My experience just from conversations with dancers, and from things I have read, is that they don't like giving guys LDKs. They want guys to want them, to fuck them, and to possess them.
But a guy who just wants to cum in his pants? No, they only do that for the money, and they don't think much of the guys who go that way.
For myself, I do not go that way. I substitute DATYing the girl in the dance booth. That always goes over well.
But still, buying dances is a chump's game. Better to get a front room makeout session going and only invite her to the back room when it is time for your own pants to come down.
And you need to be ready to take the girl home with you and to spend the night with her, as that is likely how it will go.
In our underground circuit, all the girls are always lining up all the OTC, and immediate OTC, that they can. And they make this very known.
The places where girls sell dances with no real front room intimacy, these are the modern version of clip joints.
SJG
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Reading that makes me want to go to a strip club and get a lap dance for myself. I've found many girls really enjoyed what they did to me. Or at least they fake it very well.
"He always kept his hands to his side. He never touched me and that was another reason why I liked him."
This contradicts the rest of what she described. I call BS on the write up. It was written by a guy trying to sound like a stripper.
They might post this on StripperWeb, except it would be sanitized. There are definitely parts SW groupthink like show off to the "rah-rah sisterhood":
+ "I knew I could get almost any guy at the club kicked out"
+ "most of the guys I decided to have as my regulars were quiet [sic] sweet."
+ "He always kept his hands to his side. He never touched me and that was another reason why I liked him."
+ "“Sure, don’t worry I’ll pay for your time” he replied."
+ "Ed paid me ... and gave me a very generous tip."
+ "good, reliable customer and I never felt pressure with him,"
Especially #3. ;)
Then they'd de-emphasize all the cumming, and the visuals (that's a guys thing), anything about her *enjoying* a lap dance, and the big cock references (also a guy's preoccupation). They'd also emphasize on her being a top-earner. They would actually expect him not to make much if any eye contact (duh, that's why he's there!). Basically the mirror opposite of what we'd focus on or write on a customer site.
Seems like something a guy (POV) would write, though. Reads more like a guy's submission to [view link]. It reads less like "I'm a lioness of power" and more like "I'm a nice guy that earns it, but even though I want more, I will never admit to it" or some crap like that.
@JeffTUSCL:
How does the sitting on his hands part in any way contradict the rest of the story? I can practically LDK (well, lots and lots of pre-cum leakage and feel good) while still getting a dance with my hands at my side. [view link]
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