Reasons you stopped seeing a CF
NJBalla
Have you ever seen a girl frequently and then just quit cold turkey? I've cut off a few frequently for the following reasons. What are yours?
1.) Visits started to feel transactional. I'd literally walk in the club and she'd ignore me unless another girl starting to cozy up to me. Then she'd make conversation until I was ready for the dance. Dance would always blow my socks off, but after dance it was back to little conversation.
2.) LD or extras became too mechanical.
3.) Personal issues started to wreck the experience. One girl from Brazil started confided that she was stabbed when pregnant, was an illegal immigrant, and could not return to Brazil to see her son.
In all experiences I just stopped visiting the club when the girl was present or stopped visiting the girl altogether. I may plan to visit some time in the future, but they are definitely out of the starting lineup.
1.) Visits started to feel transactional. I'd literally walk in the club and she'd ignore me unless another girl starting to cozy up to me. Then she'd make conversation until I was ready for the dance. Dance would always blow my socks off, but after dance it was back to little conversation.
2.) LD or extras became too mechanical.
3.) Personal issues started to wreck the experience. One girl from Brazil started confided that she was stabbed when pregnant, was an illegal immigrant, and could not return to Brazil to see her son.
In all experiences I just stopped visiting the club when the girl was present or stopped visiting the girl altogether. I may plan to visit some time in the future, but they are definitely out of the starting lineup.
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last comment1. Can't get her OTC, and we've reached our limit ITC, so nowhere to go -- I like the excitement of constantly doing more and more
2. ATF started getting popular (rightfully so, one of the most beautiful women I've ever seen in a strip club, and incredibly engaging and fun to talk to), and our leisurely 4 hour visits started turning into "hang out for an hour and then run off with another customer." No ill will, but not the experience I'm looking for, so I moved on.
It's been fairly rare that, by the time I consider a stripper a CF, she turned around and made things feel transactional, ignore me for other customers, make me wait half an hour before she gets to me, etc., the types of stories I've heard many of you guys tell. Maybe one of the benefits of being a good regular during slow(er) shifts.
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Damn straight. You want to compete with me, you better up your game, motherfuckers.
Of course she comes over, she knows which side of her bread is buttered.
I've had girls stand up while some loser is still talking to them, leave their drink, and come over to join me before I even have time to sit down.
Girls getting too popular used to not bug me, but not every girl can manage it respectfully. Some tend to be akward about it. I appreciate the girls who are upfront as may say "I owe this guy a dance first"
I know I won't get another one because I'm out of the strip club game. I'm still in contact with my ATF and I'm hoping that we get closer, but if it ends then oh well. I was thinking of picking up where I left off with my car hobby
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To be honest I don't even think its that great for strippers. Eventually it takes a toll. It gets old and the regular becomes more of a nuisance sometimes, if they get too attached.
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The exception would be if she changes her look drastically. IE too much weight gain, change to unappealing hairstyle, etc. Then I'd reconsider until she's sexual attractive again.
So a couple of months later I get a text she is back on her regular schedule. The next week I go to the club and there's her car. I don't see her when I enter, but after a short time they call her to the stage. Out she comes from the dressing room with these super overdone preposterous breasts! What a turn off. I did tell her before I left that her "trip to Europe" ruined her in my book
You stop seeing them after they tell you for the tenth time that you can't have a BF/GF relationship.
Other than that it's usually because it takes them hours longer to meet up than initially promised and I'm at the club getting dances in order to forget them. But I'll stick around if she's good enough that this is worth putting up with.
Girl had some serious issues. When the SS goes in the direction of "you're the only customer I've ever felt this way about" it gets seriously weird fast, but her tears made it believable.