Why won't ATF just reply NO
Darkblue999
Somewhere in the club
Here is what happened.
Whenever I text my ATF she instantly replies if she is coming to a club . I took 5 months break from clubbing.I texted ATF to see if she is coming to the club.She did not reply.Texted again is she is working or not.No reply. I dont understand why she won't say NO. If she is not working just say not working or not coming.Why dont they answer?? No negative or positive.I also asked if she quit working at the club.No reply.
Whenever I text my ATF she instantly replies if she is coming to a club . I took 5 months break from clubbing.I texted ATF to see if she is coming to the club.She did not reply.Texted again is she is working or not.No reply. I dont understand why she won't say NO. If she is not working just say not working or not coming.Why dont they answer?? No negative or positive.I also asked if she quit working at the club.No reply.
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5 months is like three years in stripper years. Are you sure she's still dancing? Maybe she got a new number?
You should PM that Dominic guy. He only goes to club once every couple years, but he still manages to have an ATF. Maybe he can help you out.
Being forgotten is almost as bad as being played
1. It's personal. You're a pain in the ass, if she texts you "no", she knows you'll start texting her why, trying to get OTC, or whatever else she's trying to avoid.
2. It's not personal. But she's taking a break from stripping, either permanently or temporarily, and psychologically it's just better for her to put stripping & customers aside, clean break. Besides, it's not just you texting her, it's 20 other guys, too, plus a bunch of her stripper "friends" she's also trying to avoid ... a decision to start replying to ex-customers, is a decision to spend a lot of time texting them
I've known several strippers who, every time they take a break from dancing, change their phone number (or if it's google voice, drop their google voice entirely), so there's a decent chance she's not seeing any of your texts
May be she got married and quit dancing.
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This. She probably forgot about you 4.75 months ago when you stopped being a customer.
I think Subraman's #2 option is most likely what's going on. But even if it isn't, what's the use worrying about a reply? Draw your own conclusions and move on.
Brotha you gots to know how to speak Stripperneese.
She dont see anybody OTC.
She still uses same number.
She told me before whenever I want to see her at club text her before I go.
It's fine if she dont want to see me , why dont she say that.its not professional.
He wants to feel special, and he has awkward social skills, so he believes the dancer remembers him.
He also thinks he deserves a reply from this dancer.
Let it go! You aren’t special. Luckily that stripper isn’t special either - and you can find a replacement in a trip to the club with a wad of $20’s! Your welcome!!!
...OR...
You can stop acting like a whiny self-entitled d-bag and understand that she's under no obligation to respond to you just because you popped her a random text, especially after 5 months away.
You are a needy little bitch.
Yeah, one of those on here is enough.
@Darkblue999
You won't get any respect from bitches by being a bitch. Never be clingy and never let them think they can always count on you. The only bitch who should always be able to count on you is your main bitch if you have one.
If she cancels on you or isn't at the club, your reply should be "I'll just spend it on another bitch here" and tell her you can't come back next week coz you just spent your club money on someone else. Its all about reward and punishment.
And everyone is right, she doesn't owe you a thing. Everything at the club is just a fantasy you're paying for.
Maybe she just doesn't enjoy obsessed, controlling, whiney bitches and blocking your texts is her passive aggressive way of trying to get rid of you.
You gave all 3 options
In the stripper mind, she probably thinks
1- she's keeping options open by not committing an answer. Or
2-she doesn't remember you or
3- doesn't care
Is OP Indian by chance?
She's trying to run a business and you're being creepy af and annoying. You sound like a whiney little incel piece of shit and I hope ypu either get help or get your ass beat by a girl.
She's avoiding you, dude. I wouldn't text you back either if I was in her shoes. For her safety, leave her alone.