
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ei8ht_BallStill don't know what I'm doing here . . .
C and D!
Those two answers fit my situation all too well
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6 years ago
@DC9428
Yeah so not all dancers are like that, but you can bet that the mass majority are. And there's nothing wrong with that because in the end all of this just a job to them. There are a few genuinely good ones in the bunch, but they're hard to come by
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6 years ago
@JeffTUSCL
Well it is on Reddit...everyone there wants to gain internet points and upvotes. It was probably all for the upvotes
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6 years ago
You can't believe anything they say. If you take it seriously it will only work against you. That's why some boobies (like myself) start to think that strippers actually like them. However in reality every dancer in the club sees you and all the customers as nothing more than walking ATMs.
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6 years ago
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ei8ht_BallStill don't know what I'm doing here . . .
It's been a week. Still trying to recover lol
But on a serious note that's what other hobbies are for! Keep you occupied in between OTC fun
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6 years ago
@Subraman
I know I won't get another one because I'm out of the strip club game. I'm still in contact with my ATF and I'm hoping that we get closer, but if it ends then oh well. I was thinking of picking up where I left off with my car hobby
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6 years ago
Do you think maybe she forgot about you? She sees hundreds of people a week.
Being forgotten is almost as bad as being played
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6 years ago
I hope I never reach the point I have to let go of my ATF/CF. I've only had one favorite ever. I won't ever find another one
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6 years ago
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ei8ht_BallStill don't know what I'm doing here . . .
Haven't been in the game long enough. Haven't reached that point yet, but I haven't actually given much thought to this. However I think Papi Chulo is correct. Unless you and your CF/ATF have ascended to a friendship/relationship outside of the club.
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6 years ago
I've seen plenty of girls at my local clubs with fishnets/hosiery on! It looks great! I've gotten dances from girls in hosiery without a problem!
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6 years ago
I prefer lingerie! Especially if it has garter belts or any form of hosiery! Oh and high heels are always a MUST!
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6 years ago
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daniel99Palm trees, bad bitches and wannabees
I was joking about Venezuela! Don't actually go there! The entire country is falling apart! The government is clashing with the people and the entire economy is collapsing. The whole situation with Maduro is pushing the entire country closer and closer to total anarchy.
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6 years ago
Yeah seriously do NOT fall in love with a dancer. Been there done that. It ain't fun. You'll only come out with a broken heart and an empty wallet.
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6 years ago
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daniel99Palm trees, bad bitches and wannabees
Go to Venezuela! I hear it is nice this time of year! (Just ignore the failing economy and civil unrest and I think you should be fine)
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6 years ago
Stay at home and don't spend any money! You'll be doing yourself a favor!
On a serious note, try to see if the club has any lap dance specials. Lots of places have special deals on certain days of the week.
As for OTC, you can ask them stuff like "Hey do you meet people outside the club often?"
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6 years ago
Hey Constantine, I sure hope you're not serious about dating a stripper. I thought that was a good idea and it didn't go anywhere. It didn't give me any happiness, it just gave me frustration. Dating a stripper isn't like dating a normal girl. Are you sure you'd be okay with what she does on a day to day basis without evoking jealousy? What if she does OTC extras with other men? Are you sure you'd be okay with that? If you answer no to those then I don't think you're ready.
Don't make irrational choices based off of how you feel in the moment. For your sake I hope all of this is just a giant troll thread.
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6 years ago
I used to. My friend is the one that introduced me into the world of strip clubs. Before he introduced me into it, I didn't want anything to do with strip clubs. One visit changed my mind. Curiosity brought me back and then it is all history from there. My friends see it all as mindless fun. The novelty wore off for them a long time ago. We used to all go together as a group and have a great time.
One by one they lost interest, but not me. I had a reason to go back. It wasn't a good reason, but a reason nonetheless. Eventually I decided to call it quits as well.
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6 years ago
It seems like everything you have is just a temporary placeholder in your quest for happiness. You seek the intimate love/interaction right? It seems like you kind of want something serious. And that's completely fine, but I don't think you'll find it in a strip club or through fucking random strippers.
Don't make the same mistake I did. Don't go searching for affection in a place where it is nearly impossible to find. Save yourself the heartbreak and search for this longed affection out in the real world.
Don't let life pass you by my friend. It's never too late.