I would tell myself to not go into the club. I would tell myself that it wouldn't be worth it.
The strip club is fun, but it didn't do me any good. I don't think I was ever cut out for the strip club scene. I made the classic rookie mistake of falling for a dancer. It didn't turn out terribly as most people warned, but it didn't turn out the way I wanted to either. My ATF means a lot to me and she will always have a place in my heart, but sometimes I wish I never met her.
I lay awake at night wondering how different my life could have been if all the time and effort I spent at the club was invested somewhere else.
Oh I learned my lesson alright. Maybe one of these days I'll go back, but as of right now I think I'm done. It's all OTC with my ATF from here on out. It is time to leave fantasy land behind.
I would tell myself, “focus on your career and education. Disposible income and wealth are needed to club with any regularity or for dicier activities.”
I barely listen to myself now, why would I listen to myself back then ;)
But srsly, back then get more contacts. Missed out on many a faves and potential faves. Although if I did get as many contacts then, I'd tell myself don't juggle so many faves. Bad for the wallet :P
Negotiate better and be patient. No need to jump at the first shiny object that comes over and says hello
I wish I had the poker face then that I have now
For me this was the early 90's during the 'hey day' of the strip club scene (near) where I live now, but grew up very nearby (COI), where there were a few straight out orgy palaces going on that I mostly missed out on, and caught the tail end of..... "Fuck buying all that porn, and video games and movies and music, go visit Hawaii Theater! NOW!" You think COI is the extra haven it is now, especially with all the internet intel....... Back then you didn't need it, all you had to do was show up!
I would give myself investing advice to avoid large investment losses. My strip club expenses seem puny in comparison and I often got something for the money.
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The strip club is fun, but it didn't do me any good. I don't think I was ever cut out for the strip club scene. I made the classic rookie mistake of falling for a dancer. It didn't turn out terribly as most people warned, but it didn't turn out the way I wanted to either. My ATF means a lot to me and she will always have a place in my heart, but sometimes I wish I never met her.
I lay awake at night wondering how different my life could have been if all the time and effort I spent at the club was invested somewhere else.
Oh I learned my lesson alright. Maybe one of these days I'll go back, but as of right now I think I'm done. It's all OTC with my ATF from here on out. It is time to leave fantasy land behind.
doing that would’ve saved me a half million dollars.
But srsly, back then get more contacts. Missed out on many a faves and potential faves. Although if I did get as many contacts then, I'd tell myself don't juggle so many faves. Bad for the wallet :P
I wish I had the poker face then that I have now
I had a good time my first time in the Southeast, just spent way way too much.
2. Why did you come to a strip club with only $30?
Enjoy this place - and never forget this place where $.25 is considered a decent tip!