. . . the most honest, straightforward, down to earth, non-hustling CF you've ever had. Did you ever question whether or not it's too good to be true? And did she ever do anything to change your opinion of her?
I don't know if this answers your question or not...
My CF validated her position early on when she handed back the $20 tip I gave her. She said I didn't have that many dances. I gave her the $20 plus another one for the honesty. She spends quite a bit of time with me and doesn't rush to get dances and seems satisfied with whatever I give her. She often spends about an hour with me before we do dances.
Yeah, I know, the long game. But it does get me to look forward to seeing her and I do feel like I get great value.
As for SS, I'm sure she dishes it out, but nothing over the top that is obvious. We know a lot about each other, the good, bad, and ugly. I genuinely care about her, not as BF/GF but more like a supportive friend that makes me horny as hell.
Chacon at Golden Banana. Doesn’t ask if you want a lap dance. Asks if you’d like some great boobs in your face. Let’s you know a lap dance is going to be high contact. During a dance asks if your having a good time. Wants to be sure you are satisfied with her. Good value and talks to you like you’ve been best friends for20 years. Never feel hustled.
I think the long game is great if it means she values you as a customer and wants to keep things going as they are . . . but at the same time, if the long game turns out to be something more, you don't find out until you've spend a lot of time and money with her, unless you've been incredibly perceptive . . .
All the time. I never feel hustled by the strippers I fuck with.
The most straight forward, non hustle experience I ever had probably came from a hoe though. I had just broken with someone and was feeling down and said fuck it, I was gonna see her. But she wouldn't do it, she told me I was too good of a guy and its just gonna be an empty fuck and Im depressed coz I want more than that. She bought me a 40 and we chilled for a while just talking.
I meant that I know many of you would call it that. It may be, but I think it is more her recognizing that she benefits from cultivating a dependable customer just as I value the benefits of developing the relationship with a fav.
"I think it is more her recognizing that she benefits from cultivating a dependable customer just as I value the benefits of developing the relationship with a fav."
I feel the same way. And have yet to see a sign that she sees it any different..
The first time I met one of my favorites, she sat in my lap for 2 hours and made my butt go numb. She let me feel her up and even offered to go change her outfit for me to something that would help my hands explore more. When I was done, I asked her how much she wanted, prepared to pay at least $400 and she said $60-$100 would be fine (I gave her $200).
My ATF sort of fits that description, she does zero SS. But it's not really a good thing. Yes you get honesty but that also includes the fact that she is terrible at pretending to like you or hiding it when she isn't interested in what you have to say. Because of this she can't keep regulars very long. She tends to get really intense regulars who latch on super hard and then get into massive fights/arguments with her after a short term. I am the only regular she has ever successfully kept long term, I figured her out pretty quick and then had to be really careful at first around her. The relationship is way more like a vanilla friendship including a few fights.
Yes she is also a ROB. Her ROB exploits (and DO NOT take this as me defending her) are motivated to hurt those she deems morally bankrupt versus a traditional say Cuban ROB who targets people who are weak and offer the highest likely hood of financial gain. I tend to think that a lot of ROBs are probably that way. They are OK with stealing from people they hate.
With me she (with one exception) has always under counted songs and been super generous. That said I am not an idiot and just because a lion purrs and lets you pet it doesn't mean it isn't capable of incredible violence. I know what she is capable of. In fact I think her being open about her being a ROB has been really good to help me not idealize or fall in love with her.
So super unique dancer. I have been working on an article about her but it will be ages before I ever publish it.
Unless you're getting money from her or keeping her high, she just sees you as a trick ITC, unless its a friend you knew before she started dancing and you just support her sometimes.
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My CF validated her position early on when she handed back the $20 tip I gave her. She said I didn't have that many dances. I gave her the $20 plus another one for the honesty. She spends quite a bit of time with me and doesn't rush to get dances and seems satisfied with whatever I give her. She often spends about an hour with me before we do dances.
Yeah, I know, the long game. But it does get me to look forward to seeing her and I do feel like I get great value.
As for SS, I'm sure she dishes it out, but nothing over the top that is obvious. We know a lot about each other, the good, bad, and ugly. I genuinely care about her, not as BF/GF but more like a supportive friend that makes me horny as hell.
I think the long game is great if it means she values you as a customer and wants to keep things going as they are . . . but at the same time, if the long game turns out to be something more, you don't find out until you've spend a lot of time and money with her, unless you've been incredibly perceptive . . .
The most straight forward, non hustle experience I ever had probably came from a hoe though. I had just broken with someone and was feeling down and said fuck it, I was gonna see her. But she wouldn't do it, she told me I was too good of a guy and its just gonna be an empty fuck and Im depressed coz I want more than that. She bought me a 40 and we chilled for a while just talking.
I meant that I know many of you would call it that. It may be, but I think it is more her recognizing that she benefits from cultivating a dependable customer just as I value the benefits of developing the relationship with a fav.
I feel the same way. And have yet to see a sign that she sees it any different..
With me she (with one exception) has always under counted songs and been super generous. That said I am not an idiot and just because a lion purrs and lets you pet it doesn't mean it isn't capable of incredible violence. I know what she is capable of. In fact I think her being open about her being a ROB has been really good to help me not idealize or fall in love with her.
So super unique dancer. I have been working on an article about her but it will be ages before I ever publish it.
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