Comments by jsully63 (page 9)

Negotiate better and be patient. No need to jump at the first shiny object that comes over and says hello I wish I had the poker face then that I have now

Put him on ignore

I think we just share a similar warped sense of humor

https://youtu.be/AmclgO6w0C0 Reminded me of this.

Hey Skibum good for you. Taking the wife to Mario’s this weekend. Think you and I will be having a similar night Nicespuce thanks for being a voice of reason here. I hope you will continue to post once you start your life as a custie.

Been happening to me for the past 4 or 5 days

@nicole my wife often comes to a club with me. If I go on my own I usually let her know. Am I still cheating?

If I go to a club with the intention of negotiating for services and I enjoy the experience I’ve revived good value for my money. Doesn’t really matter what the dancer thinks of me. It’s a transaction. It business. I appreciate her services. She gets paid. What we may think of each other is irrelevant. We’re adults. This isn’t high school. I travel to Europe frequently and prostitution is legal in many places. Only in America do we make such a big deal of it. What’s your point? Grow up

I thought you were leaving

Catholic priest and treat your custies like altar boys.

Agreed.

I love my wife. I like strippers. My wife likes them as well. No delusions of reality here.

Don Julio 1942 but you won’t find it in most clubs and if you did they’d charge a ridiculous amount for it. Otherwise a good west coast IPA

Members here come and go all the time without making an announcement. What makes you different that requires you to tell us your leaving?

The last club I was at the dancer was checking her Apple Watch while she gave me a dance. Really bad customer service. Stopped after one dance. No tip. As far as dancers in the club being on the phone sure as @pinksugardoll says it America so you can choose to do that if you want. I won’t be bothered by it. However IMO a dancer is in a customer service job and you are an entertainer. Being on your phone for an excessive period of time does not provide good customer service. I’m not shy to approach you for a dance but if your texting away ignoring customers I won’t spend my money on you. It just sends a message of I don’t really care about my job. I’m happy to spend money in a club but I at least want the illusion you are slightly interested in entertaining me for my $$

My wife will come with me to a club as she gets turned in watching the girls. If we are at the stage dancers will usually come right over to her. I think the smart dancers can see we are there as a warm up and the gladlyvflirt with her to drain my wallet. They know that if she goes home happy I’m happy to spend on the dancers.

@ninabambina too smoke a blunt have some good conversation and fuck

Chacon at Golden Banana. Doesn’t ask if you want a lap dance. Asks if you’d like some great boobs in your face. Let’s you know a lap dance is going to be high contact. During a dance asks if your having a good time. Wants to be sure you are satisfied with her. Good value and talks to you like you’ve been best friends for20 years. Never feel hustled.

If SJG were my neighbor first I’d hide the sheep. Then I’d invite him over to smoke a joint and discuss world events. Unless of course the ankle bracelet keeps him from leaving the house.

SJG is off the rails but he’s the car accident you can’t help but stop and look at as your driving by. He’s bat shit crazy but he’s harmles. I think?

My wife likes to go to the club with me and is fine if I go on my own. Pick your partners wisely if you want to be a regular at this.

I agree the mileage during a dance is at the dancers discretion. However as a customer if we don’t know the dancer we don’t know what her limits are and I’ve never had a dancer tell me her limits upfront before starting a dance. Sometimes a dancer will give you some cues about touching when we get started but if she doesn’t do that I have to test the waters and find out. If she says no so be it. I’m not going to get mad. However as a dancer you should let us know upfront what on the menu for our money. If I go to a restaraunt there’s a menu. With an unknown dancer they’ll never be upfront since they don’t wNt to lose a sale.

You are an opportunity for both dancers to make some extra cash. If your interested and have the money pursue both of them. This is just business for them. It’s not personal and you are free to spend your money as you see fit. Yes it is very likely that the girls will talk and will eventually realize you’ve done OTC with both of them but neither one is your girlfriend so enjoy. They may get bitchy with each other since they both want your $$ but that’s not your problem. If it happens use it as leverage to get a better deal.

Most owners know their regular girls will pull in their customers and essentially do the promoting work for them.

The club I’m going to tomorrow night is having a back to school contest. Naughty teachers and schoolgirls. Diggity